#incongruence

[turtle-system]

haven’t seen anyone talk about how awkward it is to be an alter that looks 200% different from the actual body. it’s not even a “I don’t like how I look” thing it’s more of a “what the fuck where are my blue eyes and blond hair… why do I have glasses…”

- Luke

[spaesthetic]

Do people realize that if gender was a social construct people would always identify with their sex assigned at birth? The people who realized that gender was different from sex in the first place were trans people, saying that gender is a social construct is defying trans people and nobody else.

[varsex-pride]

Genitally Dysphoric Flag

Genital dysphoria: discomfort, confliction or distress with one’s genital sex, sometimes also gonadal and other secondary/phenotypic sex characteristics, not always external. 

It’s also known as genital dysmorphia when it’s not caused by a mismatch or disconnect between the biological/body/corporeal sex and gender identity, however people use the term this way even though they are not essentially gender dysphoric or transgender.

[respectful-course]

good evening, I have an announcement

I have learned. I have been enlightened. You don't need gender dysphoria to be trans, you need gender incongruence. I've been saying that you need gender dysphoria to be trans but you don't have to hate yourself, but I was unaware that there was a term that goes with that definition. Gender dysphoria is the distress one feels with their AGAB, and gender incongruence is the disconnect between one's gender and one's sex. I've been using the wrong term all along.

[goatguy7399]

Hi yes I would like to call out @transmedicalvriska for not answering my ask.

I am transmed btw so it’s not like I’m saying some shit on her for being on the dysphoria side of the debate but I am shaming her for being a radmed.

Girl don’t even accept enbies smh

So, as someone with enbie friends and a sense of deduction, I asked a very logical and straightforward question a while ago.

“If my brain can get fucked up enough in the womb to develop as a brain that opposes the sex of my body, why would it be inconceivable for that process to happen only partway?”

Radio silence since.

So, transmedicalvriska, answer my fucking question you coward.

[wakewithgiggli]

[aery-eaux]

[greighish]

something has just happened in my general vicinity because I've been hearing sirens coming from different directions for almost 5 minutes...

but for like, the first minute of sirens, someone was also blasting "It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year"