#maybe syscourse

[onika4discourse]

syscord isnt toxic unless ur an anti endo. MAYBE dont complain about how problematic they are if ur already in a problematic space...

the endogenic spaces wont ever force you to source seperate because their great grandmas 2nd cousin removed didnt like your source

they arent gonna force you to change your pk display name because your name is in relation to media their great x4 granduncles abuser didnt like

they dont host problematic spaces. if anything, pro endo spaces are HELPFUL

[onika4discourse]

the terms transdid/transosdd feeds into anti endo rhetoric.

how? listen up:

anti endos claim that you HAVE to have did/osdd to be a system, right? this harms other endogenic systems.

due to this, this would lead systems down 2 paths: incorrectly self diagnosing themself, and using radqueer terminology.

-incorrectly self diagnosing themself could lead to them using the terminology anyway, likely because they mightve thought smth similar to "i didnt know i had it before but now i do so im transitioning" or something like that idk im trying bare w me

-they might use the terminology to validate themselves & create their system to "transition" into having the disorder to make people believe theyre real <- (backfired BADLY)

"why cant they just identify as endogenic then?" probably because of the stigma, lies, & bullshit surrounding endogenic systems that fakeclaimers set up that they probably dont want to mess around with

now of course they could identify as transdid/osdd for reasons completely unrelated to what i just said, but that MIGHT be why

not necessarily defending them, i just think this might be why they identify that way

moral of the story: anti endos are ACTUALLY destructive

[onika4discourse]

fusion should not be forced onto people

and neither should functional multiplicity.

both of those choices should not be dictated by any outside force. they should only be dictated by the system & the alters within.

you should NEVER guilt trip any system into fusing or being functional. and by guilt trip i mean saying "oh id NEVER get rid of my headmates like that"

fusion can be very helpful, especially if that system is distressed by the amount of alters (either final fusion or just down to a managable headcount), but it can ALSO be very harmful if that system needs help in certain aspects of their life

functional multiplicity is essentially the same but backwards. it can be helpful if that system needs help in aspects of life, but it can be harmful for systems who are distressed by any amount of headmates

now of course you could do both (fuse to a managable number & become functional)

but lets not dictate someones choices on all 3 of those options

and lets not bash them for it either

[onika4discourse]

"dont engage with the anti willo anon!!" have you no whimsy. is it not at all fun to assist in someones public humiliation ritual? maybe its just me, but i love helping others embarrass themselves

[onika4discourse]

who remembers the syscourse bracket

[onika4discourse]

Random but genuine question: why do you take everything as a personal attack? I've seen most often that people are just genuinely trying to correct you on something and they're usually not being rude about it, but then it seems like you go at their throats.

to me, those corrections sound like theyre going at my throat, so thats why i go at them like that.

those corrections also lead to me believing that that person hates every fiber of my being, so out of that pretense ofc im not gonna be that kind to anything you have to say about me or to me

as for why i take everything so personally, idk. its a natural response, so i cant help but want to defend myself when it comes to criticism. ik its something i need to work on but idk how lmao

[onika4discourse]

Are you pro willo or pro endo. I don’t feel safe around pro endos for how often they turn on willos

both.

the "pro endos" you see are fucking impostors. i hope you know that.

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[artisticdysfunction]

sometimes i just wanna ask people who are so focused on having the host be the most important or the "main" part and discarding all the other alters, if there's a part of their brain that's more important than the rest.

well, is there? is there a section of your brain that's more important than the rest? is there any part of your brain that can be discarded? that you would want to willingly discard because it's simply not as important?