This is why you are intimidating without even trying
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If you have Venus in Aquarius in your natal chart, people may feel strangely unsettled by how emotionally independent you seem. The fact that you don’t immediately seek validation, reassurance, or emotional dependency from others can make insecure people feel unexpectedly replaceable around you.
With Mercury conjunct Pluto in your natal chart, people often become hyperaware of everything they say around you. Conversations with you can feel psychologically exposing very fast, even when you’re barely trying to analyse anyone.
If you have Moon trine Pluto in your natal chart, people may start revealing their insecurities, jealousy, fears, or emotional wounds around you without even meaning to. Your energy tends to bring hidden emotions naturally to the surface.
With Mars in Capricorn in your natal chart, your self-discipline alone can unintentionally trigger shame, comparison, or inadequacy in people who struggle with consistency, ambition, or emotional self-control themselves.
If Neptune harshly aspects your Ascendant in your natal chart, people may constantly project fantasies, assumptions, insecurities, or completely inaccurate versions of you onto you because they struggle to fully understand who you actually are.
With Aquarius rising in your natal chart, people may secretly feel intimidated by how detached from social pressure, group approval, or external validation you seem to be. Your energy can make others painfully aware of how much they depend on being liked.
If Pluto conjuncts Eros in your natal chart, people may become psychologically consumed by the attraction they feel toward you because your energy tends to activate obsession, emotional fixation, possessiveness, and loss of emotional control easily.
Plenty of people spend years trying to understand themselves while feeling like something about them is “too much,” too complicated, too intense, too emotional, too different, or impossible to explain properly.
Your birth chart can explain those parts of you more clearly than you probably realize.
That’s precisely what I explore in my "Birth Chart - Reading" BASIC & DELUXE 🌙
The emotional connection (Moon) 4th House is just as important as the physical (Mars) 1st House connection. Feeling emotionally held and seen is the best feeling in the world. Vulnerability leads to greater connection and intimacy, and can add durability to a connection. 'At the end of the day people won't remember what you said or did, they will remember how you made them feel.' When it comes to the Moon in synastry these are the favorites.
Ascendant/Sun/Mars trine/conjunct Moon- This is a classic yin (feminine) and yang (masculine) aspect, great for long term compatibility as the Sun is the provider/protector and the Moon is the nurturer and is supportive of the Sun. Mars is very protective of the Moon person, not only emotionally but physically. This aspect is a green flag and favorable for long term compatibility.
Moon trine/conjunct Moon- You just get the other person emotionally. This aspect can make both individuals feel vulnerable and emotionally open. If either feels uncomfortable with vulnerability this aspect can be triggering and uncomfortable. When this happens the Moon may be negatively aspected in the natal chart. For example (Moon square Saturn or Chiron)
Mercury trine/conjunct Moon- Emotions are easily expressed by the Moon and easily understood by Mercury with this aspect. There is also emotional telepathy, where words do not have to be spoken. This is a excellent aspect for long term friends and romantic partners. I have rarely seen this aspect in synastry. There is a mind/heart coherence energetically here that is soothing and calming to both individuals nervous system.
Pluto trine/conjunct Moon- This aspect causes mutual obsession, the Moon persons emotions are triggered to be brought to the surface and healed through this connection. The magnetic physical attraction and feelings invoked can be cathartic and addictive. Intimacy can be intense and emotional. It can be hard to walk away or separate if the connection does not work out. This person will always be able to get under your skin or invoke emotion in you. Both individuals are never the same as a result of this connection.
Venus trine Moon- This is a sweet aspect where one person's love language and the others emotional comfort blend beautifully. The Venus person feels like loving the Moon person comes easy and their efforts are appreciated. The Moon person feels held and supported by the Venus person, and knows that their heart and emotions will not be taken for granted.
Psyche conjunct Moon- This aspect points to a deeply spiritual and divine connection, as Psyche can intuitively feel and absorb Moon's emotions at a soul level. There is a strong empathic and nurturing quality to this aspect, where deep vulnerability and intimacy is present. Emotions can be felt from a distance with this aspect, so if the Moon is not honest about their feelings Psyche will know it, so it's best to be honest.
Saturn trine Moon- The Saturn is patient, and is able to hold space for the Moon's emotions. The Moon feels safe, protected and emotionally supported by Saturn. This aspect brings out Saturn's nurturing and vulnerable side. This aspect can be felt immediately and emotional security and reliance is deepened over time. This is a beautiful aspect to have and shows an enduring bond and potential for a sustainable partnership.
Have you had any of these aspects? What was your experience?
Stay Lifted,
Madison
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The Moon: Emotionally Unavailable/Independent Aspects
tw for various mentions of abuse and death as well as mental problems, sh and su!cide, also needles (dont ask)
- may have experienced a lot of death in thr family or in the close neighborhood
- feel more connected to your dead relatives than your alive ones
- there mightve been a death in your family before you were born
- feeling peacful in graveyards
- may have fantasized about death/su!cide, might percieve death as something that brings peace (hence the fantasies, because really all you ever wanted was peace)
- wanting peace but knowing you cannot have it because of your nature; feeling like theres just something in your blood in your soul that is uncontrollable and overwhelming
- your household was always a house , never a home
- being raised by very old people, enjoying the presence of much older wiser people (like, literal elders not hot teachers 💀)
- enduring literal psychological warfare in your home (usual your mother waged war on you as soon as you were old enough to form a coherent critical thought)
- "I hate you, dont leave me" (might be the attitude of your mother towards you, or yours towards others you love)
- Your mother always knew when you were lying or hiding something. Especially if she had a scorpio moon or moon/pluto aspects herself. You grew up extremely fearful of her.
- moon pluto culture is hearing your mother talk lovingly about her own fucked up mother, she never accepted the severity of her own abuse, until of course she needs to use it in an argument against you "Im a great mother, my mother was so much worse"(basically Im good because I abuse you differently than I was abused 😍 same shit different package)
- not liking motherly women or women who try to be mother figures to you, feeling uncomofortable around them; youre uncomfortable with how much you crave motherly love and people who can provide you that become threats because of the power they could have over you if you opened up
- being betrayed by the women in your life, especially those who were much older and supposed to take care of you (teachers, tutors, family members, therapists, babysitters..)
- toxic female friends 😁🔫 bonus : really close but toxic female friendships in youth that feel like death when you end them even though you know it was necessary
- feeling pain so deeply you think you will drop dead or have a heart attack. (When I was little and depressed I wrote in a diary of mine "My body will kill me before I get to")
more on this : when you start crying because of immense emotional pain and suddenly your heart is burning and beating too fast and youre getting light headed and throwing up , and suddenly youre not crying because of the pain, youre crying because youre afraid youre about to have a heart attack and die
- fearing that your mother will k word herself or you if you try to leave her (harsh aspects mostly)
- learning what emotional violence is very early, how to wield it and defend against it
- turning your emotions off completely for a while and then having a nervous breakdown when it all rushes back
- reading up on psychology, psychiatry and works of psychotherapists so you can heal and never become your mother
- wanting to put a bullet in your head when you notice yourself thinking or behaving like your mother
- going home after you spent time somewhere where you felt good and safe is extremely dreadful
- your mother doesnt see you as a human being (harsh aspects especially), and may take you a while to figure this out
- extremely controlling behavior from your mother or other caretakers (for example my mother threatened to send people to stalk me when I moved to a diff city, to 'make sure Im not doing something bad')
- deeply grieving the loss of your childhood and your inner child
- almost choking while crying or passing out
- feeling like youre a horrible person and dont deserve your family [because youre in deep denial and are seeing the flaws of your family as your own and denying your own trauma]
- learning about sex early on, perhaps early sexual obsession but not like promiscuity more like craving for deep intimacy (also you were probably deeply ashamed of it)
- not telling your family (esp mother) anything because they will ruin it for you
- being accused of being a psychopath, uncaring, selfish for "not loving your family enough"
- not knowing how to feel about the members of your family that played a more passive role in your life because they didnt do anything wrong but they didnt do anything right either; surely they knew , why didnt they stop it? why didnt they save you? (Im talking about adults obviously)
- your parents mightve been much older when you were born, you might have siblings much older than you
- doing anything to avoid your intense emotions and then when you break down and feel everything you realize how freeing it is and how comfortable you actually are with the intensity
- gutteral reactions to songs you deeply relate to (I hear 10 seconds of 'Slipping through my fingers' and I am dead on the floor)
- being afraid of your mother or just of your family in general
- you could probably kill someone with your bare hands if you were angry and hurt enough
- scary as fuck when you actually show your anger
- if you cry in the midst of a fight (verbal or physical) ... someone tell that person to make peace w God . cause thats you crying because of what youre about to do, because thats you loosing the last crumb of humanity you had for them and that can only end one way.
- you would probably kill for your loved ones
- your friends feel like you would help them hide a body (and you probably would)
- recognizing people by footsteps and breathing patterns (especially family members)
- deep deep eyes, people can see war and death them, and they feel like you see their pain too (because you do)
- reading people easily
- enjoying? cruelty (to yourself or others), like getting impulses to do something that would cause you or someone else that ugly feeling of facing cruelty
- finding comfort in the cold and the dark
- insane nightmares since youth, growing to be used to them
- its very hard to shock you
- you know when someones lying
- you might dread certain types of pain yet feel pleasure from them (personally I hate having my blood taken for a test but then I end up immensely enjoying the feeling of a needle pricking my skin and going deep into my vein)
- feeling the need to "kill" some your habits; most likely to drop things cold turkey and be extremely strict in breaking bad habits
- might enjoy really dark, emotionally and morally complex media
- immediately recognizing other moon pluto people and trauma bonding
- extremely good pain endurance. not necessarily tolerance , but endurance. you feel the pain and do it anyway.
- might not react to physical pain at all from a young age
- fantasies about drowning or slipping away peacfully
- either loving deep waters or hating them
- randomly breaking down in the middle of the day because of some pain you buried 5 years ago
- might self harm a lot because of your complex relationship w pain, it genuinely helps sometimes
- home feels like literal prison
- seeing the value in suffering, you might reject the idea that suffering is bad and should be avoided and prevented at all costs
- you might become religious as you mature (but usually in your own way, not necessarily according to tradition)
- forced to eat or denied food in your home, this mightve fucked up your relationship with food
And lastly, I need you to engrave this in yourself :
♡ Planets in detriment describe feeling like an outsider/foreigner or being viewed as an outcast pertaining to the planet's theme
E.g Mercury in detriment= outcast in social situations
♡ Two houses ruled by the same planet are correlated/may work together essentially
E.g Capricorn 8th house+ Aquarius 9th house => transformation within an individual's life is related to their knowledge and how much of it they have obtained in the spiritual sense especially
Taurus 7th house+ Libra 12th house => mental health/spiritual wellbeing is related to the quality/stability of long term relationships
♡ A trine between Pluto and the Moon could indicate finding some kind of comfort in chaos and handling it generally well in comparison to other individuals (oh shit that happened... anyway I should get a pizza for lunch 😋 type of vibes lol)
Sun in the 1st House - This is a great year to center yourself and to focus on your needs. This is the start of a new chapter, and the influence of this placement gives the native enough energy and hope to bring about positive change. You might feel more excited about daily life and waking up every morning will feel a little bit easier. Enthusiasm comes naturally, and this placement will ease any other negative influences seen within the solar return chart. You might have several lightbulb moments in regards to your identity, and at the end of the year you’ll be feeling more confident than ever.
Jupiter in the 10th House - Opportunity is on its way. Jupiter is expanding all themes regarding the tenth house. The native is going to develop a strong sense of reputation and will notice a change in status by the end of the year. Their ego may inflate a bit, but this can be good if used wisely. Getting recognized, promoted, or an increase in salary are to be expected with this solar return placement. If the native travels under this influence, they will receive a lot of attention for their journey. Gaining favors from people in authority should also be relatively easy.
Venus Conjunct Ascendant - The native is going to feel a lot of affectionate feelings and a need to express them. A sense of love is going to be elevated within all connections and the native will benefit from this influence. This is a great time to take on relationship problems. The native will seem especially attractive during this time and will probably go through a glow-up of sorts. Their personal style is being defined, and they’ll have the energy to put extra effort into their appearance. Negotiations will go well and will work in their favor.
Sun Trine Midheaven - During the course of this year, the native is gaining an understanding on who they are and how that aligns with their wants and desires. Garnering achievements or some sort of reward is to be expected with this influence. The native is going after their goals and has all the support and tools on hand in order to do so. They are being encouraged to use their skills and resources in a focused manner.
Moon Square Saturn - This aspect points to a lot of frustration. The sign of both the Moon and Saturn can give indication of what exactly the source of contempt is. The native might be lacking emotional control and is learning how to manage this.
Pluto in the 6th House - A change in routine is very much needed with this influence. The native might take on a new position at work, giving them a new list of responsibilities. Or, they might start developing a workout routine or exercise plan. The native may start to notice changes to their body, ranging from weight gain/loss to aging. If you have any health issues, make sure to get checked up sometime this year. Physical trauma to the body might occur this year. The native could find themselves being more accident prone than usual.
Saturn in the 9th House - There isn’t going to be much adventure this year. In fact, vacations or travel plans may end up delayed or canceled. If you are in college or university, this might be an especially hard year for you. Expect restrictions in school and from mentors. Assignments that used to take no time at all might start to take days instead. It would be a good idea to take a gap year during this time, or just a break in general. Saturn does reward hard work and effort though, so this decision is up to you. If you know you have it in you to keep pushing, then don’t give up.
Mercury in the 4th House - Now is the time to make plans for future stability. Natives under this influence need to start thinking about domestic issues. Home renovations and fix-ups are a good idea when Mercury is in the fourth. Redecorating your home is also something that should be done during the year. The past is going to weigh heavy on the mind, and it would be good to focus on comforting your inner child.
Moon in the 12th House - Mediation is a skillset that absolutely must be used and developed during this time. A lot of emotional fulfillment can be found through charitable work and spiritual practice. Emotional cycles and chapters in your life are going to be coming to a close. This is a time to retreat, reflect, and recharge. Embrace solitude.
Mars Conjunct Uranus - Be cautious of accidents. Please drive safe and follow directions when using machinery.
Mercury Trine Mars - Expect a lot of speed and energy entering your life. If this is a tight aspect, then this year is going to fly by. The days will go by quickly, and there is going to be a lot to do.
Moon Trine Pluto - Go to therapy! This is an excellent time to connect with the subconscious. Deep rooted feelings and emotions are going to reemerge, but this will be beneficial and help aid the healing process.
Uranus in the 11th House - If you’ve been feeling drawn to social justice and activism, this would be a good year to start getting involved. You might make some unexpected friends or unexpected changes may occur within your friendships. A wish fulfillment might randomly manifest during this year. The native will be able to come up with solutions for whatever setback might occur. You might realize that the straightforward path you were once trekking isn’t as straightforward as it once seemed. Issues within society might be affecting you on a more personal level.
Chiron in the 11th House - Your connections with friends, and your hopes and dreams might undergo some damage. This might be a lonely year and the native is going to face rejection at one point. They are going to be told “no” over and over again, it is going to be a painful process. You might not fit in where you currently reside.
Mars Square Ascendant - Unfortunately, the native is going to have to put up with a lot of bullshit under this influence. They might get bullied, harassed, or violated. It is important for them to avoid arguments and for them to try and walk away first during disagreement. People might assume they’re in a bad mood when they’re actually not.
Disclaimer: I'm not a professional astrologer or psychologist. This is just some practical insight from someone who has this placement.
Moon trine Pluto is emotional obsession. A trine brings a relatively easy transition of emotional nature. However, with the planet of death, rebirth, and transformation, this placement can still have its darker attributes stand out. Moon trine Pluto creates an urge to obsess, adore, and deeply long for the people you love.
People with this placement may have moments in their life where they discover that certain people they are in are in a relationship with (lover or friend) don't share or reciprocate the same degree of devotion and passion that they have, and it can be a very heartbreaking realization for the them. Or maybe people can be weirded out by your obsessive nature, when the reality is that you really just want to share your love.
Having experiences like this can make you want to become emotionally detached from relationships. You may have a small circle of people that they really consider their family because of this. When this placement is in its lower vibrational state you can result to having a bitter and cynical state of mind. You can become bitter from having your heart broken from failed relationships or even betrayal. And you could result to thinking that by expecting the worst or even nothing from your relationships you are protecting yourself from further emotional suffering.
Which brings me into another topic: in its low vibrational state, moon trine Pluto people can have a tendency to romanticize their own emotional suffering, which can lead to things like prolonged sadness, addiction, and rumination.
So, with that said, there are actually many pros to having this placement as well. With Pluto in positive aspect to their moon, you have the ability to transform this emotional suffering. And eventually you'll have to come to the conclusion that, while the suffering you experience is very much real, it doesn't have to be permanent. And being cynical is not a very solution-oriented mindset. It's not easy overcoming the feeling of distrust after having a bad experience, but once your change your emotional response to abandonment and rejection, the effect that these experiences have on you will begin to cease.
You can't change people into your ideal. It's hard because you want people to share your depth of emotion, but the truth is you can't change what other people do or do not embody. As long as you ruminate on how disappointing that idea is, you will not solve your problem. Your only way out is by restoring your own faith in yourself and your ability to have not emotional detachment, but emotional resilience! You create emotional resilience by disciplining your mind, and not entertaining ideas that hurt and disappoint you. When you create an environment in your mind that doesn't perpetuate this suffering, you can then focus all your energy on obtaining the things that actually benefit you.
Relationships - Understanding Charts: Lesson Three (Moon) Pt. 4
Here we are in the finale, covering Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto. These planets in particular take place in the subconscious, super-conscious, and individual freedoms. It's one of the only times that I've seen aspects seem almost broke.
If you would like to read the post in its entirety, I do have the full post available on my website!
In our continuation of this series we have Relationships - Understanding Charts: Lesson Three (Moon). The second part in reading charts.
Uranus
Conjunction - 0° ~ 5°
You would think that Moon conjunct Uranus would still have the same neutral qualities that we see happening with conjunction most of the time. Amplified energies, working together fairly well, while negative energies are amplified. However, with this particular placement in Uranus, the planet of rebellion, self-expression, and non-conformity kinda freaks out a bit. Especially when working alongside the moon, the planet of security, stability and wanting to build lasting structures in their lives. To have the same sign for both is like putting a tornado in the middle of a city center. The natural energies being pulled in wildly different directions leads to someone who feels like no matter what they do they aren’t happy. If they want to go out and explore new things, they feel insecure. If they try to find that stability, they feel too confined. Leading to a lot of emotional downswings and general dissatisfaction.
Opposition - 180° ~ 5°
Similarly to Conjunct this isn’t a great aspect either. The reason for this is that your head and your heart are at completely separate places. You may feel the need to do things to the extreme especially when you’re feeling emotionally withheld. What ends up happening then is an emotional blow out that doesn’t feel controlled or like yourself at all. The inner-self is constantly being challenged by Uranus, and it doesn’t feel secure. This type of instability comes out in all sorts of ways. Suddenly quitting a job, dropping out of school, looking for a new direction in life. Then with all the stressors that come with that the emotional aspect just gets worn down until it eventually explodes in its own way. The best way to manage both conjunct and opposition is to find a way to release creative needs and wants for something new in controlled manners.
Trine - 120° ~ 4°
Trine feels like a breath of fresh air compared to the first two. With this aspect you have a deep understanding of who you are, your creative talents, and where you need to unleash something new. There’s a bit more of a rebellious nature here, but it can be fairly well controlled. Your emotions work in concord with your mind, figuring out what you dislike and like about certain aspects of authority. Then pick and choose battles to fight out if necessary. In the long run, one of the things that can still shake up the moon is the lack of stability that comes with Uranus. The desire for freedom is a strong one indeed. If you are able to find reconciliation between the two this is a powerful placement for artists and creators.
Square - 90° ~ 3°
Back to the troubles. When you are looking at this particular aspect there is a fundamental lack of understanding between the Moon and Uranus. As stated before the Moon really likes stability, when it’s stable and things are going good it creates joy, and a feeling of safety. Whereas the Uranus wants freedom, disruption, and holds the innate belief that the path they are on is best. What ends up happening specifically here is that uranus can take on a dominating approach over the moon. Oftentimes washing away any form of stability the moon has in order toi chase those few moments of freedom, and the dopamine hit that comes from it. Leaving a person feeling emotionally unfulfilled- especially when they need to start putting roots down again. Fighting back against Uranus’ need for freedom.
Sextile - 60° ~ 2°
Here we go, what is slowly growing to become one of my favorite aspects. With Sextile, what you end up seeing is the reconciliation of the energies that most of the aspects wish they had. There’s the balance between the intuition found in the moon, and the forward thinking ways of the Uranus. They are able to calm one another and bring forward a creative spirit who knows when enough is enough for them. You know when you can take the risk of having more freedom in your life. When the toll would be a much higher cost than what that dopamine hit is worth. You're able to step back for a moment and reflect before taking action. Starting with considering yourself in the conversation.
Neptune
Conjunction 0° ~ 5°
Neptune is one of the higher emotional plane planets. So it’s well within the moon's grasp of orbit. When you put the same sign in conjunction with these planets you get someone who is very in tune with their emotions. To the utmost degree. Not only do they know every little thing they’re feeling, but they can sniff it out in other people too. Reading them like an open book, and becoming very emotionally sensitive to the emotional needs of others. It makes for a very empathetic person. This leaves a very open person, allowing themselves to be vulnerable with anyone who may need them. However, one of the downsides of this nature is that openness invites the pain of the world in the same stroke. Leaving people feeling emotionally weak and exhausted.
Opposition 180° ~ 5°
Remember how I said that in conjunction a person with that aspect is able to read other’s emotions just as well as their own? Not the case here. The over idealization of the world comes into perspective. Distorting reality around them and causing a strong paranoia. Neptune as well as being the planet of dreams, aspirations, and a higher emotional plane. Is often distorted into these traits. There’s a lack of confidence and stability within the moon to be able to recognize others’ emotions, causing their own emotions to act disconcertingly as well. Become anxious and confused, reading things wrong from other people, and just a wide variety of misunderstandings. I would take the time to step back and ask yourself the question. What are they actually saying? and am I putting words in their mouth?
Trine 120° ~ 4°
The harmony in this aspect is very apparent. Neptune and the Moon are deeply creative signs. So when they are brought together like this being fueled with different artistic energies you create something beautiful. It creates an emotional balance between the generosity that you give, and the intuition that you receive through the planets. Another smaller aspect of this is that you have a greater social awareness. You want to ensure the people surrounding you are well taken care of and looked after. One of the things that might be a bit more on the challenging side is that you may overindulge in the “beauty” element of life, over idealizing the world and your creations. Take the time to reground yourself from time to time.
Square 90° ~ 3°
Where the emotions of the opposition were aimed more at the world surrounding. Here the influence is going to be felt more in the internal. The Square aspect creates the disconnect between reality and fiction within your personal self. You may fall to delusions that you are worse than you are, or that you don’t know what you’re doing. Falling into traps of maladaptive daydreams. This is due to having the similar energy behind the modality, but then having your creativity and emotion pulled by separate elements in the end. You want to express yourself and create. Figure out the way to allow your own self-expression, but that gets lost behind the things you think you should be creating. Remember all creation is good creation. Take the time to check in with yourself, and practice perception checking.
Sextile 60° ~ 2°
As always the Sextile calms down a lot of these aspects bringing in the best of both worlds. The sextile aspect here opens the way for the emotions to be expressed through the creative medium in a healthy, constructive way. There’s a sense of intuitiveness about your surroundings that helps to keep you more grounded in reality when dealing with people who may want to use you. However, that doesn’t say anything for your empathy which is still incredibly strong in this aspect.
Pluto
Conjunction 0° ~ 5°
Pluto brings us far into the deeper subconscious of the mind. The things we crave, and fear about ourselves. When you put this into conjunction with the moon, one of the possible outcomes is someone with deep anxieties and fears about themselves, and others. It generates powerful, and almost destructive emotions that can grip the mind and take control. This aspect also creates a deep understanding of other people and interpersonal relationships that you hold close. Because you’re looking into the deeper part of the subconscious, and the Moon deals in intuition. One of the things that can be related to and understood by both planets is the subconscious traits of people close to you. Making you more naturally wary or understanding of those closest to you.
Opposition 180° ~ 5°
Looking between the Moon and Pluto in the opposition aspect. There’s a tendency to suppress your own emotions, due to the paranoia that Pluto can cause. With the moon focusing on intuition and Pluto looking into the subconscious from separate energies. You can become incredibly suspicious of others, while trying to maintain your own inner sanctum of peace. It’s hard to let others in, and it can create an aura of instability. When others try to make their way in it can cause backlash, and emotional variability. It leads to a lot of frustration, and it can make people feel like they’re walking on eggshells. You’re looking to support yourself, and help others- but when trying to get it from anyone else the paranoia that’s generated can cause emotional turmoil within yourself.
Trine 120° ~ 4°
Here we see the element of Pluto working in harmony with the Moon. It gives you great insight into the minds of others, while also breathing a sense of compassion into what you do. The emotional depth worked between these two energies is reconciled in a way where at times it can feel overwhelming. The paranoia that's generated through Pluto can also lead to strong anxieties and overthinking in the moon as well. Yet, this isn’t as strong as you see it with the conjunction and opposition. There is an easy way to help maintain a healthy balance through the intuitive and emotional qualities. You can do this by finding someone you trust to help you navigate when things get overwhelming.
Square 90° ~ 3°
The square aspect is another level of emotional toil. Whereas the opposition tends to be more outwards effects, the square between these two looks more inside. This pairing shows a strong impatience. Pluto wants control over other people, and the people that they have invited into their lives. It works with the moon's desire to have people close to them, but in a way that lashes out negatively. Especially when someone tries to assert authority, or tries to input their own opinion.
Sextile 60° ~ 2°
There’s an aspect surrounding the sextile relationship between the Moon and Pluto that is hard to ignore. There's a deep emotional take that happens here, that becomes transformative. It creates an optimistic side of life that everything happens for a reason. While you may seem more detached than other moon places, it's something that is deeply craved and needed. The love and comfort gained from a relationship is what helps transform the planets to bring forward intuitive properties.
Wrap Up: Relationships - Understanding Charts: Lesson Three (Moon) Pt. 4
That brings us to the end of learning about the different aspects compared with the Moon. The Moon at the end of the day is what controls our deepest emotions. It guides our feelings through the places and things we interacting with on the day to day. So when you add another relationship with a planet to become apart of that, those feelings can become clearer. Or even more convoluted. If you have any of these more challenging aspects, my advice to you is to take a deep breath. Sit back- and then find someone you can trust to speak about any of the conflicts that you have. If you find yourself, overwhelmed there's no reason to suffer through it.
It's important to remember that the planets are not the end all be all of things and that if you truly are having troubles emotionally, medical professionals are there for you if you are having issues beyond taking a deep breath. To be anxious always, or to feel like you have lost the motive for life is beyond the planets. Therapists, and doctors can go places and do things for you that the planets just can't. So if you are truly struggling, please go to where you can get the most help. Keep getting the nourishment that your garden needs to thrive.
Happy monday, stay groovy, and I'll catch you on the flip,
