->You're hyper independent || Ateez Reactions || Maknae Line
Genre: fluff, angst for Jongho’s part, slice of life AU
Warnings: mentions of relatives' death on Mingi’s part; mentions overworking, lack of self care and unhealthy perfectionism on San’s part; this IS more heavy in general than the first part, I'm so sorry. I don't incentivize any of the behaviors depicted in this.
N/A: This is a very real trauma response that real people have. However, I tried to keep it light, humorous, and focus on the support and love the reader received from the boys in different contexts instead of the actual trauma triggering situation that cause the trauma response. If I, in any way, offend people who have this trauma response, I'm open to learning and editing this, if necessary.
N/A ²: This is a gender neutral! reader in all of them, but Mingi’s part.
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Choi San (최산): He’ll take care of you, whether you like it or not
Choi San wasn’t your husband, yet at least. The engagement talk was at its peak, and you knew a proposal wasn’t far off. Still, if any of your friends saw the two of you on a normal day, they’d ask where you found such an amazing house husband, and you wouldn’t be able to respond. He wasn’t your house husband, nothing against it, but you wouldn’t be able to be with a man that hadn’t the same ambition with his work as you did. Well, maybe San didn’t have this hunger to be at the top like you, but he was determined and passionate, striving to be his best every day and finding new ways to grow, and that was enough for you.
Although he had his own fair share of work schedule, his work from home was flexible and task-based rather than time-based, so with his efficiency, he managed to have more free time than you. This led to your current arrangement. It was rare for you to be at home if it wasn’t on a weekend, so it was a seamless transition for him to live with you and contribute a bigger portion of house labor. His presence was something dangerous because you started to think about what you would do without him in your life. He added instead of subtracting from your energy and time, which sometimes seemed like a surreal dream.
You had a full-time job, a good apartment, a car, and a whole social life you had to manage. There was so much you wanted to do with your life, with your free time, that you were used to the feeling of being hungry throughout the day or dizziness from the lack of hydration. The only way you managed to rest was when you were asleep. Otherwise, you felt like you were losing time. This was your normal day-to-day self, what you were used to, and yes, you knew it was bad.
When you met San, your health was at its lowest. It was normal for him to be worried, and your friends and family were. But he was the one that took action, a man you barely knew at the time. All his attempts were kindly rejected by you, and then you hated the thought of him, of all people, helping you. Not only you didn’t need it, but you’d hate to be a bother.
But San was as stubborn as he was beautiful. He reminded you religiously to drink water, cooked healthy meals for you even on weekends, bought groceries for you when you didn’t have the time for so many weeks you were truly embarrassed by yourself, took care of your plants when you were away on work trips and so much more.
It was all so weird. You constantly waited for the other shoe to drop. For the time when he’d be tired of this constant routine of caring for you. Your toxic self was waiting for the confirmation that you were too much for anyone to handle, that nobody could be with you and keep up, that you were the problem and that was the reason you could never be in a relationship for long.
But San proved you wrong, again and again, and you couldn’t even be mad at him for it.
Song Mingi (송민기): Turns out, he’s not just a silly little guy
Mingi was your younger brother best friend, and there were times you hated him for it. As the elder daughter, you took on the biggest load of everything in your house up until you left for college in another state. Until that moment, you had to be silent and grateful about it all. There was no throwing yourself on the ground to get your way or crying yourself out of your “duties”, which included but not limited to cooking all the meals for yourself and your brother, making the grocery store list and buying everything yourself once you were old enough, cleaning the entire house yourself, which wasn’t the initial agreement, and babysitting your brother 24/7 and his friends when they were over, which was almost every single day. So clearly, there was a lot on your plate, nothing a child should have on theirs. But why did you hate Mingi in specific? He wasn’t mean, but he thought it was funny to break rules, to do what your parents told they couldn’t and he got away with it while the blame fell on you. Not once, not twice.
In Mingi’s defense, he didn’t know actions had consequences at the time, he was 6 and a spoiled only child, also, he felt really shitty when your brother told him your parents punished you for some of the stuff they did later, but he thought it was too late. After two decades and something passed, somehow, you still saw him as the same irresponsible boy that got you into trouble. Mind you, he kind of never left your life completely, he was in bedded in the family’s stories, in the corner of the photos, in the little small get together that were family only, but he was never close to you. That’d be quite the impossible mission since you looked like you hated his guts.
But when the worst time of your life came, so did his redemption arc. Your grandma got really sick, and the whole family was in shambles, but somehow, you were the one expected to make the bigger sacrifices. Most of your relatives live far away, some out of the country and although your mom moved in with you, her health wasn't in an ideal condition to take care of someone else, which was already another problem and another whole set of eggs for you to be careful not to step on. It was only you in this, at least, you thought so until Mingi showed up on your doorstep, ready to help. It concerned you, but your position didn't allow you to turn him down. To your surprise, Mingi helped with a lot. Since he never moved away from his family home, he managed to help daily with meal prepping, groceries shopping, and the house up-keeping. No one really asked him to step up like that. Not even your own brother did this much after a week, yet he was by your side through it all.
A lot of the weight was off your back before you realized it. It was a weird sensation, but you were truly thankful for him, and you wanted to find a way to let him know. After an entire month, your relationship with Mingi was still stiff and awkward, yet you began to appreciate it for what it was, and maybe, someday, it'd be a work in progress.
Jeong Wooyoung (정우영): You may call him a wrecking ball
It seems like he has been paying for all his sins ahead of time because why does he have to love such difficult people? *dramatic sigh*. Ok, that was a lie. He didn’t care you weren’t the best with physical affection, you walked around like that wasn’t a thing at all, but that’s OK, because he’s affectionate enough for the both of you.
You had pretty established boundaries, more like a steel wall around you that people couldn’t go through. While Wooyoung…, yeah. It was a weird kind of friendship at first, if he could call a friendship. He was a work colleague, but somehow, he saw right through your tough act on day one, unlike everyone else. You tended to put a good distance in your every relationship unintentionally, too focused on your work to pay attention on small talk or the gossip of the day, but others saw it as a lack of interest in their friendship, which wasn’t true. You were as interested in them as you were scared of them.
Although it wasn’t possible for Wooyoung to know the in’s and out’s of your mind, he saw your unintentional push and pull game in those subtle ways. Whenever you tried to be closer to people in your own way, the effort wasn’t reciprocated until the point you’d take the hint. It was too late. You managed to scare them away again.
If anyone would ask him why he tried so hard to befriend you, he’d lie and say he didn’t have to try at all, you fell for his charms in an instant. But if he were to be honest, he’d say he saw a part of himself in you. In his eyes, you weren’t cold, nor uptight and mean. You just didn’t give love to others in an open way. This didn’t mean you didn’t have any to give or that you aren’t able to feel it. His running theory was that you were his exact opposite, and he couldn’t just live you be without helping you out or, at least, try.
The moment he got to crack a small piece of your wall, when he wasn’t even trying to, he was determined to see more. And oh boy, didn’t he see it? Now, this may be ridiculous, but he felt honored when you let him step into your world as a whole, no judgment, only him trying to understand you as a person. It warmed his heart that he got to be someone important in your life as much as you were on his.
If anyone that work along side the both of you saw you two today, years later, they wouldn’t believe it. But here you are, pretending you don’t like his weekly hugs spree while you don’t move a single muscle to get him off you. Isn’t it funny how things change? Hm? What was this, oh, you said you feel like laying down on the couch now, so you wouldn’t move? OK, he’d let you have that excuse for now.
Choi Jongho (최종호): he was your missing piece. Now you only miss him
To see him in a situation like this made you consider hysterically laughing until the moment your brain forgets where you are and you don’t care anymore. That must be a nice feeling, one you never really felt without him. Like you, he was dressed up for the weeding ceremony of your friend in common and you felt dumb, first, because you swore you’d only attend if there was no possibility of him coming, he was supposed to be out of the country and second, because he didn’t spare you another look.
Your breakup was amicable and mutual. With both of your lives ascending, the distance grew, physically and emotionally. There was no ease and stress-free conversations, suddenly you couldn’t relate to each other anymore and what was the point to be with him when the only thing you wanted to do on your break was rot in bed instead of seeing him? You had no energy to spare, and neither did him.
Why do you still care, then?
Because he was perfect for you, at least at some point, in every sense of the word. He saw you and didn’t judge, didn’t try to change who you was, instead he slowly but surely helped you adapt into a new routine with him in it. It was livelier and brighter when he was around.
The moment he left, you noticed that you just lived the happiest years of your life, and there was no coming back from it. You didn’t even attempt to talk once more, Jongho was like you in the sense that he carefully decided who stayed on his life and who didn’t, you moved to the latter, but you were the one that moved him out of yours first, weren’t you?
Your time management improved after all, but it let you down when it mattered the most. So, you tortured yourself a bit more, watching him and wondering what was going through his mind and if that had anything to do with you.
Jongho saw you the moment he walked in, but he pretended not to for his own sake. Although he'd never admit it out loud, to greet an ex at a weeding was above his maturity level. He just couldn’t bring himself to do it. Of course, you looked..., and of course, you'd have a date with you, but that didn't mean he had to see you two together, right? His solution was to stay away from you as far as he could. However, to accomplish such things, he'd have to be aware of your whereabouts all night long.
His self-control and straightforward priorities were some of his best qualities. He managed the need to stalk you on his worst days back then, so he never got to see how you were doing. At that moment, he could tell you were doing your best to be fine, to look perfect, but he used to know you better than that facade. Sometimes, he wondered if you regretted as much as he did.
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hongjoong: romantic and passionate kisser
-hongjoong is highly attuned to the emotional state of his partner. he can sense when to be tender and when to be more intense, creating a balanced and deeply fulfilling kiss
-he starts his kisses softly and slowly, allowing you both to savor the initial connection. his lips brush against yours gently, almost teasingly, before gradually deepening the kiss
-as the kiss progresses, hongjoong's passion becomes more evident. he knows how to build intensity, drawing you closer and making each moment more electrifying. his hands might gently cradle your face or slide around your waist, pulling you closer
-his kisses are not just about physical touch, they are expressive of his feelings
-while he often maintains a romantic demeanor, he occasionally surprises you with playful pecks and teasing nibbles
-eye contact is a significant part of his kissing style
seonghwa: tender and sensual kisser
-seonghwa approaches kissing with a gentle and caring touch. he starts softly, ensuring that you feel comfortable and cherished from the very beginning. his kisses are like a warm embrace, tender and reassuring
-he takes his time, savoring each moment. seonghwa believes in the art of slow kissing, letting the connection build gradually
-his hands are always gentle, whether they are caressing your face, softly brushing your hair, or resting on the small of your back
-he is highly aware of the sensory experience. he might softly hum or sigh, creating a multi-sensory experience
-while his kisses are gentle, they are also emotionally intense
-he prefers intimate and serene settings for kissing, such as a quiet evening at home or under the stars
-he might rest his forehead against yours, hold your gaze, or gently touch your face
yunho: playful and passionate kisser
-yunho brings a vibrant energy to his kisses. his enthusiasm is contagious, making every kiss feel lively and exciting. he often approaches with a bright smile before leaning in, creating a sense of anticipation
-he loves to keep things interesting by being spontaneous. he might surprise you with a kiss out of nowhere, whether you're in the middle of a conversation or cooking together
-he enjoys teasing you with quick pecks, playful nibbles, or gentle bites, followed by a more intense and passionate kiss
-his kisses are confident and assertive, making you feel secure and desired. he often holds you firmly, either wrapping his arms around you or holding your face
-he likes to engage all your senses during a kiss. he might gently stroke your back or whisper sweet words
yeosang: gentle and thoughtful kisser
-yeosang may initially be a bit shy when it comes to kissing, approaching you with a gentle, almost tentative touch
-his kisses are soft and delicate, almost feather-like. he takes time, savoring each moment and ensuring that every kiss is meaningful and tender
-yeosang is very attentive to your reactions. he carefully watches your responses and adjusts his kissing style to match your comfort and preferences
-his kisses have a warmth that makes you feel safe and loved, he holds you gently, his touch reassuring and comforting
-he believes in the power of slow, meaningful kisses
-he whispers sweet words and compliments during or after the kiss. his voice is soft and soothing, making you feel even more connected to him
san: passionate and intense kisser
-san brings a fiery passion to his kisses. he kisses with an urgency and intensity that makes each moment feel electric. his kisses are deeply passionate, leaving you breathless and yearning for more
-san kisses with confidence, taking the lead and guiding the experience
-his kisses are highly expressive, conveying a wide range of emotions. whether he's showing love, desire, or affection, his kisses are a window into his heart and soul
-he enjoys mixing up his kissing style. he might start with slow, deep kisses, then switch to quick, playful pecks, and back again
-he involves his whole body in the kiss, he pulls you close, wraps his arms around you, or runs his hands through your hair
-before and after kissing, san's intense gaze can make your heart race
mingi: sensual and devoted kisser
-mingi kisses with a slow, sensual intensity. he takes his time, making sure every moment is filled with deep, lingering passion
-he pays close attention to the little details. he notices and responds to your every reaction
-his hands are gentle and tender while kissing
-mingi has a unique ability to combine gentleness with intensity. his kisses are soft and tender, yet they carry a powerful emotional charge
-after kissing he likes to maintain the connection. he rests his forehead against yours or shares a tender smile
wooyoung: playful and affectionate kisser
-wooyoung brings a lot of playfulness and joy into his kisses. he enjoys teasing you with quick pecks, playful nibbles, and unexpected kisses that catch you off guard, making you laugh and smile
-his kisses are often accompanied by his infectious laughter and bright smiles
-he loves to surprise you with spontaneous kisses, whether you're walking down the street or doing something mundane
-despite his playful nature, his kisses are also filled with warmth and affection
-he might be playful and teasing one moment, then shift to a more tender and passionate approach
jongho: gentle and sincere kisser
-jongho approaches kissing with a calm and composed demeanor. his kisses are steady and reassuring, making you feel safe and cherished
-he is very thoughtful and considerate when kissing
-he takes his time, making each kiss feel meaningful and heartfelt. his gentle touch is soothing and affectionate
-hi kisses are filled with affection and warmth. he makes you feel cherished and appreciated, using his kisses to express his deep care and love for you
-there's a depth to jongho's kisses that goes beyond the physical. he connects with you on an emotional level
-he prefers intimate moments for kissing, where you can both relax and enjoy each other's company without distractions.
Warnings: none, Jongho is just too smooth for his own good, that's all
A/N: While working on my other bigger projects, I've decided to post another member's part of my First kisses with Ateez reaction series!! This time, the member of choice is Jongho, as I've been especially focused on him lately. Hope you enjoy and see you again soon! ♥
A/N 2: Btw, this is part of a small event I did on both this blog and my other, more nsfw one, @kp-alice! Go check it out if you're interested in some fun sub!yeosang smut ♥
Now, I think Jongho is a simple man
Not in a bad way, of course not!!
He just likes to take things at a slow, comfortable pace, especially when it comes to relationships
So he would definitely be one of the less nervous members when it came to your first kiss
He wouldn’t worry about it much, deciding that he’d stress about it when it actually happened
And in the meantime, he'd want to get to know you as much as possible, resulting in many relaxed, quiet dates where the two of you would get to hang out and talk, or even just vibe silently in the other’s presence
Whether it would be at a park, at home, or at some cute and cozy café - much like right now
You were just planning on taking a short walk around, wanting to enjoy the unexpectedly pleasant weather today
But then you saw this cool hand-made artisan shop, and this beautiful public art display, and-
Before you knew it, you strayed way off your original starting point, walking through unknown streets and exploring your new surroundings
Had it been just you walking around, you would have been a bit worried by now, pulling out your phone to try and find your way back
But with Jongho, you knew you had nothing to be concerned about
He just held your hand and pulled you along, a small smile never leaving his lips as he did so
And really, this did help you relax and allow yourself to roam freely
Until you noticed the sullen, grey sky looming above you, warning the two of you that the weather wouldn’t be staying nice for much longer
You told Jongho right away, making him reluctantly agree with you to call it a day just to be safe
But not even a few minutes later, rain started falling from the sky, growing in intensity with every street you passed
This alone would have been doable, but once the freezing wind picked up as well, you were starting to question your life decisions
Noticing your wet shirt, Jongho offered you his jacket to warm yourself up, but you quickly refused, not wanting him to get sick
But Jongho obviously didn’t want that for you either
And so, after a second failed attempt at convincing you to just take the jacket because he’d rather catch a cold himself than have you suffer, he thought of a different plan
Before you knew it, you were being pulled into the nearest café, a small bell chiming above your head as you entered
You tried to protest, but Jongho just gently shushed you, tugging you with him to a cozy table tucked in a far-away corner
There, he helped you get seated before taking off his jacket and sitting down next to you
“Jongho, we really don’t have to stay here, we’re not that far from-” “Of course we’re staying. I’m freezing cold and I was wearing more layers than you. No way I'm letting you out there before the rain stops,” he quickly retorted before reaching for the menu on the table
“But,” you tried again, nervously biting on your lip as you continued, “I didn’t even bring any money, I didn’t expect us to order anything today…”
You couldn’t help but feel embarrassed, silently scolding yourself for leaving your purse at home
The entire day was going great, but now you were going to ruin it with a small, stupid mistake
You wanted to apologize, to try and maybe save this situation somehow, but then…
???
Before you could say anything, you felt Jongho’s lips on yours, effectively shutting you up
Instinctively, you closed your eyes, resting a hand on his thigh for support as you leaned in for more
Shortly after, Jongho pulled away, tucking a stray strand of hair behind your ear
“And who said I’d let you pay?” He retorted with a smile, lowering his hand to cup your cheek, “I chose to bring us here so it’s my treat. All you need to do is warm yourself back up and stop worrying.”
And with that (and a light blush blooming on his face), he turned back to the menu, skimming the drinks to find something for the two of you while you still sat there, shocked
Needless to say, thanks to Jongho, you did feel a lot warmer already.
Thank you so much for reading! And remember, feedback is always appreciated!! <3
a/n : i feel like it's been too long since ive posted, so here's some general hcs ive been accumulating for a bit while i finish up a couple requests and fics! essentially , this is the equivalent of a naruto filler episode while i attempt to crank out actual work !!
Kim Hongjoong
likes to body-double. he ends up getting work done super efficiently when someone just sits with him.
really enjoys having meals with others and views it almost as a way to bond and connect with people. basically, this man views quality time as an important aspect of his love language.
has a very strong opinion as to whether or not pineapple belongs on pizza. (spoiler: his answer is no and he's prepared to die on this hill).
Park Seonghwa
does the mom arm thing in the car when the brakes are slammed on suddenly.
quotes along with his favorite scenes when he watches star wars. he's watched the prequels enough times to have the obi-wan and anakin final battle script down pat.
will mindlessly talk or mumble to himself as he cleans and does chores.
Kang Yeosang
the type of friend who sits quietly and by himself at parties / big functions. he looks like he doesn't want to be there but is actually having a very nice time just people-watching and being in the presence of friends.
animals love him, doesn't matter what kind. even the shyest of animals will rub up against him and beg for pets.
regularly tries to slowly close the fridge door just enough to watch the light shut off.
Jeong Yunho
never kills bugs. if he spots a spider or fly or whatever, he will capture it in a cup and release it outside.
usually ends up being the designated driver. he doesn't even have to be convinced and most of the time he volunteers.
sings in the shower. i'm talking full-length, concert-worthy, best performance of his life, type singing in the shower. (and yes, this applies to all hours of the night).
Choi San
is never the first to pull away in a hug. he will stay latched on to whoever it is until they decide to let go. he says it's because you never know how much someone may have needed that hug.
is the friend that doesn't like asking the waiter for extra napkins or condiments, but if everyone else is too scared to ask then he'll step up to the plate.
collects little keep-sakes like movie tickets, receipts, and fortune cookie fortunes.
Song Mingi
the type of guy to pick someone up and spin them around when he gets excited.
knows his voice is deep and it can get scary when he yells, so he rarely raises his voice because he doesn't want to be perceived as intimidating.
stubs his toe on furniture around the dorms. like a lot.
Jung Wooyoung
is actually a really good listener and amazing at reading rooms and people. communication is out of this world.
has memorized his friend's coffee orders and will surprise them with coffee if he knows someone is having a rough day.
puts the empty container of milk back in the fridge after using it all.
Choi Jongho
learned how to recite the alphabet backward when he was younger and often uses it as a party trick (will recite it backward while also breaking apples).
gives really good dating advice even if he himself is single. like 9 times out of 10 he has a solution to any couples dispute.
really really likes fuzzy blankets. he has like ,,, 6 of them and alternates between which he sleeps with.
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HONGJOONG — 홍중
oh my gosh don’t even get me started with this
joong would literally be the best husband ever he’s so sweet
and he’s soooo selfless
the amount of patience he has
the way he’s willing to do anything for you already has me weak in the knees
he’s always giving you the softest kisses and the warmest hugs along with the sweetest gestures
he does so many things to surprise you
this man is literally S tier husband material
he’s what everyone should aspire to have in a husband
SEONGHWA — 선화
seonghwa is so sexy for starters
would definitely be the sexiest husband lmfaoooo
but he's also so sweet and understanding
sometimes he doesn't communicate things but his actions show enough of his love
he's sweet and caring
and he's always spoiling you with his love
i am a strong believer of gift giving seonghwa
he's like a husband and sugar daddy in one
YUNHO — 윤호
i always tell my friends how husband material yunho is
but i don't think that i've ever expanded or explained myself
first, he's the tall guy
the way he would hover over you and give you the biggest and warmest hugs
secondly, he's an aries
he's can be hot or cold
he's got this fire in him that i don't think a lot of people see
i think yunho is the biggest caregiver
he cares a lot
and as your husband everything he does is because of you
you are constantly in the back of his mind
he's so in love with you
it's crazy
YEOSANG — 여상
cute
i just can't see yeosang as a husband
YALL I KNOW
I KNOW IM SORRY
but if he was supposed to be a husband then i think that
he would be very sweet
he would listen to everything you had to say
and he would always be curious about your life and what went on
yeosang seems insanely attentive and he would not forget anything you tell him
he's the husband that you can trust with all your secrets, dirty or clean
he keeps it all to himself
SAN — 산
okay now
san as a husband is very
very very very
possessive
have y'all seen the way he asserts his DoMiNaNcE to seonghwa whenever he gets too close to wooyoung????
being you boyfriend just wasn't enough
so he married you
he loves you a lot
and he would not let anything happen to you
although he displays some cold demeanor he is such a softy
i don't think he's a sub or anything but he's just a soft
and he's more into all the vanilla shit than you might think
in summation, san is possessive and sweet; nothing less.
MINGI — 민기
mingi
oh sweet mingi
he is such a sweet husband
he's such a jokester
and he's always making witty comments
tells you what goes on during his day
as your husband he trusts you with everything
he tells you everything, all the kpop drama, the woosan drama
you name it
mingi also is very protective over you
not possessive but protective
he would take not one bullet but multiple bullets for you
mingi is such a sweetheart and he would make for a very trusting and witty partner
WOOYOUNG — 우영
bold of you to assume that he's not already married to san or something as best friends
i think wooyoung as a husband is fun
he is very fun and is always looking for something to do
i think he's super sweet and always doing things to make you laugh
he's someone who can be your shoulder to cry on
someone who can be your rock
wooyoung is always there for you
you could always trust him
like
always
and he's always so soft with you
just his touch, his gaze, everything.
JONGHO — 종호
i feel like he's the husband everyone wanted when they were little
the fairytale husband
the one who opens jars when they're stuck
the one who holds doors open for you
your high school sweetheart that you just had your happily ever after with
jongho is also a great listener
always willing to listen to everything you have to say
someone who can also be your rock or your shoulder to lean on
and im sure it works both ways
jongho doesn't just settle with anyone
so if you're his partner then you'll be treated like it
Jongho is super easygoing and when he sees you’re shy and reserved, he’d be really careful to not make you feel uncomfortable
He’d ask you simple questions and tell you things about himself to make you feel safe around him
He’d smile a lot and be really comforting
He’s literally a teddy bear
Super attentive when you tell him things about yourself
He would try his best to not be too pushy when he asks about you because he doesn't want you to feel pressured at all
I see him as someone that would send you cute pictures of things he has seen
He would spend time with you in laid-back locations such as parks or cafe’s
Would tell you jokes or funny stories to get you to laugh and open up about your own fun memories
Jongho would be very supportive of you and would give you lots of encouragement
He would tell you a lot about his members so it’s not as big of a shock when you meet them
He would definitely wait a little while until he let’s the others meet you because he doesn't want you to feel awkward
Sticks by your side in situations that you're not familiar with
Always casual whenever he's around you
Would reassure you a lot if you feel uncomfortable
He’s not a huge fan of skinship so you don't really have to worry about him being too touchy or clingy
Jongho always checks up on you if you're a little quiet
Would get excited inside whenever you tell him something personal because he knows you don’t like to open up much
Jongho 10/10 bestie :3
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Dad Award to this man, Like, Seriously, Dad award to Jongho
He plays a huge role in his sons life, He favors Jongho so much but with your skills
His son is about, 5 years old, He looks up to Jongho and You so much
Your kid would be amazed by his fathers strength
Goes around his friends to brag about how strong is his dad is
Would have Jongho break an apple in front of his friends who also get amazed and entertained
Jongho wouldn’t force his son to do anything he didn’t wanna do
He would coach him though about how he shouldn’t give up easily on things
“Listen, You asked me and your mother to put you in sports, we did as you asked, I just want you to know that practice is important for everything, never give up on something because of one little mistake,”
Pep talks the kid until he’s fully ready to hit that baseball to a home run
Now when he is busy with work, You often have to be the entertainment for your son
He enjoys it but starts missing his dad because he’s used to seeing Jongho pick on you when you try to entertain your son
When it’s a little pass nine o’clock, Jongho would walk in and expect you guys to already be passed out
But nope, the air has a scent of food, and a scent of cherry pie which his son wanted to help you make for him
Dinner was never boring, You guys would make classic family conversation at the table until Jongho and your son start discussing something off subject
When he isn’t busy with his group, He’s always taking you guys on family dates
Simply you would go for ice cream, going to the arcade, might take you guys swimming, might take you guys bowling too
He always has photos of you and his son a lot
His lockscreen is always his son at his birthday party, when it’s unlocked it’s a photo of you and him on your anniversary date
He is a huge family man, he has no shame in bragging about you guys
His son is his light in life, a really big light
Jongho believes that no matter what, he will always be there for his son
So far he has been there, a lot more than he can count
He cuddles his son with no shame, his son is his comfort, always telling him things he wants him to remember
“No matter what, I’ll always love you, you know that, When me and your mom grow old, and I’m no longer an idol, You should know that I did what I did because I love you” “Appa! GO TO BED ALREADY!”
Cue whiny Jongho
“Okay, God for a toddler you already have your mothers stubborn attitude,”
