Top three whump tropes?
Oooh, fun question! Thanks for the ask <33
Okay. First up: Forced to Watch
Absolutely love this one. Definitely probably my number one whump trope (assuming it's done with the right characters - because I'm actually really picky about who gets whumped). One thing I really like about this trope is that it allows you to really get into the dynamic and relationship between the character getting tortured/hurt/whatever and the character forced to watch it happen. Extra juicy if there's an ongoing conflict between the characters. Another thing I love about this trope is that it can come in so many flavors - it can fit whatever scenario you want! With Whumper and Whumper-less, purposeful and accidental, all kinds of different hurt, with or without comfort. An interesting thing, though, is that will I usually need MY Whumpee/blorbo/favorite to be put through the Trope, for this one I generally prefer my fave to be the one hurt despite the name of the trope focusing on the character witnessing the act. Also, fun fact: a scene with this trope was what pushed me to watch Killjoys (I saw a whump list for the show, saw this trope, looked up and watched the scene, and then went okay yeah I'm gonna watch this show).
Secondly: Self-Sacrifice
So good. Also another trope that can come in so many shapes and sizes. Protective characters to the point of self-destruction makes such good Whumpees. And while I am not against my Whumpees dying (at least in fanon works - because you can do so much with Whumpee's dynamic/relationship to other characters, and the angst from those characters), it is sooo good when the self-sacrifice, which, for all intents and purposes, was supposed to end in death... doesn't. Because then you get the aftermath. You get the "you almost died for me" and the "do you really think so little of your own life" and the "I was supposed to die but then I didn't and I'm not actually sure what to do with that". You get the potential for both emotional and physical recovery and aftermath.
And third: Choked/Strangled/Suffocated
Okay so looking at my writing this may not be as obvious as self-sacrifice or - oh, well, I haven't written a lot of forced to watch either when I think about it - but I love to read/watch Whumpee getting choked/strangled. So simple, yet so effective. Also with threat of much dire consequences - mostly death, but also others. Maybe Whumpee is getting choked out so they can get kidnapped. Actually, you can add suffocated to this as well (proceeds to do just that). There's just something appealing to me about Whumpee losing air. This trope from Whumpee's POV? Amazing . This trope from Caretaker/other character's POV? Also amazing. Hmm, that goes for Whumper's POV, too. Could even work with an outsider's POV. Yeah, I like this from all POVs, I guess.













