My Experiences with the Types
FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF AN INFJ
***I am only referencing people who are CONFIRMED as these types, not people who I THINK are these types***
***Also, I’M NOT EXPERT. I just find MBTI to be an interesting way of understanding people***
ENFP
well fuck you guys are great
you’re strong where i’m weak and weak where i’m strong
i always find i’m so drawn to you guys and your energy and i hAVE NO FUCKING IDEA WHY AND IT SCARES ME
every person i’ve become really really fast friends with have always ended up being enfp, go figure (which is a total of 5 people now)
anyways you guys are super whimsical and random and quirky and it’s infectious
your minds aren’t always super grounded but your hearts are, and that’s why i love you
never fail to flip my perspective on something, or at least shake things up for me
always fuel me with great ideas (that i end up having to integrate because bOY do you guys hate organizing thoughts)
seemingly random and wild but you really have hearts of gold
if i piss you off, though, it’s silent treatment for a whiiiiile
and passive aggressive disses
it’s low-key scary because i can just tell you’re not unleashing their full wrath on me lmaooo
never have i ever seen an enfp that doesn’t care about society at large; my enfp friends are so passionate about liberalism and how everyone should be accepting of people despite race, sexuality, gender, etc.
and they’re totally right, but it’s just rare to see someone who’s an outspoken advocate for such people
IT’S DAMN BEAUTIFUL
INTJ
i’ve only met two intj’s and it’s always a deep mental connection
like yOU GUYS GET ME AND I GET YOU AND I LOVE IT
we both tend to think the same way but in completely different spheres of life, so when we get together we just get glimpses of these other areas of life that we never would’ve given thought otherwise
that te though
that tE THOUGH
y’all efficient and cutthroat (in the nicest possible sense of the word) as fuckkkkk
you can analyze events like nobody’s business; people tend to confuse this as an infj trait, but i’ve noticed that i’ll recognize what a PERSON will do next rather than what will happen next
i can sit in complete silence right next to you and not feel obligated to fill that silence, and that’s the introvert’s dream right there
you teach me how to be more goal-oriented and get things done, and i do my best to teach you the beauty of relationships and people
the intj’s in my life have given me the best advice on how to just go after something that is important to me, and i find myself coming to you guys a lot if i’m feeling insecure or my fe starts to turn unhealthy again
as much as we bicker about things (anyone with strong te tends to trigger my trickster te and makes me paranoid, so intj’s aren’t an exception), we will always come back to that little nest of comfort that we have
ALSO YOU GUYS GET MY SENSE OF HUMOR AND LITERALLY NO ONE ELSE DOES SO THANK YOU FOR THAT
ESFJ
okay not gonna lie my first impression of the esfj’s that i’ve met were that they were kind of ditzy AHAHA
that inferior ti is a pain in the butt when i’m trying to help them with something, but that fe is so charming that i just keep helping them
besides that, though, literally the sweetest human beings ever
the stereotype of being the mom friend is totally true
honestly the type of people to make you a care package or bake you cookies if you’re sick, upset, sad, or any other situation where you’d need a pick me up
no matter who you are, THEY ARE YOUR BIGGEST CHEERLEADER
they know they’re not good at the nitty-gritty, logical stuff, but they make up for it with a whole lot of smiling, good times, and good feelings
the BEST house party hosts because they make it a point to make everyone feel like they’re part of the group and make sure everyone’s enjoying themselves
that one person at a party who insists everyone eats at least two plates before they even start piling up their first one, even if they’re starving
love anything cute and fluffy, or something that reminds them of their childhood
FOR SUUURE one of those people who dress nice and put makeup on to spend 10 minutes at the grocery store
always look good, always make you feel good... just good people in general
APPLAUSE APPLAUSE APPLAUSE FOR ALL THE ESFJ’S OUT THERE
INFP
you guys. are. adorable.
it’s so cute seeing you so passionate about so many things and it’s SO CUTE that you have all these little interests that you spend so much time learning about
that friend that always motivates me to get organized at school but honestly are just as much of a mess themselves AHAHAH
but when you’re in a funk though, or someone decided to piss you off...
i feel like i need to hold my breath and back away, making no noise
otherwise, they’re mushy-gushy and easy to please
GIVE THE BEST CUDDLES TBH LIKE YOU GUYS ARE SO CUDDLY AND CUTE
most of you are disney fanatics... and you probably love rapunzel or mulan
you guys have cool creative outlets like poetry and music and it’s so cool to see how much you guys express through them
ESPECIALLY poetry
you guys are so passionate about your ideas and passionate about your values that it’s infectious
it’s hard for me not to care about them too
10/10 would recommend being friends with an infp
ISFJ
mom friend 2.0 (sorry, isfj’s, esfj’s still got ya beat in that regard)
have like two planners that are color coded and colorful to keep your schedule in check and make sure that you maintain your little system
you guys are so hardworking and grounded and i fucking live for it
not typically into school and learning, but you’re super task-oriented and will get a job done no matter what it takes
great integrity too
as long as your fe isn’t unhealthy or doesn’t get carried away, you guys are the most responsible and dutiful people i know
you guys will have like ONE dish at this ONE favorite restaurant in this ONE specific location (no other locations if it’s a franchise)
or like ONE specific way your food needs to be made or it’s not the same for you
one of the two isfj’s i know irl needs to have red apples and rainbow carrots in her japanese curry or she will literally make a face and almost refuse to eat it
IT’S SO CUTE THOUGH LOWKEY AHAHHA
also if you’re an isfj and aren’t in love with puppies i seriously think you’ve mistyped
^jk but really, you guys love cutesy stuff haha
That’s all I have for now! As you can see, I’m usually attracted to the same types of people, haha. I really need to work on that.
Until then, enjoy this completely useless and probably boring post about my take on the types! :)
