#misstrogen

[yersidoll]

"The good news is it's never too late to change."

Oh really??? Wow what a kind and benevolent ruler you are to offer forgiveness as long as a trans woman bends over backwards to prove she feels bad for daring to speak her mind. How kind of you to offer that like a priest in a fucking confessional booth telling us to flog ourselves in penance for the gods of transmisogyny.

Fuck these smug assholes to hell and back.

[gayygambler]

sorry but something needs to be said about this group of racist white european trans women being seen as some pillars to the trans community here on tumblr. plaidos, isff, eradicate-tmes-now, etc, that whole cohort is extremely openly racist and everyone who nods their heads and agrees w/ them because they're trans women is complicit in racism.

the trans community, just like many other communities, is often built on the backs of POC! allowing these white women into our spaces to openly shit on POC is detrimental and needs to be called out.

like this is the same group that called Tumblr bans LYNCHING. it's not caring about trans women to put these white trans women on pedestals, because often, you're shooting down every trans woman of color who speaks up against these absolutely evil racist people because the only good trans person is someone who agrees with you and your idolized European white trans women, right?

i've literally watched so many trans women of color be silenced, told they don't count, accused of not even being trans women at all (take these as you will, i don't have any screenshots to go back on so whether you believe me or not is your own choice. i have no desire to "provide proof" because my point still stands with or without this fact) and supposedly it's Transfeminism to support people like this? and it's transmisogyny to be sick and fucking tired of white people overstepping, being OPENLY FUCKING RACIST, and then getting a big round of applause every time they post anything like a bunch of idiotic seals in the stands?

saying what every poc has been shouting from the rooftops since forever, if you're not ACTIVELY ANTI-RACIST, you are participating and complicit in racism. and being actively anti-racist includes calling these people out, not allowing this type of shit to fly, and CERTAINLY not allowing it to happen fifty fucking times over while the trans POC on Tumblr are supposed to watch as our traumas and generations of fucking suffering are put into the ground by people who have never experienced racism, but LOVE to use our terms for our oppression and the violent hate crimes against us to support their own points about losing their fucking Tumblr blogs.

I'm really disappointed by all this. ISFF goes after every racial minority and then, when we get upset, we're her stalkers and harassers. it's literally weaponized white woman tears, and you're all falling for it. you're all letting it happen.

do better, not just for yourselves, but for the trans POC you claim to support.

[missstrogen]

I can't believe I'm flooding the tags that are literally my username with my posts that's so fucked up imagine if something about you was actually about you instead of about how evil you are

[anti-lolisho]

Anons keeping tabs for me is the only way I can stay alive. What the fuck??? I’M A CRIPPLE THI IS SO FUCKING CREEPY

> mentally exhausted so you can manipulate her

….. that’s so. Taking advantage energy. Rapist energy even. That’s fucking horrible.

[rambling-crerchur]

I've been thinking about something for the last couple of months, and the more I do the more it fucks me up. Last October I accidentally found the main and NSFW account of another trans woman I had gotten to know in a Discord server. She was, at the time, 18 and, if my memory serves correctly, had turned that age not long ago at that time.

I first found her main. It was full of TRF/Baeddel shit. A lot of hate and vitriol against trans men and transmascs. Her NSFW account was even worse. I dont have many screenshots, they're all censored and she deactivated her account at some point for reasons I dont know, but here is what I did send to people to vent:

Keep in mind, in these screenshots this person is 18 years old, which makes the middle post especially horrifying to me. The rest is just really nasty, and the account also had a lot of rape and age regression stuff on it alongside the incest and loli/pedophilia already shown in the screenshots.

What I want to say with this post is not that this young trans woman is a bad person. My point is that the culture that has developed around the TRF/Baeddel crowd within the transfem community is incredibely dangerous towards especially young trans girls not only in the way that they are at risk of being victimized by the predatory people that exist within those circles, but also that all of this shit will be normalized to them. And since what is being normalized includes literal actual pedophilia, there is sadly the very real chance that the people that grow up under the influence of this kind of vile crap will go on to hurt people.

Alongside this, but equally as important, is the fact that especially young trans girls will be taught to hate trans men and transmascs. This will fuck up and tear the community apart in ways that break my heart. Especially young trans people, and especially in these times need each others support instead of being taught to hate "the evil TMEs" for being the wrong kind of trans person. Meanwhile, young trans men and transmascs will only be pushed deeper into the closet if they look at online trans spaces and see this kind of blind hatred directed at them. This could literally kill young trans people by making them repress who they are because a bunch of theorybrained assholes on tumblr that have a wildly innacurate perception of what the lives of trans men and transmascs actually look like decided that transfeminism meant being a transphobe. Its hard to explain just how angry that makes me.

Thats what scares me the most about these people the more I think about it. What they do and will do to the youngest members of our communities, those we should arguably protect the most from predatory shit exactly like that pushed by a lot of these TRFs under the banner of being progressive or transfeminist.

[ridafi14]

Uhhh thats not what she said before?

She explicitly says "the hurt my friends have done to children is not comparable to A Parent." Which is how exactly nobody would word it if your friends have not harmed children?

In this new addition she goes on to say "the hurt my friends have done to children, whether real or imagined, is not comparable to the great power of A Parent."

Which is a weirdly wishy washy way to try and say your friends dont hurt kids? And is also kind of a nonsense point? Like yes, parents have great power over their kids, which gives them the opportunity to do truly horrific acts of abuse if they choose, but that argument about the power parents wield and how we should make changes to prevent familial child abuse is irrelevant to the amount your friends hurt kids???

Like if I started chucking kids off the pier, trying to defend myself by saying 'oh but this is nothing compared to what their parents could do' would make me look like an insane jackass????

Additionally, it gives me the jeebies how many ISFF clones cant help but spit the word parent like it tastes bad. I know a lot of kids, especially trans kids, have some truly horrible experiences at the hands of their parents, but the combination of "pedophile liberation" and the idea that "A Parent", capitalized, can never be trusted due to their position of authority is a frightening combination. Taken altogether, this movement's stance seems to be that

-pedophiles aren't inherently dangerous to children

-but parents are, and cant be trusted

-everyone should love and accept pedophiles, even when theyre accused of the worst

-tooootally by coincidence, age of consent is actually harmful and fascist.

Which isn't surprising if you know anything about NAMBLA or the MAP movement. But its still scary.

[getinthebox]

new Spat going on with isff is making me realize that most of her opinions including both the ones we yell at her about and the ones we dont are most certainly not held for any form of actual sincere belief but in an attempt at Wokeish Contrarianism where she really wants to make sure she isnt percieved as a neoliberal but also doesn't know what any of the worlds she say actually mean or imply when put together in a sentence.

"native americans benefit from us imperialism" is an extension of "all citizens of an imperialist country have some amount of imperialism affect their life" but also usually it is not serving the people and it is ESPESSIALLY odd to single out the most disenfranchised by american colonialism for this. as a result the statement ends up more like shooting herself in the foot in spite of those fcuking yanks

and this also extends to the rampant defence squad she has maintained for predators real or otherwise in trans communities. it's kind of just Contrarian half-thought "wait this is super woke i wonder why nobody is talking about it" (pedophiles are not a victimized class of people) (also this has been solved by literally everyone except you apparently). does anything ISFF post really mean much at the end of the day? is it worth it to keep commentating on the posts of somebody who clearly has a case of hollowed words?

[problematicpeniswriting]

Getting called transandrobro for saying "literally call it anything else but Forcefem and you'll be fine" is fucking hilarious if it wasn't so damn creepy that this person likes miss "rape the two year old head mate with mama" and "I'm friends with lolicons"

Not all kink acts are sexual, but they STILL take place in ADULT spaces where they can taken advantage of. Because AGAIN Forcefem may not be ALWAYS sexual, but it's STILL SEXUAL.

Also not what reading comprehension means. I get what you're saying, I just think you're stupid as hell.

Block and report @healdrop