#ennegram 4

[amyneedsmorecoffee]

[weird-redbird]

Enneagram 4w5 cheatsheet

"The Free Spirit"

Traits: Self-absorbed, introspective, creative, curious, intellectual, emotional, quiet, perceptive

Basic desires: To be unique and knowledgeable

Basic fears: Not having their own self identity and expression

Extroverted or introverted (typically)

When under stress, enneagram 4w5s usually withdraw from others and look inwards at themselves to find the root of the problem. They also seem reserved and intellectual to others.

Enneagram 4w5s are different from other 4s because they tend to be less sensitive and temperamental. They are also more inquisitive and typically "thinking" over "feeling". Another difference is 4w5s are less concerned with public image than main 4s.

Possible careers: writer, artist, actor, graphic designer, librarian, philosopher, filmmaker

[funkymbtifiction]

Answering the admire question:

https://funkymbtifiction.tumblr.com/post/687861589071773696/do-we-tend-to-admire-or-gravitate-toward-the-types

I’m an ISFP and would love to be an Entj. I’m also a 4 and would love to be an 8. I admire the physical movement of their feelings, they’re super action oriented and they get shit done. I often feel paralyzed by my feelings because I can’t move forward until they’re sorted out which they never are lmao

Well, you can't do anything about your feelings, but you can start identifying when you are "stalling" (not taking action) and start being more deliberate and proactive in forcing yourself to do things. The more you use Te and self-discipline, the easier it will be. (If you are a 4w5, work on integrating the 3 wing... being more ambitious/driven...)

[girlbosstomie]

Being an ennegram type four is exhausting 😔 I’m constantly worried about how to be better than everyone else

[bangtanfancamp]

I’ve never had more than just one or two female friends at a time in any given season of my life, and after everything with the pandemic, most of my friends have shifted life phases- moving, new career, grieving, some sheltering in place while other rage against the vaccine etc. - it’s been as odd year to say the least. But a few small friendships had started to bloom in beautiful ways and I was so excited to ask the girls I did have to be my bridesmaids... but it’s all been a but of a glum affair so far. Most of them have, in essence, ghosted me in one way or another. Been hard to track down, rarely reply to messages, don’t initiate talking to me, or when they do, it’s in passive little digs that I think are meant to be jokes but honestly just feel really mean, and they’ve collectively been flaking on plans. It’s been really discouraging and I’ve paused wedding planning more than once between dealing with own mental health and because I felt so alone in the process even though my fiancé has been so sweet. It’s been really hard to feel so unsupported by the women in my life..... I think especially because I’m a words of affirmation person, so the radio silence has been especially jarring.

All of that to say, that even though is is 100% a BTS blog, would you guys be okay with being my digital Bridesmaids while I prepare for October? I tend to be more private about these sorts of things, but I could really use someone to gush over ideas with me. I think it’s the air sign in me

[incorrectenneagramquotes]

Two: Four, do you want some dinn...

Four: I subsist on the moon, the wind, and the stars...

Two: Oh. I made calzones, but -

Four: Ohmygod, WHERE ARE THEY?!?!

[liturgical-lesbian]

me at all times: HOLD UP i cannot participate in life until i figure out who tf i am

[amyneedsmorecoffee]