Can you tell if he has a preference? (I know bisexuality is valid with or without preferences but I’m just curious)
Hello! Thanks for your question! Yes, you are right, bisexuality IS valid no matter the preferences and no matter how many people of every gender you have dated or slept with. Always important to mention too is preferences may or may not change throughout life, so what he liked the most a year ago might not be the same of today or next year.
Having that in mind, I first asked what could have been his preference in the past, not specifying any period of his life. For that, I pulled the Ace of Cups, The Chariot reversed, Queen of Wands reversed and 7 of Wands. So, Ace of Cups is telling us this man was born with SO much love to give to everyone! Like, he could have been a 50/50 since the beginning, whether he realized it or not. However, the Chariot reversed points to something driving a wedge on all this love. The Chariot is also a card that pretty much points to his sexual fluidity, but there was a point where this fluidity might have been cut short in a way. Then, we have the Queen of Wands reversed. This Queen is a VERY passionate woman, she's intense, she's fire, FULL of sexual energy and the epitome of a woman, so to say. When she is reversed, she will either lose all this fire energy or this energy will be all over the place. Given the Chariot reversed, I would say she lost the passion. The last card I pulled for that was the 7 of Wands, and that one is one HELL of a struggle card. Lots of internal struggling and possibly external too, as this is the card of conflict and fighting. Honestly, from these cards, that Queen reversed, all this struggle and that very intense reading I posted a while ago about him having to deal with a LOT of biphobia in his earlier years, I tend to think what this man held back on was his attraction to women. This is my point of view as the reader and from the little I know of his life and the theatre community and some of the struggles of the LBGTQ+ community, the B, more specifically. It's like he struggled with the female attraction side and denied the insane sexual appeal of the Queen.
That said, I did another reading on his possible gender preferences these days, in the present, or leading to the present, and I pulled some INSANELY interesting cards. The Strength, the 5 of Pentacles, The Fool and the 3 of Cups. Strength is a fantastic card pointing to him embracing his sexual desire, ending the struggles and being strong enough for that. He is now aware of his own sexuality, which would include women, along with the other genders, he's no longer suppressing it. He reached the balance between the forces, he found a way to tame both his mind and his instincts, and it's all there. The 5 of Pentacles is about actually encountering this sexuality and having to adjust to finally embracing it. At this point, he might have worked through his sexual fears and repressions and is now approaching sex and sexuality in a much healthier way. There's a whole new area of experience for him and he will be trying to understand these partners and their sexual needs and also his sexual needs and like I said, adjust. This is a transition moment, he might be generating lower level physical sexual energy like he said, at this specific moment, but he's still figuring out how to fully live his sexuality. That said, the next two cards are great omens. The Fool is basically saying he is up for a journey, he is finding himself again and he's ready for the new, he's willing to try everything and he wants to. The 3 of Cups is, well, our final answer. 3 is NOT a crowd! He's very much open to anything and anyone and if it's a multigendered orgy, threesome, he's up for it! LOL
At this point, from this reading, I would say there has been some struggle, but this man is now up for anything, the more, the merrier, and the cards seem to be pointing to him not really caring that much about which gender comes to him. He's horny and open to all possiblities like the anon from last night said! It also doesn’t mean he didn’t act on sexual desires towards all genders all this time, just that he might have held back at some point.
