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[angelx1992]

[nyxsealia]

An example of why LGBTQ+ representation in media matters, especially children's media.

As a child I didn't know LGBTQ+ people existed. There were no queer people in my family, or in family friends. (At least, that I was aware of) I remember one time we went to the library and there was an educational table set up outside with information about pride. I asked my mom what all the rainbows were for. I don't remember what she said, other than I remember her mentioning one of my older brother's friends who apparently had two moms. I was very little. I forgot about that conversation and was no more aware of queer people.

I don't remember seeing queer characters in media. The first time I can remember seeing LGBTQ+ people depicted in anything was in the music video for Avichii's "Addicted to You" the plot of the music video follows a pair of female robbers who are explicitly in a romantic relationship. I was absolutely fascinated by this music video when I saw my brother watching it. I was eleven. This music video follows a lot of the common queer TV tropes. The women are criminals, the "bad guys" and they die in the end. But this was the first time I can remember seeing lesbians.

Even as a teenager, I don't remember seeing much LGBTQ+ characters in media. I was intrigued when the token gay side character would show up in a TV show, but that wasn't really representation. I still knew nothing about queer people. A boy in my art class came out to me as trans. The exact words he used were "I'm a trans guy." and I legitimately didn't know if that meant ftm or mtf. I accidentally misgendered him once because of it.

In my early teens, I said some pretty ignorant things. Luckily just to my family, but still. It wasn't until I started questioning my sexuality in my late teens that I actually started to learn anything about the LGBTQ+ community. I did a lot of research, not all related to figuring out my sexuality, just about LGBTQ+ experiences and identities. I watched videos by LGBTQ+ YouTubers, listened to podcasts, read articles, all by queer creators.

I especially made a point of understanding transgender people, because that was something at the time that greatly confused me. So I looked for videos, podcasts, articles etc, made by transgender people themselves where they talked about their feelings and experiences. It made a huge difference. I wasn't confused anymore, I couldn't relate to how they felt, but I had understanding and empathy. I went from confused and unaware, to understanding and supportive. Just from a bit of research.

But even at this point, there was still little to no LGBTQ+ media representation. When I came out at 18 and felt comfortable picking movies focused on queer characters, I had a heck of a time finding any. I did find some, and while a lot of them weren't great, I did find a few really good ones. (Saving Face and Late Bloomers are two of my favourites)

Things are getting better, slowly. We're starting to see more media focused around LGBTQ+ characters, and children's media including the topic. It's long overdue and we're still not quite there yet. You're gonna have a hard time finding media focused on LGBTQ+ characters that aren't white, able bodied gay, lesbian, or bisexual characters. Representation for trans, non binary, asexual and aromantic identifies, queer people of different ethnic and cultural backgrounds, religious queer people, and disabled queer people, and any combination of the above, is still lacking. We still have more work to do.

Having these kinds of shows and movies would have made a big difference for me growing up, and it will make a big difference for thousands of other kids who are growing up right now.

This isn't a negative post to complain about the lack of media, it's an example of it's importance and optimism for the future. I do believe this will continue to get better, however slow that may be. This is just my little reminder of why it needs to.

I hope anyone who reads this is having a good day. You're valid and loved, no matter who you are. Stay safe.

[beck404]

PLEASE I NEED THEM BACK

Alice Oseman via instagram!

[jayanedna]

ONE YEAR AGO

[eric2ivy]

This festive season, let's turn trauma into triumph for LGBTQ+ homeless individuals in kakuma camp 💙 This year has been tough and some of our colleagues have spent Xmas in cells over false allegations, more than ever, we're coming together to create a special Christmas lunch because this is the only chance that we use to gather and celebrate take photos, Lough,make strategies on how to overcome this horrible situation that we are leaving in.

Join Us: Help make love shine by donating to our Fundraiser. Every contribution counts. And the funds will be used to buy some food and dairy necessities and help our colleagues who are behind bars.

Together, we can bring warmth, joy, and a sense of belonging to those who need it most. 🌟 Let's make this holiday season unforgettable for the queer people in kakuma refugees camp.🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

Thanks to those who have sacrificed

1-There time and listen to our stories and advocate for us because everyone here has a story to tell

2-There Donations to make sure at least we clear the hospital bills, buying food stuffs, sanitary towels and other Daily necessities.

I would like to mention them here but due to their privacy let me keep their names. But please don't give up on us because we need you most in these hard times..

Please Donate:

Support LGBTQ refugees and their children, organized by Esther Mwesigwa

Hi, My name is Esther and I am fundraising on behave of the Queer and Tran… Esther Mwesigwa needs your support for Support LGBTQ refugees

Spread the word, spread the love 🌈💕 #LoveShinesBright #LGBTQChristmas #DonateForLove #Lovewins #FreeLGBTIQAKAKUMA

[onlyrainbowshipstbh]

Yoshi via her Insta!

[myrottenheadwplug]

the way this just made me tear up after what happened yesterday. IM SO FUCKING HAPPY 😭😭😭😭😭

[yabisiktirgit]

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