#consent is mandatory

[dollymeup]

Periodic kink blog reminder that:

Real sexism is not sexy.

Real sexual harassment is not hot, it’s awful.

Real women don’t owe you anything for simply existing.

If you’re doing anything without consent, you are objectively wrong, vile, and a predator.

If you disagree with any of the above, unfollow me and seek professional help.

[viscountessnila]

currently thinking about:

நீ செய்தது தவறு. பெண்களின் மேல் கை வைத்தால் வெட்ட வேண்டியது விரல்களை அல்ல, தலையை!

What you did was wrong. If a man touches women without their consent, you shouldn't cut off his fingers - you should cut off his head.

[gekshi]

so many thoughts all at once, let's see how many i can active types until i lose my mind (update: yes i typed these all out free thought who the hell am i today??)

TW/CW!!! DUBCON AND CNC AS WELL AS MORE SERIOUS STUFF MENTIONED BELOW!!!

puppy girl presenting to sweetly, wagging her tail while she drools on the floor

barking to get their attention so blatantly that people simply don't question why you'd bark in the middle of a busy restaurant

looking up at him with glossy eyes as he grips your collar, adoring you like the animal you were made to be. a shame it took you months to finally accept your fate, huh?

having a casual conversation with her, engrossed in your little rant about your interests before she slaps your face and laughs at the shock you have - "sorry you were sounding really dumb, just had to remind you that you're supposed to be a quiet kitty on my lap"

two fingers shoved down your throat, your saliva coated their fingers and dribbling down your chin while you're pounded from behind

oh oh think of this, walked EARLY MORNING booty naked, only a collar and leach to call "clothes" while you jog with your owner before they go to work (maybe even stop for a quickie and a piss break who knows)

bag over your head, ties on your wrists and ankles binding you to a chair while you're being told to count the times you get shocked in a different language each time - you happen to only know two so guess who keeps getting shocked? it was a losing game and you knew it

on the phone with an unknown number threatening to shoot you through a window unless you strip and edge yourself in front of the window their watching you from (said stranger could've left some blood for you to paint your body with too maybe)

hand scruffing you and holding your hands back, holding you down near a barrel of water while you try to steady your legs to hold you up- you tremble on your tip toes trying not to be drowned while you're fingered relentlessly. the murmured voices watching you whisper taunts and reassurance that you're strong enough to fight for your life right? (either way they'd still take their turns with you, moving or not ) after five hours of fighting, you simply don't know if it's better to give up or cum again </3

WOW that was a lot, yeah i'm gonna go shower now phew 🤧 gonna go back and put a CW bc wow...didn't even know i could think of that stuff whattt

[rockstar-vamp]

Consent is so sexy

[whatareyoureallyafraidof]

Consent is mandatory.

[beautifulbruisedandbrokenboy]

So, I was arguing with someone over the importance that first C in any play at all with a real-life person, that it needs to be established or else it's literally you are committing a sex crime under the guise of kink. They thought I was saying porn and kink need to be hidden and shameful and that I didn't think we deserve to be open in kink, and that actually, I am an anti-sex and anti-kink Puritan in disguise.

I very nearly linked this blog to them. I nearly revealed who I am just so I could their reaction to how wrong they are. I desperately wanted to show them me r34 because they would have dies on the spot However bad and intense and dark I get here, this is downright vanilla compared to my r34.) I didn't, but god, I wanted to.

But anyway, that first C in CNC is absolutely essential in any kink interaction with another person. I can fantasize about dropping that all I want, but the second I interact with a real person it needs to be CNC so that I am not committing a horrible crime against them. If you cannot understand the important of consent in any human interaction but especially in CNC kink, you are an unsafe play partner and you are a hazard to your partners and need to step back until you figure this out.

[ll-madame-minty-chip-ll]

CONSENT IS HOT/IMPORTANT

No matter what instance, if it's platonic/romantic, Consent should always be used before touching someone, even if it's a hug or a simple high-five, consent will ALWAYS be important in a relationship/friendship!

[poorunfortunatesolanin]

No but seriously, You know what would be so hot and sexy? Somebody asking for consent ;)

Like for example if I was kissing someone and they politely asked “May I please jam my tongue down your throat?” Instead of just doing so without asking.

Like that’d be so hot, but do you know what would make it even hotter?

If I said no, they gave a confirmation they heard and accepted my no, and we went back to exactly what we were doing before they asked.

No whining or convincing me to change my mind, no disrespecting my no, no change in mood, just exactly back to how it was.

Like that’d be so hot and sexy like omgggg 😩🩷