I’m bored and gay so here’s some reasons why I love my boyfriend
Before we moved in together, when I would have bad flare up days he would massage me with lavender lotion until I fell asleep (which would take less than 10 minutes) and when I was asleep, he’d help me out by cleaning the kitchen and doing the dishes for me ❤️
One time during a really bad flare up, I hadn’t showered for a few days since I was so physically exhausted and in pain. So he carried me into the bathroom, ran me a hot bath, and washed my hair for me while I rested my head on the side of the bathtub
Is the only person who’s earned the trust of our shyest child alter to the point that she’ll have basic conversations with him (she usually doesn’t speak more than a few single word sentences, if at all)
One time when I had a really shitty day (I was a nervous wreck all day and ended up having a seizure on the CTA because of it), he stopped at Target after work to get me a care package with kettle and buttered microwave popcorn, a candle, some turtle chocolates, and some new towels to replace the ones that my sister stole from me.
For our 11 month anniversary, he took me to Olive Garden and an arcade afterwards. He paid extra money so I could be able to get a Rilakkuma arcade card (idk what they’re called) and get a couple Rilakkuma cups that come with it if u pay like $100 in tokens. We ended up getting enough tickets to get a cute little apple frog plush that was hella caked up
Is helping me to get my GED
Makes sure to text me good night before bed every night we’re apart. In return, I kiss him good morning every time I wake up next to him
Helped me move out of my sister’s place and go no/low contact with my family
Helped me learn to become comfortable with intimacy again after my assaults in 2022
On days I don’t have the spoons to run errands, he’ll do them for me.
Let’s me know how much he loves me and reassures me when I need it most
Is incredibly patient
Wants to teach 6-12th math so he can be the cool queer teacher that he wishes he had in high school
Wants to help me learn math since I have dyscalculia and it’s what I struggle most with
For my birthday, he wanted to try and replicate one of my favorite photos of us with legos (he hasn’t finished it yet but that’s okay cause I know building complicated stuff with legos take a long ass time)
Has seen me at my worst and still thinks I’m a bad bitch
Lets me chew on his fingers if I need to stim
Is helping me become a better person
I love my BF!!!!!!!!!!
