younger seme/older uke pairings in BL AKA
I love romances that mess with power dynamics and in BL having the younger boy pursue the older one is a classic take on this.
2 Moons 2 - MingKit (side dishes)
Brothers - KhunKaow (side dishes)
Don’t Say No - LeonPob (side dishes)
You’re My Sky - SaenAii (side dishes)
HIStory 4: Close to You - Yong Jie & Xing Si (side dishes, trigger warning)
History 3: Make Our Days Count - Bo Xiang & Zhi Gang (side dishes) also HIStory 4: Close to You (guest)
Cherry Magic - Tsuge & Minato side diehse
Old Fashion Cupcake - Togawa & Nozue
In no particular order and not an exhaustive list.
I have to say, putting this list together surprised me. There are fewer of these in BL than in origin yaoi. It was such a common trope back in the day, and it’s crazy we haven’t gotten any from Japan... yet. (And no, for a change, I don’t count Seven Days - I don’t think that show has a real seme/uke dynamic, although the manga does.)
One of the things I love about an age-flipped dynamic is that the younger seme is often forced to tease, flirt, and be indirect in his pursuit - he can’t really wage a full frontal campaign (so to speak). He has to be a little subtle.
Also this means that, for narrative reasons, these are often sunshine/tsundere pairings. (With some noted exceptions of course.)
In Thailand in particular this also throws a wrench into the linguistics, since the language around age is codified unequal. So here’s a post where I talk about that: Thai Pronouns & Honorifics when Seme/Uke is Flipped
Some other BLs that contain couples that are age flipped but for various reasons it’s not quiet the same:
Oh! My Boarding House - the second lead of the love triangle
China has never done this pairing, to my knowledge. And it’s really rare in Korean BL (but outside of a school setting, so is seme/uke). The hyung strictures are so strong there. I actually would LOVE a BL that confronted this dynamic head on from Korea, but I think maybe that would be a bit too much for them right now. Perhaps next year?
In a similar vein, I also love noona romances, I have a list with some of my favorites here.
Post updated as of March 2022. This post now dated and discussion moved to here.
BLs With Age Gaps - Hyung Romances
Younger Gay Identifying Elder Gay as MINE