#dedue headcanons

[mortyvongola2-0]

hi could I request some first time with dedue headcanons? maybe touching on any kinks of his as well? this man needs more love </3

I agree, he does need more love! He's such a sweet man, he deserves the world.

Thank you for asking, I hope its not too short for you.

Dedue is a very patient man. He's steadfast and kind, as long as it doesn't go against his position as His Highnesses vassal, he'd be willing to do whatever it takes. He is an excellent man to be with for someone's first time.

He'd prefer to be told beforehand about whether or not it is his partner's first time. It would help him understand exactly what needed to be done so that he and his lover could both have the most enjoyable experience possible.

He's not a super kinky man, but he does have a few things that he really enjoys.

He's definitely the type to enjoy taking his time, to go slowly, whether its the first time or not. He likes the buildup, the subtle sounds. He likes to know that his partner is getting the most out of the experience as well. His patience and want to pleasure leads a lot into overstimulation.

He'd rather over perform than underperform.

Dedue also enjoys oral sex, he prefers to be on the receiving end. It makes him feel accepted and so attractive. He doesn't like to finish in his partners mouth though, he'd prefer to see it somewhere else. Like on his lover's chest of thighs. He's not totally into marking but he enjoys the view every once in awhile.

He likes to hear the sounds of his partners. A lot. He may not make much noise but he loves to hear them make it. Especially during a first encounter, it tells him that he's doing a good job and depending on the sound it can also let him know if they're in any pain or not.

He's a sweetheart so there's a lot of kissing involved. Soft kisses, pecks of reassurance and a mumble of "you're doing so well," every so often. Dedue is large, and he knows he's large, so he feels the need to give as much reassurance and reciprocation as he possibly can.

He'd distract from pain with those loving kisses, with tender touches along the sides and waists of his partner, and pay special attention to where he knew they loved to be touched after his entry.

First times with Dedue are slow, tender, and loving. He makes sure to be as delicate as he would be with the many flowers he loves to care for. Its a wonderful time.

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[glowingbadger]

May I request a Dedue with a quiet (and observant) s/o who has little to no confidence with themselves? Whatever you're in the mood to write is fine with me! ~🌺

Dedue! What a sweetie <3 And definitely the only Blue Lion I haven't written about here yet, so let's change that~

Dedue (FE3H) x GN Reader Headcanons

SFW (not sfw below the cut)

- Dedue's love language is both a blessing and a curse for our lovely shy Reader. On the one hand, it's a relief that he's not going to smother you with half-sincere praise or extravagant gifts; but on the other, as his feelings for you deepen, he instead just wants to be around you more often, keep an eye on you and quietly ensure your safety and comfort. It can be easy to read this as him "just being friendly," so there will be a loooong phase of mutual pining- him just floundering to come up with a way to be more forthcoming with you, and you assuming at every turn that there's no way someone as put-together, serious, and not to mention handsome has fallen for you.

- One gesture that may finally make it through to you is that he makes a habit of cutting one bloom of your favorite flower from the greenhouse and gifting it to you, always remembering to bring you a fresh one when the last begins to wilt. Finally. once he'd decided that he can't risk allowing his true feelings to go unsaid, he brings you to the gardens and presents you with a full bouquet of those same flowers- "I am not skilled with words, but I have realized I would come to regret it if you never heard the truth of my feelings. That truth is that each time I've gifted you this flower, it was to say that I have fallen in love with you."

- He's insistent of course that he doesn't expect you to return his affections, and that he believes it would only cause you undue stress and persecution to be with someone of his background- and when you tell him that you do in fact return his feelings, that you'd hoped to be with him for some time, it takes a long while and a lot of reassurance for him to believe that you're truly willing to accept certain risks to be together. When all is said and done, and you're both a quietly flustered mess, grappling with excitement and joy and relief and a little anxiety, it all feels so overwhelming and too good to be true.

- After this, your relationship is a wonderfully sweet and supportive one. He's a quiet and sometimes insecure type himself, so he very much empathizes with your feelings, and does all that he can to reassure you of the depth and strength of his affections. Spending time with him is endlessly soothing and reassuring, whether you're helping him with chores in the greenhouse, or maybe he's teaching you a few things in the kitchen, or perhaps the two of you are simply lying in bed together with a book. Now and then you catch him watching you with a hint of a smile that shows more in his eyes than on his lips, and he'll frequently run a hand along your back or kiss your hair without a word, just to assure you that he's there and he adores you.

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- Dedue is such a wonderfully sweet and gentle lover. He's not terribly experienced (before you, he'd assumed he would only ever marry if it were of political benefit to King Dimitri), but he generally knows what he's doing, and he's so attentive and focused that he'll easily pick up on all the wonderful little nuances of your pleasure. And you just know that he's generous in bed- a man so accustomed to happily serving others is absolutely going to bury himself between your thighs until you've cum all over his face, and make sure you're dazed with blissful pleasure before he even thinks about entering you.

- Regardless of your body type, it's likely you're still quite a bit smaller than he is overall, and he secretly loves that. It's hard to convince him that you want to focus on his satisfaction, as he's giving to a fault- but the moment he first sees you down between his knees, struggling to manage the size of his cock in your pretty little mouth, it wakes something in him that he'd never known before. He adores knowing that he's so much bigger than you, that he can hold and protect you, and he cherishes and admires everything soft about you.

- While he can't bring himself to engage in dirty talk or much vocalizing at all in bed, the way he gazes at you like you're the last beautiful thing on this earth makes his admiration entirely clear. He never wants to give you any reason to doubt his attraction to you, but rather than say it, he instead commits himself entirely to your comfort and satisfaction.

- His pace is generally slow but deep- something he feels somewhat obligated to focus on, given you'll need time to adjust to the impressive size of his cock. While not as much of an outward mother-hen like some of our guys, he's quietly vigilant about your reactions, and will immediately steady himself if it seems as though he's hurting you (no matter how absolutely adorable you look, faced flushed and with your body full of his thick member). Dedue is also definitely the type to tell you when he's close to cumming so you have the opportunity to tell him where you want it.

- It's not uncommon for things to get a little heated in the kitchen between you two. It's such a comforting but intimate activity that puts you both at ease- here, it's just you and him, working towards a low-stakes goal together and trading light conversation. But eventually, one or both of you simply can't resist how sweet and endearing the other is at times like this. Perhaps Dedue notices a drop of the sauce you just taste-tested clinging to your lip and leans close to kiss it away. Or perhaps you're daring enough to lick a stray bit of cream from the tip of his finger (which of course sets his heart pounding). Either way, if you're open to it, he'll gladly lift you against a wall or even onto an available counter and slowly push his length into you. Admittedly, it's hard to think of a better use of the time waiting for dough to rise than getting fucked nice and deep and steady by your strong, adoring lover.

[imagine-three-houses]

if im able can i get uhhhh general nsfw hcs for dedue maybe please im begging you here

Dedue

Dedue has a lingerie kink. Seeing his s/o in beautiful lingerie is one of his favorite things in the world, but never ask him to tear it off of you because he’ll refuse every time. That shit costs a lot of money and he’d much rather take it slow, like he’s unwrapping a beautiful present.

Doesn’t want a delicate flower - wants someone who can handle themselves outside of the bedroom and who knows what they want inside the bedroom.

Contrary to popular belief, Dedue... is not really that big of a fan of rough sex? It’s okay sometimes, but he’d much rather something slow and passionate that overwhelms the senses. Gets a little out of rhythm towards his orgasm but he’s pretty good about consistency

This man is so strong, I can’t even begin to describe. If you want him to take over then all you have to do is ask, especially if you’re shy about what you want. He can pick you up and press you against the wall without his knees ever buckling. Want to have sex against the dresser? On the floor? In the shower? Yes, absolutely, he’s super into it.

BUT, he will not have sex where you might get caught by someone else. He’ll have a room double locked and put a chair against the doorknob if he’s particularly paranoid at the moment. He doesn’t want anyone to think less of you if they see the two of you together, even though you constantly tell him that you don’t care.

Won’t admit it but the man is going to need some constant reassurance that you want him, that you want to be with him, that you want him to stay with you after the two of you have sex. He wants to stay more than anything, but sometimes he has those regrets that tell him that you deserve better than someone like him

[imagine-three-houses]

If it's not too terribly much of an issue, can we have Claude/Felix with a pretty insecure plus sized reader? Perhaps others if you wish to include them. I feel awfully embarrassed asking, but, I haven't seen any other request similar. Sorry if you've answered something like this already!

ya girl has been ill but I promise i haven’t abandoned this blog

Please don’t be embarrassed! I am also a thicc hoe so I totally understand

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Felix: you train almost constantly and hate that you somehow can’t keep the extra weight off of you, and there are many hours when you just lock yourself up in your room and stew in your own frustration and sadness. Felix doesn’t let you wallow, though. He’ll drag you out of your room to face the rest of the world and, if you want, he’ll drag you back to the training ground. He doesn’t care how you look - but if there’s something you want to change about yourself, he’ll do his best to help you get there.

Claude: ‘More to love’ is part of his religion, okay. Loves to squeeze you!!! Like literally all the time!!! He thinks you’re like one of those thick bodied angels in a Rubens painting and my god Claude would absolutely worship your body. Hates that you feel insecure about yourself, though, because Claude is all about body positivity. He knows that he has a pretty lithe physique, but just because you don’t doesn’t mean you can’t absolutely destroy him with your bare hands and he loves that.

Bonus! Ashe: Ashe is such a gentle soul, he barely even notices your size. He just thinks that you’re the most beautiful thing he’s ever seen and if you have a little extra weight??? Well, he’s only bothered if you’re bothered by it.

Bonus! Dedue: this man is already a giant so it doesn’t matter what size you are - you still look small to him! You always feel super insecure when he tries to pick you up because you feel like you’d just be too heavy for him, but you weight almost nothing to this beefcake.