You know the biggest problem I have with the term Transmisandry isn't because of misandry not being a systemic force (which doesn't matter in this case, bigotry is not inherently systemic and arguing this case means one must argue that fundamentally misandry cannot exist or be a belief held by people) but rather it's that it reflects the same problem as Transmisogyny as a term.
Transmisogyny is, at least in the manner that it is used, the unique intersection of transphobia and misogyny as experienced by transgender women.
The problem is, transgender men too suffer a unique intersection of transphobia and misogyny, because misogyny and the patriarchy does not have a blanket nor net positive effect for all men.
Please return to the more foundational side of feminist theory and re learn the fact that feminism is not only for the benefit of women. Please understand that intersectionality as a framework model is applicable to more than the one kind of social oppression AND privilege, and that being in a privileged class does not prevent one from using said model.
The tool is descriptive, not prescriptive.
Trans men suffer from misogyny, but the way that people use the word transmisogyny prevents them from falling under its definition.
Yes, historically speaking transgender women are seen as more violent and dangerous or perverse persons than transgender men, but that does not mean that they did not suffer in their own unique way; Transgender men are, have been for the longest time, seen as confused and unwell women, people who are being mislead and who are naive to what they actual want. Do you know historically what happens to women seen as unstable or self-destructive? They were lobotomised and institutionalised. For decades.
Transmisogyny should be for all intents and purposes, a word that applies to both groups. Medically, both in history and in practice, both groups are seen as unwell, unstable and self destructive or confused. Socially, transgender people of either side suffer from misogyny and heteronormativity.
I would think that people like myself, who grew up in the social environment of being "boys" or at least seen as them would realise the fact that being a man, or being perceived as one, does not exempt you by any means from suffering under misogyny.
And misogyny is something to be unlearned no matter who you are, even if you are a woman, if you're a man or anything else, you are not absolved by way of your existence.
Any definition which excludes or disregards the breadth of human experience is a bad definition; any definition which insists that reality must accommodate it, rather than the definition serving to reflect reality is a bad definition; any system, any definition, which acts to separate humanity into two strict and delineated categories, one which refuses the possibility of overlap or nuance, is a harmful, terrible definition.
Before I end: Not a counterargument but let me clarify myself and my stance:
Transmisogyny is terrible in all forms and is something that every person should be aware of their perpetuation of and their effect on.
I am a trans woman who has a background in psychology and sociology
Yes I have read Whipping Girl.
The existence of people who claim that there is no unique discrimination against transmasculine people are not only willfully ignorant of its existence but are too self fulfilling the existence of transmasculine people being silenced and targeted