#stupid stepdad

[megankoumori]

My stepdad is an idiot. I'd like to make that clear for anyone who doesn't follow my blog on the regular before I proceed.

Years and years ago, before he moved out and before this stupid pandemic, my family would dine at the local Chinese buffet. The staff were all young Asians in their late teens/early twenties. Cracker Barrel, having all the intelligence and social decorum of a thirteen year old who's been kicked in the brain by a horse, thought it was hilarious to say things like "OOH BEEF ANDAH BROCREE!!!" and "ONE DOLLAH MAKE YOU HOLLAH!!!"

PotatoGod, who was around ten, and I found this mortifying. We'd beg Cracker Barrel not to do his Chinese impression, especially not where the waiters could hear him, because it was racist. To this we got a lecture about "it's just a joke" and "we need to lighten up." And the next time we went to Buffet, he'd do it again.

My stepdad is an idiot.

[wowimfine]

backstory: my mom filed for divorce back on Monday, packed his stuff, and put it out in the hallway (well, later she and her friend took it to where my stepdad is currently staying). So basically, my stepdad is now homeless, crashing at other people's places, and drinking away, what an idiot :D (why do I call him stepdad instead of his name? Obviously, I'm not going to leak his name. Pff, right now I asked my mom exactly when she filed for divorce and packed his things, and she told me not to tell anyone. I'm just thinking—who here would even care anyway? Plus, we don't have any acquaintances on here)

What a day. I was just minding my own business, quietly drawing, when my mom came into the room and said, 'Get dressed, let's go to the store' (we had actually planned to go). Anyway, we were already walking back home. We entered our apartment building, and my stepdad was sitting there in the hallway, completely drunk. I screamed from surprise. Mom and I ran to the next-door apartment, which happened to belong to my mom's acquaintance. Without even thinking, my mom just opened the door and went inside, and I followed, and then we locked ourselves in. My stepdad was already banging on the acquaintance's apartment door, while the acquaintance was talking to my mom about something. I was just standing in the living room. After a while, my mom and my stepdad started screaming insults at each other. They bickered back and forth, and then he finally left. We drank some tea and then went back home. What a nightmare, honestly :/

[wowimfine]

MY STEPFATHER IS SO INCREDIBLY STUPID. I was sitting in the kitchen, wanting to write a post about Russian people, make myself some green tea and eat my diet chips. Then my stepfather comes up and asks 'What did you even eat today?' I stayed silent, because if I tell him I had bread and tea, he’ll say it’s not food. But it is food, it's filling, and bread has carbs and other nutrients; you don't need more than that. Then he asks 'What are you writing?' I stayed silent and he actually gets offended, like 'Oh, look at the poor little boy, the grown girl hurt his feelings 🥺🥺 boo hoo.' He starts yelling that he's really leaving tomorrow just because I stayed silent. Is it not obvious that I'm not in the mood to talk to him?! Ha, and then he says 'I only wish everyone happiness,' it's so stupid! He's the one getting my mom drunk knowing she feels bad from too much alcohol (my mom is sick right now and not going to work only because she was filled with vodka again). Plus he said I don't appreciate kindness, but I appreciate it more than he does! I just need a proper way of communicating, not this circus. I hate this family, I'm not in their brainless clan, I am separate from them. I don't consider anyone in this family my mom, stepfather, brother, or sister; they are all enemies and traitors to me. I'm in total shock from them.

(Ahem, I remember my friend told me to vent in DMs, but I said in my pinned post that I would be sharing my life, which is why I write so much about what's happening. I'd like to vent, but only for that? No.. I'm not the kind of person who only reaches out when it's beneficial to vent.)

[megankoumori]

As a teenager, one of Cracker Barrel's favorite ways to demean me was, after I said something, was to say, "Where did you hear that?" It didn't matter where I heard it. No matter what I said, Internet, school, read it in a book, Cracker Barrel would smirk his most punchable, shit eating smirk, and say "Well you can't believe everything you..." Fill in the blank. Usually "Read" but it could be modified to however he wanted to cut me down.

It's 2021. Cracker Barrel still believes Hillary Clinton murdered people. Why?

[trixclibrarian]

just because I can’t convince you

my understanding of life is correct

it does not mean that I am

somehow obligated

to submit

to yours

[taraknowlesroleplays-blog]

I'mma go lay down and watch OITNB until dinner cause sad.

[nerd-downunder]

The car comes at 9:30. I am fully packed, showered, my room is clean. Why the fuck do I have to wake up at am -_-

[imsheezusbitch]

Lol my stepdad has literally been home for five minutes and he's already rampaging like a freaking tyrant. He yelled at me because I am running up the electric bull by turning the thermostat from 73 to 72, and because I splattered a drop of ramen on the stove. lol wut