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Shade | He/It | Taken ❤️🖤 | Gay Trans Man | 27 PLEASE STICK YOUR FINGERS BETWEEN THE BARS OF MY ENCLOSURE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PROMISE I WON’T BITE YOU AGAIN PLEASE I AM FRIENDLY AND ENTIRELY NON THREATENING

[tordedd]

uh I should probably make an intro post because im too lazy to remake my carrd. hello my names nightshade but you can just call me shade or shadow! im a 26 year old trans man. im an epic and evil demon villain king that gets a lil silly w it on here. I bounce from interest to interest very quickly so that's a heads up if you follow me for a specific one. I also kin but I don't mind doubles feel free to interact. also yes. I have asbnpd swagger, welcome to the shitshow uwu

anyways dni if you're a terf, proshipper, racist/homophobe/transphobe/ableist/queerphobe ect, narc abuse believers, exclusionist, maps/zoos. other then that feel free to hang around the mess that's my blog.

[tordedd]

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robaggot -> tordedd

[lowercasefirey]

I hope you guys like the way I portray baconcola.. I hope I don't mischaracterize them TOO MUCH.. I hope the yaoi hasn’t made me too far gone… hopefully I’m not misunderstanding the characters THAT badly…. am I too lost in the sauce? maybe.. yeah.. Idk what I'm drawing anymore. I DON'T KNOW. I don't knowwwwwww

I JUST MISS THEMMMM SO BADDDDDDD I MOURN THEM EVERYDAYYYYYYY

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[wincingthenightaway]

[birdandmoon]

Heat waves.

[silvermoon424]

This tweet read me to filth

[alphacrone]

i don't really want to weight in on the "using big words in your writing is ableist" discourse happening on tiktok because i'm like 90% certain it's an anti-intellectual psyop to stir up drama in online circles to promote the use of ai to summarize literally everything and thus feeding the LLMs and lowering the populace's mistrust of such tools but i also have to say: dictionaries and thesauruses are the most accessible they've ever been. if you use an e-reader of any kind you can look up a word without leaving the page. there's a plethora of online dictionaries and if you just type a word + "meaning" into google it'll usually give you a definition. we used to have pocket dictionaries we used when reading in class. i have two on my shelf right now that i used in high school. stop letting the fascists purposefully misuse anti-ableism rhetoric to trick you into never thinking again.

[glitchpirate]

more scene diadop <3

[tricktack]

you. person with dermatillomania and/or trichotillomania. what are you doing right now and should you be doing that. ok thank you for your time

[cowplantblues]

Actually when I say “fuck all billionaires” I particularly mean Taylor “having my wedding in the middle of the busiest city in the world on the busiest weekend in the world in the part of the city the majority of commuters need to get through because fuck working people” Swift

[norondor]

fuck you if you like this dumb nepo baby white supremacist.

[undertheinfluencex1]

The most underrated act of kindness is letting people be. Let them mispronounce a word, talk too much about a show they love, or get excited about something you don't understand. Everyone got something that lights them up. let them shine, even if it's not your thing

[mx-macintosh]

y'all need to relearn the word erratic and stop using schizophrenic/bipolar/psychotic as a replacement

[mx-macintosh]

y'all need to relearn the word particular and stop using ocd as a replacement

[weresoul]

People need to relearn the word "egocentric" and stop using narcissist/narc as a replacement.

[thatpreciousthing]

People need to relearn the word "impulse" and stop using "intrusive thought" as a replacement

[answrs]

People need to relearn the word "lying" and stop using "gaslighting" as a replacement

[stars-and-scribbles]

People need to relearn the word "uncomfortable" and stop using "overstimulated" as a replacement

[agonizingdespair]

People need to relearn the words "kindness" and "understanding" and stop using "empathy" as a replacement

[i-am-bic]

"There's no platonic explanation for this" <-you need to be nicer to your friends. Right now

[tuliptruth]

Bitches be like “you need to be able to feel empathy to be a good person” and then are the most horrible person alive

[autophobiastar]

We need to stop vilifying low empathy I’m begging yall.

Somewhere out there, theres a little kid who keeps getting in trouble because he doesn’t understand how to play nicely with the other kids and keeps hurting peoples feelings on accident. He doesn’t know why all the adults are so angry at him all the time. He’s not a bad kid, not on purpose. He doesn’t want to be a bad kid. He’s trying so hard and keeps making everything worse.

Somewhere out there, there’s a teenager getting into fandom spaces for the first time and every time she sees a post about her favorite character, who has trouble with emotions, just like her, it’s always something negative. It’s always a post telling others to stop redeeming them, or mocking them for no reason. She’s old enough to understand that she’s different from other people. She’s old enough to know that despite that, she’s still doing her best to be kind. And she’s old enough to know that the real reason everyone hates her favorite character is because they don’t understand low empathy works. She hates herself because she knows if she ever tells anyone how she feels, she’ll be hated too. It’s a good thing she learned how to pretend. Nobody will abandon her if she says the right things, has the same expressions, uses the proper tone.

Somewhere out there, there’s a young adult who can’t understand emotions. They get annoyed when they hear people crying, they don’t understand romance in books and movies, and they still remember how it felt as a child when they watched their whole family fall apart when a relative died, and they didn’t care. They remember how they didn’t LIKE that their grandmother was gone, but they didn’t linger on it either. It didn’t shatter them the way it shattered their mother. And most of all, they remember how their mother looked at them when she figured it out. How she screamed that they were a monster she couldn’t ever love. They think maybe the world would be better if they weren’t a part of it.

But none of those people are inherently evil. There is no such thing. They still care about things. They have comfort foods and books they love and musicians they would love to see live. They have dreams and hopes and aspirations. All of them are so much more than the way they feel things. Please I’m begging you stop demonizing them. It HURTS to see yourself represented like that. If you simply don’t know how to portray us, then ASK. it’s OK to not know things. You don’t need to be ashamed, but you do need to learn.

[skyrages]

Why do ignorant people say weird nonsense like “why would a sociopath admit to being one” i mean i wouldn’t say it in like a job interview or smth sensitive situation but it’s not like i’m ashamed of it i literally don’t feel shame bro

[lastoneout]

I know it's more nuanced than this but I think having a hard policy of thinking anyone who genuinely hates one group of queer people for their identity might as well hate all of us and thus I should block any queerphobic queer person I see can do a lot to save you from believing anything exclusionists say.

"bomb that kills all-" "I just don't get bi women bringing their-" "pansexuality isn't a real thing-" "all lesbians-" "trans men really are the men of the-" "theyfabs-" "pfft aroace people are cringe-" "nonbinary people are actually all-" Instant block. Goodbye. Not listening. It's for both solidarity with your fellow queers AND to protect yourself, because once a person is convinced to hate one group for their immutable traits they can be convinced fairly easily to hate another too, and thus I do not trust them.

Just block these people the second they pop up, they aren't your allies and nothing they have to say is worth listening to.

[lastoneout]

These types will often try to guilt you into defaulting to their judgement by citing their own identities but that's bullshit. You can, should, and must completely ignore them. A bigot is a bigot, and if you wouldn't listen to a cishetperisex one then you shouldn't listen to a queer one either.

[tsunderecamour]

and YES this SHOULD and DOES include polyamorous people too

[lastoneout]

I am poly too and damn straight it does 🤝

[lastoneout]

AND INTERSEX PEOPLE