Surrogacy With Children If you’ve decided to be a surrogate and already have a family of your own, you may be curious or concerned about sharing the news with your children. It is an important and special lesson in compassion and love that will shape all of your lives, however, it doesn’t need to be a daunting experience! Here are a few tips from surrogates regarding preparing their family for the big event: Introducing the Pregnancy and Surrogacy Process In regards to surrogacy, many women have opted to use the “babysitting” analogy, as it is something most children can relate to easily. Just like a friend or family member may look after them while you are away for a while, you are helping another family take care of their baby until they are able to take it home with them. In turn, just as their babysitter has their own family to go home to, the baby you are caring for will be leaving to live with their new parent(s)... Meeting the (Intended) Parents Introducing the IP is a great way to easily integrate your child into the “new side” of your growing family—plan a dinner or event so they can speak to them in person, or let them write letters or make phone calls when you give your own updates… Maintaining the Status Quo As all parents know, children require routine and reassurance to stay healthy and happy. Your surrogacy will cause changes to your family’s day-to-day routine, as you make time for appointments and check-ups. However, as with any change, as long as you, the parent, remain positive and excited, kids tend to follow suit. Keep calm and carry on as usual, and when the baby comes up in conversation, don’t be afraid to share how much this experience means to you and the family you are helping... Closure, Together ❤ When the baby comes, it will be a touching and emotional time for all involved, including your little one. Allow your child to visit you in the hospital, and perhaps take time for them to say their own goodbyes... For more helpful ideas read the full article 👉 https://fertilitybridges.com/2019/02/25/surrogacy-with-children/ #gestationalcarrier #surrogate #surrogacy #ivfjourney #ivfcommunity #surrogatemom #fertilitybridges #surrogacy https://www.instagram.com/fertilitybridges/p/BuUgyayhQKz/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=jlny22vgi97f