One thing I have noticed is social media has like a...cult thing about being positive. Pictures and GIFs of basic things with a quote stuck on top...some say they were quoted by buddha or ghandi and if you do research you find that they aren't! Crazy how social media warps reality... Crazier that people have allowed this! Don't get me wrong it is good to be a positive person as there is ENOUGH negativity for bullshit reasons...but...who are we to define what positivity is? Everyone has different ideas as to what positivity is and we dont have to follow their example but you shouldnt also diminish someones ideas just because you think its wrong! For example: I believe that you get negative people - people who are just poison in human form. The kind that should be avoided. I believe that you get positive people - people who are lovely, kind and yet will have moments of bad actions. It doesnt define them though. People do negative actions with good intentions. An example of a positive person having a shitty moment. That is natural! If it is natural, in my eyes, then it is positive. Because you are being simply human :) Negative people are... well, like narcissists and sociopaths. To me, A person who does wrong but doesnt see this in their actions, a person who never apologises is not only a true negative person but a dangerous one! I have been friends with a group where at first I thought they were positive. Good people. After seeing the dynamics of this group I realised I was wrong. It was so messed up...so much negativity it started to affect me. They made me extremely paranoid, scared to be myself, always on edge...basically the shittiest a person could feel. Trigger alot of PTSD things for me. Anyway I will disguss that in another blog... Anywho, this group has had atleast 3 members tell me how to be positive, how i should and shouldnt be, told me off and given me shit for being myself, told me who I should be friends with...I mean - does that sound positive to you? These were messages that I always received randomly from them. 2016 I was a enheightened, paranoid, terrified version of myself because of this. Positive people dont do that. People like that think they are being helpful when they are not. That is disgusting. Why I dont take seriously anything that comes from them - its for show... Go & be a positive person in your way. Dont let anyone tell you you're doing it wrong 🍑🌈