I think my hottest DSMP take is that Tommy was a reallyyyyyy shitty friend to Tubbo and Tubbo exiling him was not only a reasonable decision but the best one for Tubbo's health and safety. If your friend treats you so carelessly as to endanger you, all your friends, and your entire country on a whim, as well as directly reflecting badly on you when you are the president and he is your vice president, he's an awful friend and you are better off without him no matter how emotionally attached you are. Never be afraid to cut out that toxic person in your life even if they are mentally ill, it's not your responsibility to fix or save them.
Basically what I'm saying is my apathy towards Tubbo has faded and I need him to be Dream's little brother who Dream supports and teaches leadership skills immediately I don't care how out of character it is for Dream to forgive him or for Tubbo to unlearn the "Dream is Satan" propaganda they are siblings.