listen, choosing, despite how lonely and difficult it may get, genuinely choosing to be loving and kind through the absolute disgusting misery of others and the world is a powerful tool. it's the truest form of selflessness. it's proving to others that they don't need to choose to be miserable. we lead by example, and falling into the pit of despair that the evil of this world wants you to wallow in always allows that evil to win. do not be, do not choose to be the thing you hate. do not choose to continue the leeching of misery as a "personality trait" simply because the world has been unkind to you. you can be depressed and still give love unconditionally.
believe in this, humans are just like you. some are genuinely, truly evil, but so many are good, and are either lost just like you or want to help you despite all things. we learn to navigate the truly evil and find those just like us. people are lessons in our life, meant to come and go, and clinging to the negativity instead of learning what we were meant to leads to the cycle of loathing towards others. we must learn from those that leave, and pursue the positive aspects of each relationship with every new person that comes into our life, be they romantic, platonic, or temporary like so many things. we are adults, maturing and growing with each day, and it's only building these walls we define as "safety" from others do we build true barriers from those meant to heal us.
if you can choose to believe that there is only hate in this world purely because its all you've experienced yet, then you can choose to believe in the beauty and wonder that exists too, and you can choose to believe that everyone deserves that peace ~ just like you do. life is unbelievably short, why spend it fighting against those that might need that love and support you're also missing, but don't know how to ask for it.
teach yourself kindness without expectations, because kindness always wants to prevail, but can't do so if you're stuck in blind, selfish, and bitter anger. learn what it truly means to be selfless, unconditionally kind. if you can see its what the world needs, hell, if you can see its what you're own personal life needs, why not be the start?













