#discourse time

[competitioneddie]

discourse time baby.

can we look closely at the amount of people who only like tommy bc they've been explicitly clued into the idea of him as a love interest vs buddie being implicit.

wdym you were invested in ted and robin for 9 whole seasons despite the very fleshed out and long lasting love interests that you hated bc you knew in your heart of hearts that they were endgame but you're clinging to a character whose backstory is 'love interest of previous love interest' bc 'noOOoOoOo bUcK aND edDIe aRe plAtONIc'. why don't you cling to taylor like that she was a fantastic character and she loved buck even if they weren't a good romantic match, the same arguments that apply to tommy should hold for her...

like truthfully what is the reason you're so opposed to two men having a friends to lovers situation. i've read this book before and the answer is usually a construction of queerness rooted in a deep seated form of misogyny that skews people's perceptions of how gay people romance. pls take a moment to reflect on the idea of coupledom you're building there for buck and for the queer people in your lives. gay people can have relationships that are not purely sex driven. friends to lovers is universally the single most common way for people to bond and partner up romantically.

if buck and eddie were a straight couple no one would question that a slow burn friends to lovers is on the cards and i think that's telling. you're entitled to dislike eddie as a character or as a love interest for buck but can we please stop acting like interpreting last week's episode as the high point of a friends to lovers feelings realisation is some outlandish shit we're making up. even if the conclusion isn't buddie. we've seen this before for straight couples. and no one heard "i'm not in love with him/her" and immediately decided that this is the showrunners shutting it down. c'mon we all watched bones & booth break up and nobody thought "well yeah that's it for them".

pls don't be that person, and if you absolutely have to, like, don't be nasty about it? it's not a good look.

[kaykay-13]

Do ya hc Chongyun to be the tall one or Xingqiu?

I hc Chongyun being the tall one since in the game, their models are technically the same height, but the thing is… Xingqiu is wearing heels in his model~ >:3c

So…. I rest ma case your honor!

Ohya Ohya! X3c

my OG headcanon follows yours, actually!! xingqiu just TRIES to be taller than yun with his heels

of course, HC changes according to the fic. for plot reasons, obviously

[high-pot-in-noose]

I think what a lot of people misunderstand about why age-gaps and/or p*doph*lia is wrong is that it's not the number difference itself that's the problem, but the maturity and comprehension difference.

A 25-year-old dating a 30-year-old or a 42-year-old dating a 55-year-old is not like someone in their early 20s dating someone in their 40s, and all of those are NOTHING LIKE a 15-year-old involved with a 21-year-old.

A healthy relationship requires equal control, the ability for all involved to be on even footing power-wise, and someone who's just newly an adult can't have that with someone who's already been grown for most of their life. And it's completely impossible for a child because how they automatically put authority in those older than them, even if it's just a year or two. Even a 15-year-old with a 17-year-old is sketchy.

Maturity, comprehension, authority, a developed sense of self; an age-gap where one of the people involved doesn't have all these is when it's unacceptable. It's the same reasons bestiality is wrong. It isn't about the math, it's about personal development.

[babyyatusabes]

aight we all know which cnco member’s lanes were in but which cnco member would be in your lane, friendship or otherwise? reblog w your answer and an explanation and don’t bother interacting w this if you’re gonna say something dumb like none of them

[robaggot]

I was blocked by a few mutuals after calling out y'all love this hell site. Anyways I'm Pan and aspec so if you're gonna dunk on ace/aro people or are an exclusionist or a centrist or whatever stupid shit block me. If you can't openly support aspec people fuck off and block me. If your anti pan or hang around anti pan people block me I hate all of you.

[beautymercurydragon]

@purple-moonfang: I dOn’T kNoW aLl Of SyD’s FrIeNdS

Also @purple-moonfang: *Tags a few of my friends in the Picrew game, of whom I’m likely the closest with next to her*

YOU BULLSHIT QUEEN

[hereforlukescruff]

idk if this is controversial but i think Billie Eilish is extremely sexualized. everyone says she’s the first artist who’s completely anti-pop and not about all that stuff but like......she’s not

[damnedrainbows]

ready to lose all my followers. you ready for it? here it goes

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