i have dried roses but i am not giving you any
i have the souls of the unborn or something like that. idk forgot to read the label
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i have dried roses but i am not giving you any
i have the souls of the unborn or something like that. idk forgot to read the label
I just learned that some people use third person pronouns to address themselves and prefer it when others use those too to address them.
How do I go about trying that out? How to inform people around me that I want to do that in person too?
I think I want to try it out because it might help lessen my social anxiety and depression which usually revolves around social aspects of my life or things that happen to me that are confusing/make me think I'm going insane. So emotionally distancing myself from myself in language, I think, might help with that. And also, I heard it helps with decision making which I often have choice fatigue.
Does anyone on this site use third person pronouns to address themselves?
I heard it's called illeism.
Most people I know of who use this way of speaking are fellow Autistic people so I'm adding the neurodivergent and actually autistic tags to this post.
raphie's third person speech feature
i dont know enough psychology to speak on it past linguistics and lang development, but i think a lot about raph often using illeism(referencing himself in 3rd person-well raph didnt wanna hurt his brothers feelings) in his speech my theories are: yoshi may have started teaching him japanese (sometimes u refer to urself by name socially, typically kids do this) or used a lot of baby talk, and maybe raphs mutation age had him at a strange spot for language development that he kept saying his name in speech Ionger than typically developing english speakers "hello red, daddy wants u to do this"→"ok lil bro, raph wants u to do this"
AND bc he seems to hvae dissociative personalities (mind raph, the amnesic left alone raph(that i believe is a younger alter)) and has stress related to often being in charge of his bros, and probably trauma related to being left alone in the sewers (likely when they were alI Very Young), and he seems ro get into disagreements with his alters, so illeism might be both a subconscious personal separation (there is a bit of research on the benefits of this particular effect in moderation) from emotional events and a distinction bw alters
im tryna find any speech lang pathology research on this, but im curious what anyone else in the fandom may think!
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Illeism
Imagine you are given a device to speak to and completely control the actions of a complete stranger, the stranger is a real living person, and though they are unaware of you and cannot communicate back to you, you feel everything that they do.
What would you say to them? What choices would you make for them?
Now imagine that you are both the controller and the stranger
This no you/your user talks in third person
To the modern ear, illeism can sound a little silly or pompous – and we may even deride famous people who choose to talk in this way. Yet recent psychological research suggests that illeism can bring some real cognitive benefits. If we are trying to make a difficult decision, speaking about ourselves in the third person can help to neutralise the emotions that could lead our thinking astray, allowing us to find a wiser solution to our problem.
An ancient trick to think more wisely
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