#detrans mtf

[candyshoothim]

i wanna take a successful trans girl and make her into my maid slave.

i wanna beat the absolute living shit out of her, choke her, and sit on her face for hours making sure she knows what a real woman is, and the fact that he will never be one

[ratdaisy]

As a person struggling with dysphoria for as long as I can remember, I wanted to share some resources and information for others to understand more about the experiences and struggles that detransitioners specifically go through, since March 12 is Detrans Awareness Day.

It’s so important for detransitioner stories to be heard! However, the detrans stories that receive the most media attention and coverage are often from biased right-wing sources that twist and repackage detrans narratives for an anti-LGBT and anti-woman agenda. This makes it even more crucial to spread awareness and information about detransitioners from unbiased sources that do not support the right-wing/conservative agenda, and so that misinformation is not further spread.

Detransitioners need the support, empathy, and kindness of the left-wing as much as all trans people and other LGBT+ people do, since many continue to suffer from dysphoria even after detransitioning, sometimes feeling worse than they did before. So I’ve linked some informational resources and websites below.

Post Trans is a website founded by two detransitioners from Belgium and Germany, which shares a collection of detrans stories from detransitioners and desisters.

Are You Asking Why? is a website for a grassroots organization created and run by a group of detransitioned and re-identified women since 2013.

Link to a transcript of a 2023 Q&A Panel with seven detransitioners.

@detransition is a Tumblr blog that shares resources and stories and answers questions about detransitioners as well. See their About page for more info.

@detransstories is another Tumblr blog where stories from detransitioners and desisters were shared. This blog is associated with the Pique Resilience Project website, created by a group of four detransitioned and desisted women, to provide resources for support for those who may be questioning their gender or identity. This 2 minute long YouTube video by them addresses some misconceptions about detransitioners.

Detrans Joy is a youtube channel independently made by a detransitioner who has been making videos to document and talk about her experiences and struggles with gender-affirming care.

Here is a link to an informational booklet created by the Post Trans organization (mentioned earlier), in which they gathered the written experiences of 75 female and male detransitioners and created the content based on their wishes, advice and thoughts. The 50-page long booklet has the objective to reach detransitioners and desisters, their relatives and close ones, people who consider a transition and wish for more information, health professionals such as endocrinologists or therapists, or anyone who wants to learn more about the topic.

Detrans Awareness Day website link, which also has a helpful Resources section.

There are many more other websites, blogs, articles, videos, organizations, and social media accounts that I could’ve linked to share some really valuable and enlightening stories about the experiences of detransitioners with the healthcare system, but I didn’t want to risk accidentally including any links that could espouse any potentially bigoted, conservative, right-wing, misogynistic, and/or anti-LGBTQ+ agendas. Regardless of what the detransition rate currently is or whether the statistics are up-to-date, detransitioner stories deserve to be heard, so that more research can be done to make sure that all gender-dysphoric people can receive the appropriate healthcare and treatment options to help, since social or medical transition may not work for everyone, but their pain and dysphoria still deserves to be addressed.

Please reblog to share this info if you support detrans people, trans people, all other gender-dysphoric people, LGBTQIA+ people, as well as gender non-conforming people in general! Hopefully these resources and information could save some lives, and help others who are questioning their gender identity to know that they’re not alone. ❤️ If you know additional resources, articles, videos, or other helpful info to share that is related to the topic of detransition or gender dysphoria, please add them in a reblog or in the comments! Please do not use this post to spread any hate for anyone from any demographics or groups! I don’t usually make posts on tumblr, but I just wanted to share some informational resources in case this might help anyone else who is struggling, as dysphoria is something I still struggle with too, and also because healthcare for all is a very important issue to me.

[our-perfect-secret]

Really wanna force two fakeboys on a double ended dildo and make their t cocks kiss watching them squirm, the fact they think they’re men is so cute, they’re just two pathetic little girls, getting eachother off

[thedarestudy]

Have you experienced shifts in your identity after transitioning?  You may be eligible to take our survey. The purpose of this study is to develop understanding and support

Participants must meet the following eligibility criteria: 

-aged 16 and older

-living in the United States or Canada

-have ever discontinued a gender transition* or detransitioned

-desiring to detransition but feel unable to take steps

*We define gender transition as social, legal, and/or medical interventions used to affirm a trans/nonbinary identity. People who have desisted are eligible to take the survey.

The survey is available at:  thedarestudy.com

[rohboh]

I regularly play video games with a group of friends. These are people I see almost daily at work, and they all know that I am a trans woman. The place where I currently work is also very open about everyone's differences.

And tonight there was this girl I've known for a while. We were all having fun together and after a while, without me realizing it, she started using masculine pronouns when talking about me. And she did it several times without stopping until the end of the game, probably because my deep fakegirl voice let her go.

And when I think about it, this girl makes the mistake about this very regularly at work. She must have understood my game well, she doesn't let herself be fooled by this whole feminine facade that I put on. And the best thing is that no one noticed this detail of the evening, it seemed completely normal.

What ultimately frustrates me the most about this story is that she never really confronted me on the subject. It would be so good if she put me in my place one day in front of everyone. The humiliation would be such that I would end up having to admit that I am just a man who cross-dresses. A pervert who takes great pleasure in passing himself off as an ingenuous young girl to draw attention to herself, out of regret at being a mistake as a man.

The day this girl sets things straight, everyone will be obliged to tell me that they never saw me as a woman and I could finally access the pleasure of detransitioning. And I know everyone will encourage me to go back to being what I've always been, a masculine man with disgusting kinks. They know what is good for me.

[dorky-donkey-boy]

I want y’all to be happy. This is still (sometimes) a kink for me, and it is (partially) why I am the way I am, but I like being a man and most of you…don’t. So please don’t push yourselves to be like me. Experiment, sure, but it sucks to see so many of you post mtf detrans kink content, overwhelm yourselves, then delete your blogs.

A few people over the years have come to my DMs asking kinky questions about my detransition and then get upset when they realize it’s real. Too real for them to handle.

I’m here to answer questions (even sexy questions!), but please be mindful of your own mental health. You can be whoever you want to be. Whether that’s a gorgeous woman (god, so many of you post pics worried about your looks when you have nothing to worry about) or a guy like me.

My husband says that I’m a transmasc now, rather than a detransitioned cis guy, and I like that idea. I love and support all my trans brothers and sisters. You’ll always be my community, and we’ll always have a kinship I never can have with a cis person.

Just keep that in mind.

[detransition]

from laundryandtaxes

I can kind of understand people’s inherent shock at the (growing, and increasingly difficult to ignore) existence of detransitioned people given the prevalence of the notion that transition is The Treatment for gender dysphoria and the prevalence of the notion that gender dysphoria is not at all like other forms of psychological distress- depression, anxiety, etc- but functionally a soul level characteristic that does not abate until treated with The Treatment.

But I have to say that their shock at the fact that lots of detransitioned people come out of detransition with very different ideas about gender than they had when they went in really highlights how little thought most people have given to any of the relevant questions around what transition is, around what gender dysphoria is, around what transition can do for someone vs what it cannot do, etc.

If someone went into a process being told (including by medical professionals) that something called a gender identity made them more or less inherently a person destined for cross sex hormones in order to actualize that identity, that their distress (dysphoria) was being caused by living out of alignment with that soul level characteristic, that this treatment would not only alleviate their gender dysphoria but would even alleviate the other mental health problems that many many people bring with them into transition, that this treatment would make their life better in immeasurable ways that would make it worth all of the downsides, only to find out that literally none of that ended up being true for them, it is absolutely not even slightly surprising that they might come away from the process not just feeling that they “made a mistake” facilitated repeatedly by mental health and medical professionals that they trusted to do right by them and to not cause them harm.

It is not at all surprising that they might come away from the process with an entirely different understanding of what the process itself is. It is not at all surprising that someone who’s taken cross sex hormones for a length of time might eventually come to realize that cross sex hormones are not in fact magic, they’re just hormones, and that leaning on magical thinking (having been born in the wrong body, etc) to source their psychological distress and then on cross sex hormones to fix something that was not a medical problem to begin with, is an approach to this problem that they’ve personally tried and found to be fundamentally lacking.

If you dislike the criticisms that many detrans people make of transition as a process, that’s one thing, but it’s another to act shocked about how and why that happened simply reveals that you haven’t even allowed yourself to ask some very fundamental questions about what kinds of decisions people are making and what factors are driving those decisions.

thinking of detransition? you are not alone

[homotrainer]

Imagine if we were dating and got on hrt together and our orders got swapped so I ended up taking a lot of t and you took a lot of e and by the time the mistake was caught we had already given into our true nature and completely detransed already and had already spent so much time fucking and deadnaming it was too late