Hunger Cues - Crying is not a sign of hunger in newborns
In a world where we live and thrive on schedules, it can be stressful for breastfeeding moms and babies. Many are used to the notion that babies are only hungry every 2 hours and aren’t sure what hunger cues to look for. So when their baby starts crying and screaming in hunger (maybe even less than 2 hours since their last nursing session) this can easily drive a new mother nuts.
First, let me say this, CRYING IS NOT A SIGN OF HUNGER! Crying is a sign of absolute frustration and as my teacher at UCSD put it, a state of disorganization. Crying is the result of baby’s hunger cues being missed…and to put it blank, they’re pissed. The signs you want to look out for, before they start crying are:
-Putting their hands in they’re mouth
If it gets to the point where you have missed the hunger cues (we’re all human), do NOT try to put them at breast when they are crying and disorganized. Pick them up, rock them, swaddle them, do what you need to do to calm them down….THEN put them at breast once they’ve calmed.
A typical newborn schedule will look like this:
-Quiet sleep - eyes closed, face relaxed
-Active sleep - Eyes closed but may flutter from closed to open, makes faces, chewing movements, etc. This can occure about 30 minutes
-Quiet alert state - Baby is now awake, fun to play with. Eyes wide open, paying attention.
-Active alert state - Baby’s movements are frequent. They are very alert and may put their hands in their mouth, start licking their lips, etc. THIS would be the time to start offering the breast.
-Crying/disorganization - This will happen if their hunger cues were missed. Try to calm them down, swaddle them, rock them, sing to them and get them organized and calm before offering the breast.
-Drowsiness period - I like to refer to this as “milk drunk”. They are calm, might make smiling expressions, and are completely relaxed. Hey, aren’t you after a good meal!?!
References: My information came from my CLEC course at UCSD taught by Gini Baker. You can find out more information on her class here: http://extension.ucsd.edu/studyarea/index.cfm?vCourse=RMED-40006