okay so i just saw this (https://www.tumblr.com/themogaidragon/721175822042628096/can-you-help-with-something-i-feel-male-but-i) old post of yours and i feel like "autimain" is the best description of my gender i've seen thus far, outside of "dullboy"/"dullgender". for the sake of elaborating, the best way i think i can describe my gender is that i *guess* i'm male but i don't exactly know what being "male" is nor do i have a strong connection with it, like i'm basically "cis by default". so finally finding a more accurate term is somewhat relieving; but the problem is that while i am neurodivergent, i'm not (or at least don't think i am) autistic so i don't feel comfortable using the term. are there any more genders specifically similar to "autimain," or does a new term need to be coined? /genq
many thanks! /pos
sorry for the long ask /gen
There is not a gender really similar to autimain which isn't exclusive to autistic people, to my knowledge. Maybe neurodullboy, since it is being dullboy due to neurodivergence. But if none of the terms in the list of the original post seemed to fit, I sadly don't have any other term to introduce you to. :\ /serious
The best I have is genders that are described has a disconnection to gender:
Agnogender: An identity in which the user feels connected to a gender and may roughly identify as such, but isn’t sure what that gender is supposed to feel like in the first place, causing a disconnect.
Contramasc: a gender for individuals who resonate their deeply with masculinity but has a disconnect from manhood itself.
Inkongender: someone who has a vague and inconsistent relationship with gender. Sometimes they may feel like gender doesn’t apply to them at all and other times feel like they may have a gender but can’t describe the gendered experience they’re having, but despite the vague connection/overall disconnect from gender, they still use gender labels that fit them best and/or collect genders they have a connection to. Can laso be a considered neurogender, but doesn’t have to be.
Neurobxy: feeling male but also genderless caused by a disconnect from gender due to neurodivergence, therefore identifying as a bxy. this gender may be fluid, flux, demiboy, multigender, or any combo of masculine and genderless.
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You might be able to find something that fits by researching using key words on blogs similar to mine. :) /serious
Sorry for taking so much time to respond. :'( /genuine
