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it’s weird

that i don’t love you anymore.

i miss the feeling

but not the pain.

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I am leaving you for me. Whether I am incomplete or you are incomplete is irrelevant. Relationships can only be built with two wholes. I am leaving you to continue to explore myself: the steep, winding paths in my soul, the red, pulsing chambers of my heart. I hope you will do the same. Thank you for all the light and laughter that we have shared. I wish you a profound encounter with yourself.

Peter Schaller

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A Letter to My Crush

Hey. We’re friends. In fact we are good fucking friends. And you know that I shield my emotions- from everyone. Including you. I did that for so long, and I regret that. I knew what I wanted wasn’t mutual and that was hard to accept to begin with but when I told you, you were so nice. And my best friend on the other end of the phone call dealing with the aftermath yelled at me, “don’t fall into that trap.” but she couldn’t help herself either. I was expecting you to be an absolute arsehole about the whole ordeal but you weren’t. So thank you.

We have a mutual friend. He was the reason I was forced to be so vulnerable and tell you. I knew you already knew but I had to clear the air. You see, this colossal cunt, had a thing for me but it wasn’t mutual, when he figured that I liked you he wouldn’t let it rest. I remember him asking me; “Why do you even like him anyway?” I replied, like it was completely obvious.

For starters you are attractive, but not out of my league. You are selfless- you’re going half way around the world to help in a third world country for three weeks in July. You look amazing in a uniform - that isn’t a kink! You’re great with kids- we volunteer together. And you’re musically inclined and stupidly smart. You are intriguing as you are shy and takes persistence to get to know you. And there is so much I don’t know about you. And not forgetting the fact that you got me to read the Harry Potter series which made it so I found my book otp, Wolfstar.

This letter to you, which you will never see, is to completely get over you. I’m almost there, but with someone like you it’s hard.

In the past three weeks I’ve only thought of you in that way once. I was having a family BBQ and my older sister brought her boyfriend. Her boyfriend made the comment that at the next annual family BBQ I might be bringing someone. My mind flickered to you. You would get on so well with my family, my friends. And your hatred for cheese that I also have. But that’s it. To be honest I haven’t really thought about you. At all.

We’re gonna meet up soon. AND IM OVER YOU.

And I didn’t eat a pint of ice cream.

The girl who used to have a crush on you :)