#self shippers

[retrojem]

Happy International Asexuality Day!! Shoutout to all of my self-shippers on the asexual spectrum!!! 💜✨

[susanoos-wife]

Daily affirmation: Your favorite fictional guy would totally like you if he was real and if you're desperately and passionately in love with him, he'd be desperately and passionately in love with you too.

[puppieskiss]

✦ f/o who doesn't care if you're apathetic🍯

✦ they won't get upset or mad at you if you don't show emotions 🌱

✦ f/o who choose for you every time you say 'I don't care' , you choose' , 'it doesn't matter to me'🌻

✦ they don't force you to choose, don't yell at you, and don't tell you how annoying you are. 'cause they love you 🧩

[jessica-fitzgerald]

You are NOT ‘high maintenance’ for your f/o

You do NOT have too much emotional baggage for your f/o

Your f/o is NOT with you out of a mere obligation

You are NOT unattractive to your f/o

You are NOT a burden on your f/o

You ARE, however:

Enough for your f/o

Beautiful/Handsome to your f/o

Perfect for your f/o

The whole world to your f/o

Your f/o’s motivation for everything

A comforting person that makes your f/o’s day better

A beacon of hope to your f/o

[varganardi-moved]

Based on a true story

They literally only have eyes for you hellooo??

Your f/o loves you btw, they told me. <3

💕🦋💕🦋💕🦋

[Pro-ships DNI - To the person that "borrowed this meme - I saw that. Make your own memes sweetie x]

[tex-treasures]

Hey. this blog is archived but I have more followers on this one than my new one so here I am with another psa to the Selfship Community.

So, real quick, if you post selfship art you got from a comm, regardless of where you got it from, please for the love and respect of the actual artist who drew it for you, don't be ambiguous about the fact you didn't draw it and that you got a comm. Credit the artist openly. Say the artist's url name in your post. Do NOT just use some cutesy emoji with a link back to the artist's page ESPECIALLY if you are posting their art without their watermark attached to it.

Artists deserve recognition for their work and many artists need it to spread their work to supplement their income. Heck. Some artists rely completely on their comm work for their income.

It's really skeevy seeing selfshippers refusing to openly acknowledge that the art they're posting isn't something they drew. I get it's your blog space yadda yadda yadda but when you pay or even just request that someone to draw for you, you don't get to use that defense to justify omitting the fact someone out there that ain't you made that for you.

Also just be soooo for real why wouldn't you be excited and happy to clearly state who the artist is? Why wouldn't you wanna link their blog or their website? Why? Real talk. There ain't no reason not to.

Anyway. Back to my Hermit hole that is my new blog 🖖🏽

[selfship-help]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH TO OUR FELLOW LGBTQ+ SELFSHIPPERS!

shoutout to all BIPOC queer selfshippers, you are the backbone of this community (both the selfshipping and the lgbtq+ community) and we are beyond grateful and lucky to have you here with us!

shoutout to all xenic / xenine and contradictory queer selfshippers - your identity being complex, "confusing" or "strange" is burdening no one and your f/os will always respect you and your identity, no matter how "odd" it may seem!

shoutout to queer selfshippers who headcanon their f/os as transgender and/or queer, even if it differs to canon! your f/os are incredibly happy to be able to trust you so much with this transition in identity!

shotuout to aroallo selfshippers, transhet selfshippers, and otherwise queer selfshippers that are treated like they "don't belong" - you always deserve a space in our community, and your f/os will always have your back and stand up for you!

shoutout to the ally selfshippers with queer f/os - your f/os are beyond grateful and happy to have your support, and know you always have their back with their identity!

shoutout to all queer selfshippers - whether you're open, closeted, questioning or sure; you all are amazing and your f/os love you so so much <3

PROSHIP DNI! div credit