#radblur

[stagtomboy]

If you don't love me at my he/they, you don't deserve me at my adult human female

[stagtomboy]

Transwomen should have lost all credibility the moment they uttered "theyfab". They take a break from pretending to be female to acknowlage their maleness and your femaleness to remind you that they have power over you that you will never identify out of.

"Theyfab" means you fell for your own hype and forgot your place. It's a peek behind the curtain of what they really think.

The insulting part of "theyfab" is "female".

[stagtomboy]

Good morning gyns. I hope any transmasc reading this has a good day. I hope every detrans, desisted and reidentified woman reading this has a good day. Thanks for holding on until now. You're all priceless.

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i am a cryptofem, and oh, your bio hit hard HARD. i basically turned into a radfem because i spent days and days hate reading radblr posts... and well... turns out my belief system DID fell apart. thank you and all of other radfems for spreading the word!

Hell yeah, I'm glad! I hope you find something useful on my blog if you choose to stay. Sometimes I am tempted to change my bio, but I feel like it covers the main thing, you know? I think we should all remain curious and willing to think things through.

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Men are posting the type of shit that would get you called a terf if posted by a "cis" woman about female genitals. And you guessed it, it's a TIM. So if you feel like you're being annoying about vulvas... Get more annoying! ASAP!

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"Contemporary feminist debates over the meanings of gender lead time and again to a certain sense of trouble, as if the indeterminacy of gender might eventually culminate in the failure of feminism." Judith Butler, Gender Troubles

Maybe this is a self fulfilling prophecy, maybe it's her own fault for opening the door to "queer theory", but it's kinda funny/sad and very ironic that the book basically starts with "feminists think the inability to define woman will damage feminism (as if that would happen lol)"

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People saying shit like this to childless women need to get a fucking grip. No you didn't become the adult who harmed you because you're not interacting with children you're committing thoughtcrimes of being mean online.

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re: why trans women want to be called "biologically female"

two things:

1. autogynephilia and related transvestic fetishes relegate the female to subordinate status, thus marking it as a form of masochism. masochistic does not mean submissive, benign or non-predatory; it means they get off on humiliating and/or hurting themselves...especially nonconsensually.

2. forcing unbelieving women into playing along with this fetish while they openly engage in public acts of exposure & voyeurism, both forms of sexual humiliation, is the entire goddamned point.

the object of their attraction is women's DISGUST. analyze everything with this in mind and their seemingly disorganized and nonsensical rhetoric snaps into clarity.

they're not coming at this from the perspective of an oppressed minority in dire need of civil rights. these are not "trans women" as history knows them. they are not effeminate gay men trying to get by. they are misappropriating the image of the classic transsexual to further their own ends. trying to analyze their behavior according to this template inevitably results in crazy-making.

they refuse gender neutral restrooms, third gender sports teams and trans-only prisons because the point of their movement is not to abolish gender minorities' bathroom leash, earn the right to participate in sports and ensure their human rights while incarcerated. none of these people are poor enough to face incarceration for anything but getting caught with child pornography.

they can't allow for "biological female" as a class to exist without themselves as a part of it, because this would shred the obfuscation as to who really has privilege over who, here.

this is why they insist they're a marginalized subset of bio woman--if they were a marginalized subset of males, they could not accuse us of "cis privilege" when we reject their bullshit. their MALE privilege would be made obvious.

forget about "trans rights" in relation to literally any talking point espoused by big guns filthy rich Susan Stryker autogynephiles & their sycophants.

the point of their movement is to sexually humiliate themselves around women who cannot escape.

and they are BIG BIG MAD women aren't letting them have it

I think these observations are really interesting. I have to admit I myself have not looked too deeply into the theory of autogynephilia. From my experience I wouldn't say the vast majority of TIMs are autogynephilic, while I obviously don't know their internal lives, left of center politics or autism appear to play a bigger role. But then again transgender identity is very linked with escapism and TIMs often have many escapism-based fetishes (mostly pet play, but I'd also say free use, incest and dom/sub are based around escapism) so what do I know.

That being said, I can totally see people astroturfing the trans movement being autogynephilies. It makes sense why they'd put so much energy into shutting down women instead of protecting and improving lives for their community. If this is the case then obviously fetishists will influence the culture in the community and the conversations being had, so it causes other TIMs to be their flying monkeys and probably influences some of them to develop a myriad of fetishes as well. In the end a TIM who doesn't get off on it gets postmodernismed into believing he is truly female and saying otherwise is genocide.

I never thought of it that way, so thank you for your imput anon. The community and it's many issues are very complex, but it's worth looking into if you spend any amount of time talking about the trans movement or interacting with trans people.