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[responsiveparenting]

“One of the more challenging, but necessary shifts in perspective, when adopting a responsive approach to parenting, is no longer believing that affection and compassion is a reward. That is conditional love. You are sending the message that “even though I know you are having a hard time I will not show you love because I am mad.” Chances are your child is mad too and you are asking them to calm down and show compassion and remorse, prior to you doing the same thing. As a parent we should model these behaviours, instead of expecting our children to demonstrate them for us before we are even able to achieve them ourselves.” J. Milburn #responsiveparenting #peacefulparenting #gentleparenting #attachmentparenting #attachmenttheory #motherhood #parenthood #momblogger #mombloggers #earlychildhood #childdevelopment #parenting #childhood #momlife #mindfulparenting #jmilburn #perspectivechange #affectionisnotareward #unconditionallove #unconditionallove❤️ https://www.instagram.com/p/CRj1mX5ngW1/?utm_medium=tumblr

[bookishmomsstuff]

PROMPT Fly Flying high in the sky in @shinchan_es_oficial in a balloon ride. Spotted at @infosys_limited Petit infoscion day. #infydiaries #caughtoncamera #shinchan #flyinghigh #balloonride #photochallenge #lifeofrealmoms #lorm_sindhuvinodnarayan #lorm_crossword #phototheme #momblog #momblogger #momwithcameras #mombloggersofinstagram #mombloggersofig #mombloggers #mombloggersofindia #bloggersofindia #socialinfluencer #mominfluencer #chennaiblogger #chennaiigers #chennaimoms #chennaimommyblogger https://www.instagram.com/p/Bw7lgz4gcnU/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1fcdb93gahfaa

[thewickedshop]

This refreshing happy bar of soap is all dressed up in its label and ready to go! It is coloured with Annatto Seed powder and scented with orange and cinnamon leaf essential oils! This is my new favourite bar and it will be @joynemarketplace this weekend! #yxemakers #downtownyxe #handmadesoapyxe #saskatoonfitness #1968soapco #behappy #happy #barsoap #orangesoap #saskatoonweddingplanner #partyfavors #goodingredients #mombloggers #etsysk (at Joyne) https://www.instagram.com/p/BuINilcH6pW/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=14jukolt2d24a

[nurseshannansreviews]

My baby turned 4 years old the other day. She picked out peppa pig @officialpeppa as her party theme. 🛍🐷🛍🐖🛍🐷🛍🐖🛍🐷🛍🐖 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. . . ❤ #partysupplies #birthday #party #4yearsold #mommyblogger #productreviewer #reviews #productreview #productreviews #birthday #birthdaycake #naturalsolutions #amazonreviewer #reviewer #amazonreviews #influencer #amazonreview #beautytricks #californiablogger #nurseblogger, #mombloggers #momslife #kidsparty #peppapig (at California) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bt6wir4AWvC/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=h7sn8mnbmwvh

[2mumstiredmuch-blog]

I made this picture on PicsArt love it. Its just editing pictures and putting them on another picture. This picture for me is how it feels when I'm trying to clean the house lol. Harley is all over the place when I'm cleaning. It can be a bit nuts because, on top of trying to clean the house he is making more mess along the way. I have him and coco following me into every room lol it really is nuts. #editing #picsart #artistic #pictures #funnypics #babypics #funnybabypics #cleaningup #toofunny #moms #mums #mothers #momlife #momslife #momspage #pageformothers #momslove #mypage #isitbedtimeyet #mothersandson #mothersandsons #mothersandkids #mothersandbabies #myblogg #blogpost #blogger #bloggers #momblogger #mombloggers #bloggermom #bloggermoms #bloggermommy #bloggermomma

[naodemore]

Bom dia ! Vamos começar essa sexta feira com muito amor ❤ . #Netherlands #sister #irmãs #deusmeutudofamilia #maternity #kids #blogger #mom #familia #family #blogueira #blogger #girltumblr #kidsphotograph #mombloggers #usa #hairstyle #hair #haircut #cutie #pregnant #embarazo #baby #babylife #bookdamake (em Rio de Janeiro)

[responsiveparenting]

“Crying is a very healthy and typical part of developing emotional intelligence and self-regulation. We need to be able to process emotions, not just stifle them. When we try and stop children from crying, usually to appease our own discomfort, we rob them of this opportunity to fully experience their emotions and learn how to safely move through them. Crying is a child’s first and most instinctual form of communication. We should not try to silence their primitive urge to cry out for their needs to be met. If you don’t cry as a child for the things you need, you will likely cry as an adult about all things you never had.” J. Milburn. Edited to add: It seems the language in this quote can be misinterpreted. I would like to be clear. If a child’s cries for their needs to met are not acknowledged with acceptance and love, they often develop less than healthy coping strategies, instead of learning how to process difficult emotions. A child needs to feel safe to experience their emotions in a nurturing environment. No child has felt nurtured while being ignored or dismissed, especially while crying. Comforting your child encourages co-regulation that creates the brain structure for self-regulation later in life. But all of us still appreciate being comforted and validated when we are sad, no matter how “emotionally intelligent” we may be ❤️ #responsiveparenting #peacefulparenting #gentleparenting #attachmentparenting #attachment #attachmenttheory #motherhood #parenthood #momblogger #mombloggers #earlychildhoodeducation #earlychildhoodeducator #earlychildhood #childdevelopment #childdevelopmentspecialist #parenting #parent #childhood #momlife #mindfulparenting https://www.instagram.com/p/CNHvwTvHjBp/?igshid=1mkkts7e5cme3

[responsiveparenting]

Why is asking for help so hard? Because our little childhood voices, that asked for help so many times, were often ignored, minimized and even punished, when the way we asked for help was not calm, respectful and polite. But whispering from the bottom of the well never saved anyone. The societal condemnation around a need for community is possibly why so many of us feel like we are imposing when we ask for support. Instead we use passive aggressive sighs and comments to try and get our needs met. If we want our children to be authentic and transparent in communicating their needs, we need to model doing the same.” J. Milburn PRE-ORDER NOW AVAILABLE!! 1/2 Price when pre-ordered. That’s right! You can pre-order now for only 5$’s!! Then, on February 1st, the link will be emailed to you. Just make sure to include your email in your information when you purchase. I won’t be selling it at this price again. This is a very special offer, for my wonderful supporters who just can’t wait for this sequel to the Guide to Survival Mode Plans. 
Responsive Parents Guide to Self-Regulation and Co-Regulation This e-book combines my knowledge of child development, brain science and trauma to offer parents a unique resource that includes lots of exercises, reflections, insights and also… links to additional research, articles and videos that can help support your learning. Link in bio @responsive_parenting #responsiveparenting #peacefulparenting #gentleparenting #attachmentparenting #attachmenttheory #motherhood #parenthood #momblogger #mombloggers #earlychildhood #childdevelopment #parenting #childhood #momlife #mindfulparenting #selfcare #selfcaremama #askingforhelp #jmilburn #parentlife #children #dadlife #childled #kindness #feeling #holdingspace #givegrace #emotionalintelligence #parents #allthefeelsareok https://www.instagram.com/p/CZNZottFvNu/?utm_medium=tumblr