i am in a relationship & i do tend to get a little jealous when she forgets our about conversation and goes to talk to other people and replies with one word every twenty minutes.. i know its bad and unreasonable and unjust to her but i cant help it. ive been badly hurt in the past by someone and im really clingy. ive talked to her about it and she still continues doing this even though she knows how i feel.. any advice? please and thank you (im sorry its so long) btw nice blog you seem dank lol
it’s funny that you ask me this because I’ve kinda been in this position before. not the position you’re in, but the other way around. there could be a number of thingsfor me I was going through a really hard and busy time in my life and I didn’t want to bother my s/o by talking about itit could also be that they aren’t very emotionally present. I experienced some this as well, I didn’t how to feel about what was going on in my life most of the time and the way I coped with that is that I tried not to feel anything at all (not healthy I know)it also could be that they’re exhausted and simply don’t have the energy to talk. it’s nothing against you or anyone for that matter. it’s just that socializing can take a lot of energy that some people just don’t have at the timeI think it’s great that you’re open about your feelings but you just need to give them some time more than likely. this is something that is really hard to work through and I’m not sure I’m the best person to come to for advice because, for me, things didn’t end up working out. but I’m hoping that you two can come together and try to help and support each other the best you can. good luck!!
