Fact is, most people writing for aang now just do it bc he has more obvious muscles. They don't really give a damn about his culture or his personality.
Do I think he can be a bit pervy? Yeah, he's still human
Do I think he'd be aggressive or alpha during intimacy? No, he wouldn't be. He's gentle and very respectful. That's his nature. If his partner would want to try something more "mean" in bed, he'd definitely talk to them about why they want that and about how he feels about it.
He's the cutest and most respectful man in my opinion. Anyone who thinks he "matured" into suddenly being super sadistic and possessive is weird












