#reblogs allowed

[nerdwhoauthorinserts]

F/O x Selfshipper with vocal stims

Your F/O(s) loves your vocal stims. All the time, everywhere, no matter what.

Repeating what they said? They love it. It lets them know that you were really listening to them. Making animal sounds? Random noises? Random words? They love it! When they hear it, they're reminded of you, how much you love them, and it lets them know you're nearby. Singing? They love your singing voice, if they could hear you sing for hours, they would.

They love every single stim, every sound, all of it, all the time. If anyone tries to make you feel bad about your vocal stimming, they'll throw hands. They love you, including your stims, even if you think they're annoying or frustrating. Your F/O(s) don't see it that way at all.

Your F/O(s) adores you. Not in spite of your stims, but because of them - because they're part of you. Your F/O(s) wouldn't change them, or you, for the world.

[goatgirleyes]

LIFE SKILLS TO DO LIST (update)

[update note: to be honest, i think im beginning to make some progress on all of it.]

how to cry

how to get attention

how to babble

how to crawl

how to walk

how to talk

how to panic

how to play

how to smile

TO DO: how to be normal

how to move my fingers good

how to solve basic problems

what letters are

how to read

how to love learning

what a consequence is

how to entertain self when alone

what a stranger is

why i dont get to wear the pretty dresses

TO DO: how to make friends

how to wash hair

TO DO: how to go outside

(N/A IMPOSSIBLE) how to get santa to make me a girl

how to brush teeth

(N/A IMPOSSIBLE) how to make mommy proud

TO DO: how to smile "for real"

TO DO: how to invite someone over

(N/A IMPOSSIBLE) how to be a good kid

how to lie

TO DO: who am i?

(N/A IMPOSSIBLE) how to stop feeling so scared

how to feel real

(N/A IMPOSSIBLE) how to be the best person i can be

how to wash hair but like in a way that doesn't suck

what a video game is

how to use google

how to stop crying

TO DO: how to be 12

how to get people to talk to you

what a bully is

TO DO: how to get them all to stop

how to read a lot

how to shave

how to say what's going on [update note: took a while to check this one off lmao]

TO DO: how to do homework

how to read comics

how to make it all stop even just for a single moment

how to go to sleep on time

TO DO: how to maintain literally any routine

how to pretend to be normal

how to get other people to play with me

how to get truly lost in a good book

TO DO: how to be honest

how to play magic the gathering

TO DO: how to get them all to stop hating me so fucking much

how to boil water

how to stop feeling things

how to cook pasta

how to talk to a therapist

how to be someone else

how to earn a little money

how to choose my own name

TO DO: how to never feel lonely

how to just get LOTS of attention

(N/A IMPOSSIBLE) how to save everyone

TO DO: how to be me

TO DO: how to go to sleep on a normal time

how to bake a potato

how to be a girl

how to make a sauce

how to feel things again

(N/A IMPOSSIBLE) how to make the world a better place all on my own

how to be 18

how to eat food regularly

how to drink water regularly

TO DO: how to do self care reliably

TO DO: how to like myself

how to shave but like get rid of the little black stuff

how to be someone else (reprise)

TO DO: how to earn enough money to support myself

how to fry chicken

how to cook rice

how to make food taste better (IMPORTANT)

how to transition

TO DO: how to feel love

(N/A IMPOSSIBLE) how to be myself again

TO DO: how to be 24

(N/A IMPOSSIBLE) how to lock the fuck in

TO DO: how to stop relying on everyone else all the fucking time

how to use duckduckgo

TO DO: how to set boundaries

how to bake cookies

how to play board games with friends

TO DO: how to deal with all the attention

how to bake lasagna

TO DO: how to bake pizza

(N/A IMPOSSIBLE) how to be truly happy

how to want to be myself

TO DO: how to not need to shave anymore

how to very briefly have a friend

[fandomtrashfox]

Helluva Boss feels like Viviziepop watched Bojack Horseman, and instead of coming away from it realizing Bojack was a shit person who needed to change and didn't 'deserve' to be forgiven by the people he hurt, she instead went: "Man, this show is so mean to the main character... I know! I'll make a show of my own with a Bojack, but he gets forgiven by everyone, never sees real consequences for his toxicity, and is in a grossly romanticized abusive gay relationship! :D"

[fishydishes]

WHAT WHAH WHAG WHAT WHATTTGGH AU

I think this is positive— yeah, im working on an au! While I work on designing other characters, have a few extra Scouts :)

(W/o backpack bc im lazy, but i did the cap)

[opinionatedscreamsintothevoid]

Part of feminism is recognizing that media effects reality, btw. Part of being an LGBT ally is recognizing media effects reality, btw. Part of being a disability/neurodivergence ally is recognizing media effects reality, btw.

The way things are represented in media is important to public reception and society's view upon it - whether it's mainstream media or a small creator - the influence matters, even if it doesn't feel like it directly impacts anything.

Bad representation of minorities plays a large part in bigotry toward them, abusive dynamics being romanticized in media makes it easier to overlook red flags, sexual assault being normalized in media makes it easier to shrug off. (Need I remind everyone the idea of: "men always want it" is still very prevalent in media and real life?)

That's not even mentioning how porn, specifically, has influenced people's perceptions of intersex people, in particular.

Media affects people's perceptions, it affects how people see the world or think about what happens around them. It's just sociology. Desensitizing, or worse, normalizing abuse or sexual assault, will only lead to bad outcomes, even if it's coming from a fictional story. This is seen easily in the wake of Fifty Shades of Grey coming out. Subconscious is affected, which can dictate our actions in some capacity. That's why it's also important to analyze our subconscious biases.

That's why you can't make racist caricatures in cartoons and media anymore. That's why it's frowned upon to make bad representations of LGBT people. That's why movies like Sia's "Music" are so damaging. That's why even internet personalities who make comics or drawings that glorify nazism end up reported and dog-piled on. Making content that romanticizes, glorifies, or sexualizes toxic ideas and concepts is making propaganda for those toxic ideas and concepts, even if that isn't your intention, even if you're just a "Small creator".

If enough "Small creators" start doing something, it'll start spreading. That's how trends start, after all.

As they say: "The road to hell is paved with good intentions." Even if you don't mean to hurt people, if you make propaganda, even if it's fictional, even if it's not your intention, you will hurt people, you're just not hurting them directly.

[wemmbuusn1fan]

PEOPLE ON TIKTOK ARE ACTUALLY SO WEIRD ABT BOUNDARY BREAKERS HOLYY

Warning for threats,, the last image is reallly insane

Soo. You're gonna call boundary breakers weird then tell them to harm themselves and hang themselves? You're gonna call them a waste of space and try to ship them together to "prove a point" ?

I'm disgusted, especially by the last comment.

[bee8467]

Showed my platonic boyfriend a comic wip about derealization and they called me siffrin core fuck my stupid baka life