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[my-polyam-feelings-blog]

Could You Ever Be Monogamous?

So I have been asked the question “could you ever be monogamous?” a few times. The answer is yes, and no. I have been in monogamous relationships before, I’ve enjoyed them and loved the person I was with. But there was always this stupid crush I would have on one of my friends. For example, what I was dating a guy, we’ll call him Levi, I had a crush on my now significant other. I dated Levi for months and was committed to him entirely, buttttttttttttttttt my cute genderfluid friend made my heart beat a little faster and when we cuddled, I never wanted to get up because it was just us. I was crushing bad, but my boyfriend had all my love. My now significant other and I would cuddle and be emotionally close but I never dared to hold their hand for long periods of time and flirt with them because I had Levi. I can be in a monogamous relationship but there’s a chance I will have a crush on someone else. My heart is not monogamous. I don’t need to love more than one person but it happens. I’m happier being in my polyamorous than I was in my monogamous relationship, though that might be because Levi was a jealous prick. For a while, it was just my significant other and I and I was one hundred percent fine with that, damn I loved it because I didn’t love anyone else, I had zero potential partners. To be honest, I’ve only been in two polyamorous relationships and only started to explore my polyam side September of 2017. I can only love one person at a time, it’s happened before. I could be in a monogamous relationship and I could only love one person, but I could still love someone else. So, yes I can be in a monogamous relationship and adore only one person but no, when it comes down to it I can love more than one person at a time so I am not monogamous.

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Open Relationship: He Wants One But You Don't -

When he wants an open relationship, but you don't, you need to really ask yourself if this is something you can live with. If it makes you feel jealous or insecure and open relationship will damage your self esteem.

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Saw this at work today.

[memoirsofamanwhore-blog]

Day 1

First day of the blog. I wanna give some background information on my situation.

Several months ago I met this fantastic woman by the name of Jannette. She had several of the same interests as me, and her personality exploded with mine in the best possible way. I tried so hard not to have feelings for her for the longest time, because she and I hadn't talked for several weeks at the time. However, despite my best efforts, she continued to pop up in my head continuously. In my dreams, in random passing thoughts, and I had no explanation for it. When we finally reconnected it was amazing. everything I had felt, every thought finally made sense.

The first complication I discovered with her was she was in a relationship, but when we first started reconnecting she had told me she and the guy were dating. Which in my mind is completely different from being in a relationship. So I flirted with her heavily, and did my best to charm her. When one night the words "my boyfriend" escaped her lips I quickly realized how I must've been coming off to her, and I felt awful. I had been in a relationship where I was cheated on, and I couldn't believe I hadn't caught her situation sooner.  So I over corrected myself (which I have a horrible tendency to do) and slowly pulled back.

Which is when she introduced me to her friend Shannon. We hit it off really well and things progressed rather quickly. I could tell when the three of us would hang out that things between Shannon and I made Jannette uneasy and tense, despite her best efforts to offer support. Even though I like Shannon she still plans on leaving for school in the Fall which makes things hard for me, because even though I have feelings for multiple women, monogamy is my ultimate goal. I love the idea of a wife, children, and a family. I can't tell if my relationship with Shannon is due to over-correction or not. I have feelings for her and I think she is an amazing woman, but Jannette still runs around my head constantly and I feel horrible for it. I connect to both of them on so many levels and I don't know where each of the paths go, so... I hope I can get it together fast enough not to hurt anyone. Though I fear it may be too late.