I feel like I'm on another planet sometimes

they/them || AuDHD || 22 || A little more about me

[vaguelyluciddragon]

Introduction Post:

About me:

I'm non-binary, specifically demigenderfluid (with the non genderfluid/non changing part being agender) & I also identify with some xenogenders.

I use they/them pronouns + some neopronons but if you don't feel like using neos for me that's ok.

I'm perisex (meaning "not intersex" for those unaware), and my views on intersex people are that y'all are cool and absolutely deserve better from society.

I plan to try to keep what gender I was raised as private because I don't think it matters in most cases, also it's just a personal choice of mine.

What I post:

What I post is basically just whatever I feel like posting. Sometimes it's random bullshit about the fandoms I'm in/my special interests. Sometimes I post about how I'm pissed off at people and/or society as a whole for being dumb and unfair. Sometimes it's a secret third thing.

Tl;Dr: This blog is a personal one, not one that has a specific theme.

Who is welcome on my blog:

LGBTQIA+ people of all kinds. Yes even the "weird" ones. Yes even the ones with contradictory lables.

People who aren't a part of the LGBT at all but are allies.

People of all races and nationalities.

People who are in some way disabled.

Anyone else as they aren't bigoted towards others.

[theconcealedweapon]

[vaguelyluciddragon]

Some older people just want younger men to have PTSD or die I guess. And they call it a "great honor", to boot.

[cepheusgalaxy]

"Doomed yaoi" this "doomed yuri" that what about doomed found family. What about finding comfort in these new people after going through so much on your own—a community, a solace, a home to come back to. Caring for them with all you've got, only to realize that it wasn't going to work, ever, no matter what you tried. Only to have it ripped apart, no matter how much you tried to hold them close. Found family that becomes lost family. Found family that takes your heart with it when they go.

[vaguelyluciddragon]

The brick wasn't kissed before you threw it.

[wyrmicelli]

me tongue-deep in a sandalwood candle: 🤤

the tjmaxx employee loading a fourth tranquilizer dart into their blowgun: i need backup

[vaguelyluciddragon]

That's so relatable, I've thought about taking a bite out of my cedarwood deodorant before.

It probably doesn't taste as good as it smells though so I shouldn't.

[midnightskywrites]

writers really will spend twenty minutes pacing around the kitchen thinking “this scene is genius” and then sit down to type and suddenly remember approximately three words and one emotional vibe

[vaguelyluciddragon]

Me when I'm trying to write a really good Tumblr post but the worms eat my thoughts

[touchmytylenol]

yay kissing i love kissing. kissing is so much fun

[vaguelyluciddragon]

Agreed. Top tier activity.

[toruandmidori]

[vaguelyluciddragon]

Tylenol doesn't cause autism but autism is likely to run strongly in someone's family if they're autistic. Especially because autistic people are more likely to get with other autistic people or people with ADHD than someone who is neurotypical.

[razzmothazz]

still caring about internet friends you lost touch with years ago is so embarrassing. yeah i had a deam we met up irl recently. the last time we spoke was maybe 7-8 years ago. i still wear the laces we randomly decided was a sign of our friendship. i dont know what any of your socials are or if youre even active on any. sometimes i see someones art resemble yours and i wonder for hours. do you still go by that name you chose? whenever i see it i wonder if its you. we couldve passed each other in this vastness a thousand times and not have a clue.

[vaguelyluciddragon]

I fear this is me.

I may not remember some of their names or faces but I remember them.

And I have absolutely no idea if they remember who I am.

[looo-ch]

[vaguelyluciddragon]

Hold your homie's hand while you're both constipated and pushing out shit babies

[rednines]

If you add two pounds of sugar to literally one ton of concrete it will ruin the concrete and make it unable to set properly which is good to know if you wanna resist something being built, French anarchists used this to resist prison construction in the 80s

[catgirlcaliphate]

I’m just gonna go ahead and reblog this for purely educational purposes.

[valhallas-last]

Of course. Purely for education.

[vaguelyluciddragon]

Indeed. Purely for education. Like if someone wanted to write a book or a movie plot.

[enki2]

[vaguelyluciddragon]

Oh man I remember those they were soo fun and I was always so sad when they had to be put away :(

[halles-comet]

was having a complaining competition with my friend about how even liberal environments don't seem to be able to process gay relationships when you're both pretty feminine and always default to thinking you're just friends and then she whips out "when me and [wife] checked into the honeymoon suite after our wedding reception, still in our white dresses, the hotel clerk went 'you know it's only one bed, right?'"

[vaguelyluciddragon]

Oh you see they were CLEARLY wanting to check in for their husbands and just had their separate weddings at the same time.

Sarcasm, if it wasn't obvious.

[piksiew]

bacteriography portrait of Five Pebbles I made from yeast , mold , acrylic paints and other stuff i found

[spectrevee]

YOU MADE THIS OUT OF. I'M SORRY YOU MADE THIS OUT OF MOLD????

[vaguelyluciddragon]

Idk if I should be more impressed or disgusted.

[zk-j]

my message to white queers.

[vaguelyluciddragon]

Good poem. Good message.

[imjunebitch]

actually fucking disgusting that glasses cost any money like if you actually think about it for more than a few seconds it is so unconscionably inhumane. this goes for things like insulin and mobility aids and hearing aids too ofc but fuck man, fucking glasses? the thing you need to fucking see? its genuinely sickening and inhumanly evil that those cost ANYTHING.

[imjunebitch]

like dude I'm so nearsighted that if I couldn't afford these it would be impossible for me to like. drive and get myself to work/school or use a computer at a safe distance or go out rly without running into shit. I gotta pay to be able to operate in society at the basest level. cool neat

[vaguelyluciddragon]

This is literally my problem too, like I can't see anything clearly past half a foot (like 15cm) in front of my face and a few hundred bucks has to be coughed up EVERY single time I get glasses. Like. Why??

[baraphalloplastyclinic-deactiva]

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

[ladyfoxfire]

And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure you’re legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partner’s assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.

If your spouse fights you on any of this, then don’t quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.

[dressedupliketheking]

also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

[vaguelyluciddragon]

Also this is a bit controversial and not everyone will agree to this and that's ok but if you leave while pregnant, it's still legal in some places to abort the baby, and it would save pain and suffering when it comes to child support and visitation rights. Even if he abandons the kid outright, being a single parent is hard, and it's not something many people desire.

If someone doesn't want to abort that's perfectly fine, emotional attachment to the fetus and all, I just mean like. It's an option. Especially if someone's partner pressured them to have a baby in the first place and the one carrying it is way less enthusiastic.

[nonbinary-lifehacks]

steal everyone's gender so that big gender makes less money

good tip, once there is no gender all soap will be neutral, no more “men’s shampoo, conditioner, lotion, toothpaste, car oil 27 in one” and “woman’s soft delicate feminine flower soap”

[vaguelyluciddragon]

And then no more pink tax >:D