#jared supportive

[maevevervain]

Just watched the arm grab clip on insta. Jensen was telling the whole story about how hard Jared grabbed his arm when he was stressed that he was sure the circulation stopped. HE DID NOT MENTION ANYTHING ABT BRUISES!

It was Misha who said "oh there's bruises" so DON'T be shocked if there are no bruises on Jensen's arm because Misha is a malicious liar. I haven't seen any bruises on either of Jensen's arms in any of the photos published yet..maybe they are there...maybe they are not idk.

If there aren't any then we all know this was another subtle or maybe not so subtle attempt of Misha to potray Jared in a bad light. AGAIN. Jared apologised to Jensen the moment he took notice of what he was doing to his arm as JENSEN told this himself so I don't understand Misha's need to start another lie or to make Jared look horrible.

[hexedwinchester]

Hi! Okay, so I just needed to get this out and tell someone with good communication skills who can actually say something about it and agrees with me (i hope).

So I was on YouTube and watched this convention video with jensen saying something (good, obviosuly) about jared. He commented that when spn started sam was the principal character, so Jared's name's always number one in everything.

So I go to comments AND SURPRISE everyone is just hating on sam/jared. Like yeah I know I'm supposed to be used to that by now since that is king of normal in this fandom (sadly), but I just exploded. It's okay if you dont agree with something, if you dont like a character, I can understand that.

What I dont get is how can people be so insensitive to think that sam/jared fans are not gonna read that. Also like, I don't go hating on dean/jensen when there's no point. I mean they do it without reason. Instead on commenting any other thing. It's like they use whatever as an excuse to hate on a character that is really loved, on an actor that has saved lives.

Anyway just my thoughts cause I got kind of frustrated.

Hope you have a great day! 💛

Hi venting noni!

First off, hope you are feeling calmer now and that venting to my blog helped. I think I know which video you are referring to.

What Jensen said is a fact. Sam always was the main character of the show. While Dean did get his pivotal arcs and in later seasons more weightage (although this is purely because late season writers did not know how convincingly write Sam or what to do with his character) but the fact that the show started and ended with Sam is a proof in itself that he was and always will be the main character of Supernatural. If anyone needs more proof, look how TW did without Sam. Sam is the soul of Supernatural and the moment the focus was taken away from him, the show started going down the hill (and to Hell)

Sam/Jared hate is very common and some of the worst of it is on Twitter and here. If you aren't on twitter, i'd recommend staying away especially if these things impact you (and rightly so). What I've noticed is a lot of these haters are not even the fans of Dean/Jensen or even the show, these are the worst kind of people who are here only for that stupid ship that exists only in their heads. And honestly, most of these people haven't even seen the show from the first season. Yes, there are people who have jumped into the show from S4 and stopped watching at S15E18 and love to pretend the actual finale didn't happen. But just because you don't accept the truth doesn't mean it's stopping becoming the truth. For them Sam is a threat to destihell and Jared is a threat to Cockless. So they spit a lot of hate because deep down they know their ships will never be canon.

They make up lies about Jared because that is the only way they can feel better about M*sha. if pull a list of bad things both of them have done, Jared's probably stops at 2 (the bar fight and expressing his anger on twitter for delivery apps issues) while M*sha misadventures are endless. And they stan him no matter what. So the question remains: do we really care what this bunch thinks?

We know what the show stands for and how Jared is. His testimony comes from all the people who have worked with him right from the sets of Gilmore Girls, to House of Wax, to Supernatural, to Fire Country and of course Walker. So let's not get bothered by opinions of bullies who hide behind usernames and random pfps.

Thanks for your honesty here! Take care :)

[wrdlbrmpfd]

I just watched Jared’s solo panel from JIB16–A fan asked him how he felt about Sam becoming more resilient in the later seasons. Jared said it wasn’t resilience—it was surrender. He said that was something Sam taught him: you wake up every day not knowing what’s going to happen, you try to figure it out together, but if you lose, you lose—and you just accept whatever comes.

Another fan asked how he felt about Sam choosing to stay with Amelia instead of looking for Dean. Jared said Sam made a wrong choice, but that’s who Sam is—life sends you this way and that way. When the fan followed up, Jared added that Sam didn’t want to form connections with anyone and he personally relates to that a lot—that he doesn’t want to get close to people because he feels like they’ll get hurt if they’re too close to him.

I don’t know what’s going on with Jared, and I’m not sure whether his answers were hinting at something happening in his real life. Seeing him so down really breaks my heart. 😢😔💔

That's just Jared being overly emotional. I guess this question triggered something in him and lead to his anxiety attack later on. I do believe he's in a good place mhi wise in general but sometimes glitches happen and take you off the rails for a short time. And Jared is someone who always tends to put himself down, especially in such a state of mind.

[the-analytical-bostie]

Jared isn’t the most powerful c-list actor. No one knows who is outside of spn and Gilmore girls. he isn’t even the most popular out of j2. So stop kissing his ass. I don’t kiss Jensens ass or Misha’s ass. Jared isn’t popular and that’s okay

The post where I said that was complete sarcasm based on the totally insane obsessive Jared posts from “those” heller blogs. They say he’s irrelevant then turn right around and claim he’s forcing a people do things. That’s all it was.

I don’t pit J2 against each other, so in my eyes they are equal and always will be.

[markofcandycain]

it’s interesting there were rumours of Jared having a panic attack in his panel and then on Sunday he says he’d had a breakdown in the car. Did he maybe not make it out the con before it started? :( I saw something about him acting stange in the corridor

I can only speak for what I saw, which wasn't any unusual behaviour in his panels. I didn't see him in the corridor with any strange behaviour either but I don't line up in the corridor to spot the actors because I'm short and can't see anything 😂 so I don't see most of those moments unless I'm lucky with my timing.

It's not uncommon for Jared to get emotional in panels because people see him as a safe person to trauma dump on while they thank him for the inspiration he's given them. I'm glad they feel that appreciation for him but it must be so draining because he's a sensitive person but not a therapist and not professionally equipped to deal with these things. And he'd spoken about missing his children which definitely brings up a lot of feelings.

Jensen was still scheduled for signing autographs after Jared's panel and we know they travelled together so he had a good while between that and leaving where he could have had privacy in the greenroom if he needed it and had friends around him there. Rich and Rob weren't scheduled for anything and it was before the concert was being set up so they were all free.

Based on how people are talking about him in his panel, I'm inclined to not believe rumours about him in the corridors without seeing proof. He definitely had support around him but waiting until he had total privacy and was away from fans before letting it out seems like what happened in my opinion. Not that he was out of control and unfit to be working as some people are trying to spin it.

[maevevervain]

This thing on my mind that I need to let out

This year JIB 16 was my first experience of a JIB con. Ofc I had watched old con videos of JIB but at that time I didn't know what was so special abt it cause for me I was just catching up with everything..watching whatever interview clip I could find or con videos without any timeline order...

This time everyone arnd me were so excited for JIB for the J2 content because after I searched for it I found out all about the last JIB and how amazing and memorable it was. How fun Jensen and Jared were and their many many sweet loving and them being them moments. I don't know what the reaction of the other side was through all of this since I wasn't there then and neither did I put the effort to search for it.

I don't know why and this is just my personal opinion but I kinda of felt like this year "they" were to ready to tarnish each and every Jared or J2 moment in JIB because of how wonderful it was last time. I don't know but I am really shocked at the way everyone from that side started to attack since the first day and continued it till the concert. Portraying Jared as an alcoholic who wasn't in control so any sweet touches or words exchanged between Jensen and him are immediately invalid because it was just an obligation. Blaming Jared's breakdown on him being away from his kids when that wasn't the reason for it. Making such a big fucking deal about his mental health..all that concern troll..trying to show how anyone who is celebrating anything abt Jared doesn't care about him because clearly he is not okay and clearly we are trying to hide it. Proving Misha is a person with a big heart who helped Jared and "babysit" him..how big of a burden Jared is on everyone arnd him. Ruining a sweet moment between Mark's daughter and Jared and turning it into something disgusting by making it sexual. It's like they defiled everything.

And while it was fun to watch how none of it stuck. How every attempt of their's was clapped back viciously. How they made a fool of themselves..how everyone still enjoyed the stuff...it just wasn't it.

All of this was so mean-spirited and malicious and all of this was over a fucking ship that isn't real (destiel or cockles). Idk all this in the grand scheme of events feels so insignificant but the way they take it so seriously that they are ready to destroy a person's everything is beyond me.

[maevevervain]

'Someone learned how to love from you'

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Source: twitter

[maevevervain]

I am so sick of watching the hatred on Jared online. The things they say are so cruel and mean and vindictive like are you even human?? How can you be happy and enjoy someone's pain! That's literally fucked up. Aisde from the physical agony of breaking a bone...anyone who truly knows him understands the emotional strain all of this must have had on him. Jared has done nothing and I mean NOTHING to deserve such behavior from these cowardly people. On the other hand Misha has done more questionable things..has said such debateable stuff but still they worship the ground that he walks on and I don't understand that?? There is a whole post with proofs of why Misha is disliked and all these people just turn a blind eye over it?

I try not to let these things take place in my heart because all these people monsters are such pathetic losers in their life..like how could you harbour such hatred towards someone who does nothing but help people? But these past few days the level of cruelty they have been showing. I am really shocked.