#personal limits

[queerbutstillhere]

Refusing to do a specific type of physical work because you know your body cannot handle it is not laziness or weakness.

It's self-care and wisdom.

[anignorantfool]

I don't judge what other people ship, I'm not here for cancel culture or cringe culture. There are things that I personally can not get into myself, though.

• underage. characters must be consenting adults unless the focus of the story is abuse and the influence it had on the minor in question and written from an angle of being morally wrong.

• adultery. Hughes is happily married, I don't want to see a bunch of fics about him secretly running off to be with Roy or anything like that. Again, exceptions for open relationship/poly situations.

There's more but those are the first two super obvious that come to mind.

[theoneratio]

Personal freedom is freedom from the person. Therefore, it is not available for any person. Relinquish your individuality and stop identifying yourself with things and adjectives.

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[michaelkimballintegrativepsyc]

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[finnothehimbo]

Things I require of my company #001

(With improved boundaries and personal limits)

You don’t get to “jokingly” bully me ESPECIALLY about how I intrinsically function my value and competency and what brings me joy

[blog-tie-up-ends]

Why common courtesy is important and why is important people to know what environment they are going in

If you don't now why this is imprortant let me lay to you the facts:

I personally have social anxiety and rejection sensitive dishoria ( google it.)

And next to all, that also means, that I'm extremely careful, because I need to be, when interacting with my environment.

I try to avoid triggering places, because I Can slip into anxiety attack , panic attack and ect. And believe me it's horrible.

Writing fiction was supposed to be fun and safe place.

And with safe, I mean, a place where I could voice my opinion freely, of course not being rude on purpose.

Which it WAS NOT.

I needed counseling because I got PTDS symptoms which were interfering with my life. I became depressed, and I'm not diagnosed with depression.

But there are people who are.

Therefore this is me, doing my part.

I'll abstain from mentioning personal names. However, I want you to be aware that that behaviour may be harmful, very harmful to people.

Because nowadays people don't even care about common courtesy.

-- BEFORE READING ANYTHING ON THIS BLOG READ MY *MY RULES FOR MY ONLINE CONDUCT * I ALWAYS follow them to the letter.

There is NO hate in NONE of the posts on this blog.

I love detailed observations which means long posts

If you are EASILY offended by sarcasm, observations, cynysm and correct data - please move along. I DON'T OFFER OFFENSE HERE.

But I do offer my observations.

[kayelynne]

Do not limit your challenges.

Challenge your limits.