Type of Caregivers || Part One || 2025 Version
Hey, just a lil reminder that these are all my personal thoughts, and it's totally okay if you see these types of CGs differently! Everyone's experiences and ideas are valid. 💕
Also, just wanna say—these are all gender-inclusive! You don’t have to be any specific gender to be any of these CGs. Anyone can be an amazing caregiver, no matter who they are! 🌈✨
Balanced Authority: gentle guidance without being overbearing. (Will remind you to drink water or tea, but still allow you energy drinks and take you for iced coffee)
Silent wisdom and encouragement
Clear expectations but sometimes falter with enforcing them
Enjoys creating loose schedules, planning memorable outings and balanced routines
Protective (including littles that aren’t theirs)
Loves to give favorite treats and rewards
No bad littles, just misunderstood ones (Keep this emotion in check as some littles can be and are manipulative)
Deeply empathetic and focus on understanding the root cause of misbehavior
Spoils their little rotten/sweet
SPONTANEOUS! (whether it be a surprise road trip, a drive to find the best pizza, or a cozy night with their little’s favorite treats)
Almost superhuman patience
Just wants their little to be happy
Protective, prioritizing safety and well-being without being as stern as a Papa or Father CG
More stern than a Papa or Daddy
Expresses love through quiet acts of service and watchful guidance
Not always overly affectionate
Meticulous planners that value routine, schedules and stability and safety
Source of wisdom and practical advice
Keeps track of receipts ( for taxes), filing the gas tank or setting aside savings (Often without their little even realising)
In a crisis they offer honest and no-nonsense solutions
Helps navigate the toughest situations with rock solid support
The heart of the CG world
Warmth and gentle authority
Makes you feel safe and cherished
Encourages you to be your best self
Celebrates growth and achievements
Unconditional love (with clear guidance and boundaries)
Good at managing multiple littles
Gently and firmly reminds you to take care of yourself
“You can’t pour from an empty cup”
“Good job little one! I’m soso proud of you!”
Hugs and roadmaps for life
Will let you stay up past your bedtime lol
BUT will turn on the stern mode when needed
Will sneak you an extra cookie (If you promise to brush your teeth after)
Great listener and confidant
Advice and support without judgement
Teaches through fun activities
Veggies first, then a big ol cake slice
Will take you for a walk or drive and let you vent the whole way