tips for dealing with panic and anxiety attacks
okay, i have to start this off by saying that i am in no way medically trained in dealing with anxiety/panic attacks. i am not a medical professional. i am a high school student who has been dealing with anxiety and depression for a long time and i have developed some methods of coping that work for me. this is just what helps me, and i hope that something from this list can help you in some way.
this one isn’t possible for everyone, especially if you’re having an attack at a time where you aren’t with your therapist. i get that. however, if you are showing symptoms of a panic disorder, i would highly encourage you to talk to a professional about it. they can help so much better than a random stranger on the internet. a lot of schools have counselors, and i would recommend talking to them. they can help a lot.
this also isn’t always possible. it’s always an option, and a good one to have. make sure that friend knows that you might call them, though, or shoot them a text. i’ve found that calling a friend can sometimes be the only way for me to recover from a panic attack. sometimes i need to be talked through it, and that’s okay. i’m very grateful for my friends who help me out when i’m not okay.
3. focus on your breathing
this one sounds a lot more simple than it is, i know. it’s really hard to focus on your breathing when you’re panicking, but try your best. sometimes i need to turn on a metronome (can you tell i’m a band kid? haha) and breathe while i count. i’ll usually start at a higher tempo, and take it down as i begin to control my breathing. i count in for four, hold for two, then release for another four. if i’m panicking too much to hold my breath, i’ll simply hold for four counts then release for another four counts. if i’m on the phone with a friend, sometimes i’ll ask them to count for me or breathe with me. this is probably what helps me the most.
focus on your senses. i like to find three things i can feel (ex. someone’s hand on mine, my clothing, my phone, etc.), three things i can smell (ex. a candle, the grass, food cooking, etc.), three things i can hear (ex. my cats playing, people talking, instruments playing, etc.), three things i can see (ex. my hands, the sky, the grass, etc.), and three emotions/feelings (usually nausea, fear, my chest tightening, etc.). this helps bring me back to reality.
5. use apps on your phone
there are a lot of good meditation apps or apps that generally help you get over panic attacks. one that i like to use is called “calm”. if you don’t want to use an app, there are also videos on youtube that do the same thing. i recommend them mostly for when you feel like you’re going to have a panic attack, but aren’t having one yet.
6. think of something that makes you happy
for me, this is often my cats or my friends. it’s also marching, my plans for the future, and my relationships with the people around me. it’s the things that make life worth living.
i really hope that this post was able to help in any way. i highly encourage you to talk to a professional to help develop strategies that help with your anxiety/panic attacks. thanks for reading!