hahaha hiii i made a new term + flag for myself i wanted to share because i figured something out abt myself lately
feral-sexual/romantic (i can't think of a better name right now...)
I'm coining this to describe my own experience with romance and sexual attraction,
a feral cat is a cat whose exposure to humans was little to nonexistent or was dangerous, leading to the cat being afraid of and averse to humans.
For me, this is exactly how i feel about romance and sexual attraction, I've considered myself cupioromantic for a while but i still find myself afraid of people finding romantic or sexual interest in me, despite my desire for it.
so i made a term n flag for it ^~^) i wonder if anyone else can relate to this... i tried to use the colors of the cupio flag + browns to represent fear [its also a "natural color" you can find on cats ^~^]