I don't have an issue with endos existing, like whatever do what you wanna do.
I do have an issue with endos claiming to have shared experiences with ppl who have DID/CDDs. Because it creates stigma and misinformation for that community.
DID and any form of CDD is inherently a disorder, that to most is disabling.
Endogenic systems are ...? Well I don't know I haven't gotten a straight answer out of any endos.
But I do know endogenic systems and DID systems don't need a shared space.
Endos need somewhere they can feel comfortable enough to be whoever they may be.
P/w DID need a space that nurtures healing growth and acceptance.
i’m so utterly confused. I know i’m pural. I have to be pural i mean why else do i have so many identities? but i feel like i’m faking it because of the internet if i’m being honest. I see cope identity and think wow that’s so cool! i look up terms for it and or safe spaces and i find out that the term is extremely unpopular and i’m a minor so i feel like i’m not qualified to make spaces
I look up the term polymind and go wow this fits me too! and then i see that people are saying that polymind are endos? which isn’t necessarily true as polymind and endos are different.
Endos are ‘systems’ (using the term loosely) (i don’t want to get into sysdiscourse) that haven’t formed from trauma and don’t have any trauma, which means they aren’t systems. (EDIT: ACK DONT READ THIS THIS IS INCORRECT SORRY)
Polymind is where you have sub personalities but you feel them much more intensely than others (?) and are hyper aware of those sub personalities and give them identities
Endos actively invading system spaces and claim to have the disorder from what i have seen and Polyminds have not and do not claim to have the disorder and have their own spaces (EDIT: DONT READ THIS ETIHER ACK)
I don’t know can we just hold hands and hug eachother and bond over being pural and go back to our own spaces. I might make a whole new thing for myself atp
Anyways, I am pro polymind, you guys are awesome and don’t let people make your identity invalid!
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EDIT: thank you to all of the people that informed me that the information i was talking about was incorrect! so sorry if it distressed anyone or offended or made people uncomfortable. That was not my intention whatsoever. That was the information i purely got off of online discussions (mostly tiktok which is not a credible source which i accept was my bad). also not trying to get into sys discourse, and please keep informing me about systems (as i’m not one but i would love to learn more)
NOTE: This list will be updating constantly. Please if you can, help us add to this list as there are tons of tags that different communities use that we may not be aware of.
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Tags. (Theres more below the cut)
Ah yes, tags. The lil thingies at the bottom of almost every post that we all use to communicate with the right people
Well chat, there are some tags that you shouldn’t be using if you are not personally a part of that community. This is called crosstagging
What even is crosstagging?
Crosstagging is when someone posts something and tags it in the opposite community. For example, an endogenic system using CDD tags, or an anti endo using pro endo tags. Crosstagging is not only harmful, it can often start fights, can cause distress, and often leads to harassment. Invading exclusive spaces without permission leads to harassment and the degradation of reputation, and it is also an invasion of a delicate space.
UPDATE: Note that some people may use certain tags for informative purposes or about topics relavent to those tags. Crosstagging is done on purpose to aggravate the other community. If the post isn’t intended to cause harm, it’s not to be considered as crosstagging
What tags should I avoid?
If you are new to the system community and/or you are someone who needs a refresher, here is the complete list of tags and which communities they typically belong to:
CDD Tags (does NOT account for syscourse stance)
These tags are commonly used by CDD systems, but depending on the system, is also applicable for mixed origin systems who have a CDD. These tags are NOT inherently exclusive to any specific stance, only just that non disordered individuals don’t enter these spaces, which include non disordered endogenic systems, singlets, etc.
#did
#actually did****
#polyfrag did
#didosdd
#dissociative identity disorder
#did community
#did alter
#did system
#cdd system
#cdd community
#osdd
#osdd-1a and #osdd-1b
#osddid
#osdd community
#osdd alter
#osdd system
#syspunk
#systempunk
#polyfragmented
***This list is incomplete***
****community tag, not generally meant for outside use
Non-Traumagenic Plural Tags
These are tags that are usually used by non disordered people, though the use of them by pro endo CDD systems is generally accepted. This includes endogenics, willowgenics, tulpas, and other origins. Mix origin systems may use these tags as well depending on what they identify with. These are not for anti endo CDD systems.
#endogenic
#endo
#willogenic
#tulpamancy
#tulpa
#tulpagenic
#non traumagenic
#actually median
#enexto
***This list is incomplete***
Anti Endo Tags
These are tags that are specific to anti endos. They are not for pro endos or non disordered people.
#anti endo
#anti endogenic
#endos dni
#endos fuck off**
#endos do not interact
#non traumagenic dni
***List is incomplete***
**Note that tags like these can be aggressive and use of them should be discouraged
Pro Endo/Pro Non Traumagenic Tags
These are tags for pro endos. They are not meant to be for anti endos. Plural tags are inclusive for all systems, but they are generally pro endos spaces, which is often why it is often discouraged for anti endos to use these tags
#pro endo
#pro endogenic
#pro willogenic
#pro tulpa
#endo safe
#endo friendly
#endos please interact
#willogenic safe
#tulpa safe
#willogenic friendly
#tulpa friendly
#non traumagenic safe
#pluralgang
#pluralpunk
#plural
#plural stuff
#plural community
#plural community
***List is incomplete***
Other Stance Tags
#syscourse unaligned
#endo neutral
***List is incomplete***
Syscourse/Sysconversation Tags
These are tags that are meant for syscourse and sysconversation. Tagging a post as syscourse means that you allow that post to be put up for debate/conversation unless stated otherwise.
#syscourse
#tw syscourse (for those who need it)
#general syscourse
#sysconversation
#heavy syscourse
***List is incomplete***
Soo, what if I need to do this or that?…
If you need to use a specific tag, make sure you use it responsibly. Some tags are not meant for usage by just anyone, others are more open ended and can be used for anyone. Make sure you use the appropriate tags for your posts!
Using the right tags can definitely make a difference. As long as you are being respectful, your experience within the community should go smoothly (unless you have someone randomly hate on you for no reason which honestly happens a lot for some reason ;-;)
genuine question. Not looking for an angry argument:
Why do people hate endo systems so much??? I understand why people don’t want them grouped in with DID or OSDD. But why can’t they have their own separate unrelated community?
I personally believe in tulpas because I had an unintentional spiritual experience with one during a heroic dose shroom trip (LONG STORY LMAO) And it legitimately did do wacky shit like, think separate thoughts and speak through my body with a different voice. But it was temporary and I’m pretty confident that DID and OSDD are a much different experience.
Due to my personal experience I’m not anti-tulpa. I’m more anti-fucking around with things you don’t understand. So when people say they have an endo system with tulpas, my first instinct isn’t to fakeclaim them. I just wonder if they actually know what they’re doing lol.
What’s the general opinion on this though? I see so many people list endos in their dni, which seems to me like people are just assuming all endos are trying to cosplay as a real disorder. But I don’t really see why that would be the case? It’s a different experience, so why not just have a completely seperate community for it? I’m legitimately confused.
Aside from it perhaps being an unhealthy coping mechanism (depending on the individual) I don’t see the point of policing what someone does with their own brain. If they are claiming to have DID/OSSD, then yeah that’s fucked up. But can someone please explain to me why being an endo, without claiming to have a disorder, is harmful to other people?
I don’t like getting involved in syscourse, but, do anti-endos really think endos have headmates for fun? Like they choose it? Or that they claim to have DID? I’m an endogenic system, I did not choose that, 1x just showed up. I had no time given to comprehend that he was already there. He was there and it took me a few hours to even grasp the fact that I WAS an endogenic system. And I don’t have DID or any trauma.
hey gang this is like a genuine question because I’m confused and I’m trying to understand? ive surrounded by like endo hate and whatnot, and I’ve always been someone who’s tried to understand something before I hate or dislike it. I never did that with endos which is unfortunate BECAUSE I try to understand
so ,,, to get to the point, what do endos experience in terms of being a system ??? i am like genuinely trying to understand o hope this isn’t rude to ask I never understood and I want to before I make a stance !!!!! please tell me
do you guys experience stuff that a typical system would is what I’m trying to get at ???
