Join Me in Being Multi-Social!
Social media is bad. All sites seem to have some factor that appears designed to annoy you specifically. Or they don't have a feature you really want. Not only that, but all the big sites seem to be competing now for the prize of worst social media site. There are no easy answers to this problem. But there are options to consider.
For me, I've found maintaining a presence on multiple social media sites to be very useful. It means I can try out different features and see the different social dynamics on different sites. It also means that unless my entire connection goes down, I can always be on social media. Always online. Yes, it's a pain to sign up for multiple sites, but you only have to do the signup once per site. After that, just switch between sites and keep posting and interacting with the people on the different sites.
And viola! You've decentralized your social media.
You may not use each site the same amount, but there's quite a difference between an occassionally used account and an empty or abandoned one in terms of easing the transition if you end up losing your favorite social media (like if it intentionally shoots itself in the foot...).
If you'd like to interact with me more specifically, consider joining pillowfort.social, a Fediverse instance like mastodon.social, LiveJournal clone Dreamwidth, or the Fediverse Tumblr clone goblin.band. You can also DM me for my Discord or Matrix handle. You can take a look at my pinned post for more details.
But if you're just interested in exploring this idea, take a look at what else is out there and dive in!