To my fellow plus size/fat proselfshippers...
If you're anything like me, you've probably wondered if your F/O would be attracted to your body type. Well, I'm here to say: yes, they are!
I'm sorry people have ever made you feel like your body, your existence, is a "preference" that gets to be filtered out, simply because people refuse to work on getting rid of their own prejudices and bigotry. You and your body are worthy of love, don't let anyone else try and convince you otherwise
Your F/O loves your body!
They love every curve, nook and shape! You're like a hand sculpted work of art of their very own, personal deity of love and joy. It doesn't matter if you don't feel like certain features could "look better" or be in "better" places, your F/O sees you for the perfect, amazing being that you are
They love how you feel, in their arms, their lap, holding their hand, kissing them, all of it! Your body isn't an obstacle or an inconvenience, it's a direct connection that they get to have, to experience your love in a physical, tactile way. Every touch, sensation, pressure and weight, it all feels just perfect for them, because it's all a part of you
They love the things other people demean. The way they're surrounded by warmth when they lean their head near your double chin or folds, the way you look like the visual equivalent of a gracious melody whenever you walk and your body sways along, the way each part of you is unique and gorgeously fitting of your figure and shape... There's not a single strand of hair on you that doesn't make your F/O utterly mesmerized
But your F/O also loves...
Your smile and the laughter that accompanies it. Truth be told, it's their favorite sound in the whole wide world, getting to see you so very happy and excited never fails to make their heart swirl and dance around in their chest. It brightens up their day every single time, like they're getting to see and hear it for the first time all over again
Your personality and quirks, everything that brings you together so seamlessly! They could spend days, weeks, months, years- just listening to you talk about every little thing that gets your eyes sparkling with joy and hope. All the details that only they get to notice as you two live through your days together, it's almost magical for them to witness
The way you love them, sincere and fitting. You always know exactly what they need, and you're always there to help them feel heard, seen and cared for. How could they ever not extend you the same treatment? It's their pleasure to reciprocate even a fraction of all the love and adoration that you make them feel with each passing day
You. Your F/O loves you exactly as you are, as you have been and as you'll become, inside and out. Their love and adoration for you goes so much further beyond just your body, size and appearance, so rest assured that you will always be cherished and treasured, for as long as you'll have them!