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Nonbinary transmasculine flag based off of my heliacal transmasculine flag (link)
Transmascs: whether you’re on T or not, which effect of T is the least appealing to you?
Voice changes
Body fat distribution
Mood changes
Body hair
Facial hair
Bottom growth
Skin texture / oil changes
Facial feature change
Adam’s Apple
Other change not listed here
Multiple of the above equally
See results / not transmasc button
When I found out I'm trans nonbinary ten years ago, I automatically assumed I'm transmasculine as well. Afab people who don't (exclusively) identify as a woman, would be transmasculine and amab people who don't (exclusively) identify as a man, would be transfeminine. And since then, I never really thought that much about it anymore.
But since someone close to me, who doesn't fit this simple definition, recently came out to me as transmasculine, I started questioning myself too. Of course I don't have to. Two people can use the same label with contradicting definitions and still respect each others identities. But it made me realize, that the definition that I used for myself until now, starts to feel like a binary with extra steps. It would basically just mean afab trans. It's a discussion on it's own how (in)accurate and (un)important the afab/amab binary is. But either way, I'm not sure if I actively want to use a label for my genderidenty that is basically just that. And also use the transmasc pride flag everywhere, like I do with all my other pride flags.
Now of course I can just find a new definition and depending on that, still decide to call myself transmasculine. But I have no idea what that definition would be. There are so many definitions online. Some would fit me, some don't. For example that transmasculine means that you're simply both transgender and masculine. But making a separate label for that, doesn't make much sense to me. Yes, I am both. But putting those two things in one word? Another example is transitioning to become more masculine. A, compared to what you used to have, "more masculine" name, pronouns, gendermarker, clothes, hair, hormones, chest, genitalia, etc. I did some of those, but not all. So I would fit that definition too. But it feels a bit too simple and medical. Everyone's transition is different. And not the same thing as genderidentity.
I don't relate to a lot of other people who call themselves transmasc. That doesn't have to be a problem. Transmasc people are diverse. But it is another reason for me to question the label for myself. A lot of people see transmasc as almost synonym for trans man, which I'm definitely not. And I know a lot of trans people. But the majority is transfemme. Maybe just because transfemme people are usually more active in transcommunities in general. But still. I notice that I usually connect easier with transfeminine people. But there are exceptions of course.
I'm not saying that I'm not transmasculine and that I will immediately throw all my transmasc pride merch out. But I can't confidently say anymore that I am. I just don't know.
I know that there are also people who use other terms that are similar to the transmasculine and transfeminine labels. Like transneutral, transandrogynous and many more. It does make sense that this is something you can't put in a binary either. But I still don't really know what any transsomething label means now. Is it simply trans+opposite of assigned sex at birth or trans+genderexpression or something else?
Maybe I will just call myself trans nonbinary and that that's it.
he's going to burn you creature: he will never understand the beauty of your acorn accept the present of your leaves you will say his name and it will fall on his ears as though he was built without them. you are his "truly me" doll and it is all you will ever be. pray before your angel: not the one made of plaster instead sound's colors compose his voice the one that is always understanding playing through the cd player stolen from the closet. the one with red justice in his voice and purple compassion in his tone. all you know is van helsing loves you: pushing you onward and upward his "der sternflammende" and when he sees "his mina" has followed their "man's brain" instead of their "woman's heart" van helsing simply names you "friend." even if his blind eyes never see everything even if he never understands: you are "friend." creature, split yourself in two: find love is knowing when to lock the leaf in the drawer the door to the organ to put on the face of mina swallow your anger swallow your pride. for the world, you make dr. jekyll. those you trust? find mr. hyde. "those who love? seek. and, creatures? they shall find. even when the wind blows bleak, the seeker's fate has been divined: love unburries the frozen rose dormant beneath the snow that flowers may bloom and, once more, grow. yet, no love is queerer, or less likely to impose: than one that locks the door on who it is and only when you truly look, ever starts to live."
~ "The Creature's Tale" p.s. shuller (Trans Day of Remembrance 2025)
flag id: a flag with 6 stripes, which are red-pink, very light sky blue, sky blue, dark dull indigo, soft purple, light yellow, and red-pink. end id.
banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.
transmasculine nonbinary flag for anon!
tags: @radiomogai, @dragonpride17 | dni link
I really need to yap out of frustration rn so ignore this or read it if you want
Why tf do ppl feel the need to tell others how to feel or that they have to feel a certain way for their identity to be accepted. Like eugh bro stop trying to force people into your boxes so you can digest it. My identity doesnt have to be digestible to you and i won’t change myself for you. Telling people they have to feel dysphoria to be trans is weird and stupid, some people just don’t experience it and you don’t get to tell them their identity isn’t valid because they don’t feel dysphoria and you don’t get to tell them that they actually do feel that way when they really don’t. Like I’ve had this person try to tell me any discomfort even minor means I have dysphoria like that justifies my transness or something like..no? I don’t care how people perceive me idgaf about if my body looks feminine or if I look feminine I don’t care if people use the wrong pronouns honestly I don’t care. The only time I would care is if you are specifically calling me a girl TO BE RUDE. Like at that point it’s not about what you’re calling me it’s about your lack of respect and decency. I could care less that you think I’m a girl but if you feel the need to go out of your way to rub it in my face Youre a dick and can shove it up your ass cuz that’s weird as hell. STOP TRYING TO TELL ME HOW I FEEL AND STOP TRYING TO FORCE OTHERS TO BE DIGESTIBLE FOR YOU GOD DAMN I JUST WANT TO EXIST AND BE ME. IM THE ONLY ONE WHO KNOWS HOW I THINK AND FEEL STOPPPP
Any other AFAB trans people like man sometimes I want to tear my boobs off my chest and other times like oh these are okay and other times like fuck havung boobs is kinda cool sometimes
I might just got with a reduction instead of full top surgery honestly, wearing a binder wouldnt be so bad if I didnt have a large chest
HAPPY PRIDE!