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[honeytonedhottie]

how to free yourself from people pleasing permanently⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍨🎀

if ur done living for the approval of others, feeling the pressure of always having to make everyone else happy while neglecting yourself then this post is for you…💬🎀

BE SELF AWARE ;

the first step to change is becoming aware of ur behavior. do u say yes even when u really wanna say no? do u constantly walk on eggshells in the fear of being misunderstood? do you water urself down to be digestible to people? if u answered yes to any of these questions, chances are u have people pleasing tendencies.

WHY DO WE PEOPLE PLEASE? ;

a lot of us learnt people pleasing as a survival mechanism. we started people pleasing to fit in, or maybe we were taught from an early age that being a "good person" meant keeping everyone happy but yourself, and that love was conditional.

THE STEPS TO TAKE ;

change ur environment - if u cannot change ur environment drastically u can always change little things about it, for example changing the people you talk with everyday, taking new routes, putting yourself in new environments and planning ur next big moves

reconnect with ur authentic self - journal, reflect, be alone. figure out what you like, want, need. people pleasing disconnects you from your own identity, learn who you are WITHOUT the people pleasing performing tendencies

STAND ON BUSINESS ;

to finish off, ur not here to be liked by everyone, some people might get uncomfortable when you stop over-explaining yourself or putting them first, but that’s not your burden to carry anymore. its ur life so why shouldn't u put urself first?

im not telling u to go out and be a terrible person im telling u to listen to yourself for once. think "what does (insert ur name) want?" instead of what u should do to appease to others. dont overextend urself for crumbs girls. choose you always 💕

[shamelessprofessorclamgarden]

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[demozastores]

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[touchmyspinebookreviews]

Love the new #kindle cover, I received! Perfect for any #bibliophile Got so much to catch up and loving the new #bookish look to my handheld #library #highlyrecommeded #bookblogger #bloggerbabes #books #amreading #Ifollowback (at South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/BzENoxmA5GM/?igshid=1cjxhb2cga7c6

[insideshortysbrain]

It's weird to think that this picture was taken almost exactly a year ago. So many things have happened to the girl in this photo. People have left, her goals have changed, her dreams are coming true, life has gone up and down, and most days she's definitely not this happy. But I wouldn't change anything that's happened in the past year How has your life changed in the past year? . . . #bloggerlifestyle #bloggergirl #bloggerspain #bossgirlbloggers #bloggerlove #bloggershare #bloggerbabes #bloggerbabes #bloggerdiaries #bloggegram #bloggercommunity #bloglovin #blogmode #blogged #blogstyle #portrait_star # blonder #daringtoinspire #portrait_mood #blondee #portrait_shot #blondebeauty #portrait_pros #portrait_mf #blondelife https://www.instagram.com/p/BoHiH_6grC_/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1xyyzb8aviuhs

[noexcuses]

when someone asks us, “how are you?” so many of us by default respond that we’re “good”. BUT WHY? . how i’m feeling this morning: calm, a lil sleepy, giddy, anxious, in DIRE need of coffee 😋 . what’s your truth? #bloggerbabes #grateful #recovery (at Seattle, Washington)

[moderndating101]

Stop trying to be perfect. Stay focused on your own personal goals and keep moving forward. What is perfect anyways? If you were to take a group of people and ask each one of them to define perfection I guarantee you would get a different answer from each person. It's relative, it doesn't exist. It's not something you should work towards. Set SMART goals. Work towards them and celebrate each step along the way. 🙌 Every step you take is a step closer to your goal. Keep going. Perfection doesn't exist, stop making it a goal. #progressnotperfection #moderndating101 . . . . . #mycreativebiz #creativelifehappylife #girlbossquotes #instantbossclub #dowhatyoulovelovewhatyoudo #bloggerslife #bossladies #bossladymindset #womeninbusinessrock #bossbabes #bloggerbabes #freelancewriter #freelance #socialmediastrategy #socialmediamanager #entrepreneurmindset #mindsetmatters #brandlover #contentmarketing #contentcreator #liveauthentic #goaloriented #goalgetter #goalgetters #girlgang #marketinglife #womensupportingwomen (at St. Catharines)

[stizzy38]

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