#digitaldiary

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[honeytonedhottie]

how to free yourself from people pleasing permanently⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍨🎀

if ur done living for the approval of others, feeling the pressure of always having to make everyone else happy while neglecting yourself then this post is for you…💬🎀

BE SELF AWARE ;

the first step to change is becoming aware of ur behavior. do u say yes even when u really wanna say no? do u constantly walk on eggshells in the fear of being misunderstood? do you water urself down to be digestible to people? if u answered yes to any of these questions, chances are u have people pleasing tendencies.

WHY DO WE PEOPLE PLEASE? ;

a lot of us learnt people pleasing as a survival mechanism. we started people pleasing to fit in, or maybe we were taught from an early age that being a "good person" meant keeping everyone happy but yourself, and that love was conditional.

THE STEPS TO TAKE ;

change ur environment - if u cannot change ur environment drastically u can always change little things about it, for example changing the people you talk with everyday, taking new routes, putting yourself in new environments and planning ur next big moves

reconnect with ur authentic self - journal, reflect, be alone. figure out what you like, want, need. people pleasing disconnects you from your own identity, learn who you are WITHOUT the people pleasing performing tendencies

STAND ON BUSINESS ;

to finish off, ur not here to be liked by everyone, some people might get uncomfortable when you stop over-explaining yourself or putting them first, but that’s not your burden to carry anymore. its ur life so why shouldn't u put urself first?

im not telling u to go out and be a terrible person im telling u to listen to yourself for once. think "what does (insert ur name) want?" instead of what u should do to appease to others. dont overextend urself for crumbs girls. choose you always 💕

[3p1cn00b]

Kindergarten doodles again!!!!

I need to stop liking so many Monty ships, he canonically says “hot diggity dog” he should not be shipped with as many people as I ship him with..he should lonely for saying that actually

Digitaldiary WILL take up a lot of the room because they are cuties and they deserve most of the screen..ok…ok..

Also Kidd is in one of them plastic cars..I just..Didnt wanna get a reference because I’m lazy🥹✌️

Btw guess epic’s favourite character level impossible/j

[ohpassenger]

someone really liked gale in the animation team i feel like

[pennydroidstars0]

🇧🇷: Digitaldiary fanart!!! Ok, estranhanhamente me sinto tão confortável desenhando esse shipp :v (aliás, antes era pra ser um angst. Mas pra falar a verdade, nem parece que é um angst. Lol)

🇺🇸: Digitaldiary fanart!!! Okay, strangely enough I feel so comfortable drawing this ship :v (by the way, it was supposed to be angst. But to tell the truth, it doesn't even look like angst. Lol)

[quietscribblesdiary]

A New Chapter ✨

Hello, strangers.🌙 Just a quiet soul exploring a new space. I draw sometimes, write when my thoughts get too loud, and capture random moments through my camera lens. I once kept a digital diary on Instagram, and maybe this will become one too. For now, I'll remain a little anonymous. You'll find sketches, words, photographs, and pieces of my everyday life here. If you're reading this, welcome.🤍 Let's stay connected.✨

[meijicat]

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・I am in love with this new brush!! I use 6b pencil! ~♡

・Hehe this is my friend Chiara's Sona, Rose!! Isn't she adorable? I practice sketching with her!!! ♥︎

[lacedwithfemtanyl]