What's the Ros opinions on marriage and do they want kids ?
Alright so for Ahmad, I am going to have tp do a deepdive on the Zephyran Empire lmao.
So basically Sultans don't get married. Period. It is not a written law, but it is the equivalent of a cultural one.
Sultans are generally kept separate from the Zephyran nobility. One way in which that is achieved is by the Sultan not marrying into them. And since they are also not allowed to marry outsiders, they just don't get married. That's why the harem exists cause they need heirs somehow.
So for Ahmad, that possibility has never existed. It is not so much that he does not want to be married, but he was never presented with it as an option so it never crossed his mind.
I think Ahmad believes marriage is very important, partly because it also ties into his religion, which values it. But he does not believe he is allowed to want it because that would require he go against his duty as Sultan.
(Also yes it is an option to marry Ahmad in game and yes, it will be the scandal of the century)
Selim sees marriage as an economic proposition. Its purpose is to advance one's political career and to produce heirs. That's it.
Because he perceives it in such a way, I don't think he truly wants to be married. He just sees it as another aspect of his job basically.
The companionship aspect presents some interest to him but ultimately he does not trust anyone so the potential spouse would just be another tool or another threat.
He does want children. In his mind, having children is the only way he can make sure he has someone to depend on. But he also fears he won't be a good father so he is holding off on it as long as he can.
Nazli was married (not to Ahmad's father, that's a long story) and she does have a child. As far as she is concerned, it is a been there, done that, kind of situation.
When she was young, she dreamed of having babies, a large family, a loving husband. But time has hardened her.
In a way, she is done with that part of her life. She can't go through it again. She does not want to go through it again.
Meryem is somewhat similiar to young Nazli in a way. She dreamed of romance, a big wedding, a bunch of children running around. The most consistent problem of her relationship with Ahmad was that he could not give her that. Or rather he could technically, he is the Sultan after all, but he did not find it a risk worth taking.
Meryem also has a son and she is very close to her son. She wishes she could have more children, but the rules of the harem allow only one son per woman so she can't.
Overall, Meryem has a very idealized version of marriage and motherhood in her head, which she longs for, probably partly because she knows she cannot have it.
Emil has a hopeless romantic hidden very deep inside his chest. He definitely dreams of eventually getting married and having children, but he does want it at the moment.
His reasoning for waiting is that he wants to stabilize his economical situation as much as possible because he starved as a kid and he wants to make sure his children will never go through that.
I think he also partly just wants to live his life for a bit longer. Travel around to faraway destinations, all that.
Emil will only marry and have kids with someone he truly loves. He may be all fun and games, but his parents drilled the importance of true love in his head and he is too attached to it to let go.
Helena is not the type to settle down. She likes traveling, flirting, playing the field. I think she would prefer to adopt rather than have kids of her own.
I do think she would make an exception for someone she truly loves. But left to her own accord, she would just prefer she and her partner love each other without need for oaths and ceremonies.
I do not think she would like the idea of childbirth. Maybe when she is a bit older but for now she wants to be fully able to move, jump and dance around. She is the less likely to settle down in one place after all.