#sub-bts-smut

[sugar-petals]

idk if it's common but i'm queer and i had a while when i questioned my attraction to men bc i felt like so much of being attracted to men was about liking the masculine, dominant man while i just didn't fit into the picture of the submissive woman. and it was so freeing to realize it doesn't have to be like that. but also through that i realized i have prejudices against men who for ex are muscular bc id think if they look the part they must be the part which is unfair.

your thoughts are going into the right direction imo. attraction to an ideal doesn’t equal the real deal sometimes, especially when you’re not heterosexual, and most importantly: a certain visual VS sexual behavior can be miles apart.

where the bias comes from: if you ask me, women have made the association of muscles = dom more than male doms themselves 😅 among the younger ones, they treat it as an aesthetic or self-improvement/health/image thing rather than the sign of a master in particular. what makes a real dom remains intent and skill. being strong as hell you need in fewer bdsm disciplines than you think, it’s a huge irony.

a certain baseline strength is good and needed, standard rough sex or punishment 101, but even in bondage where gravity indeed is sometimes at play (think creating a suspension), what you need first is good memory and diligence. there’s no reason other than visual to be jacked when all you do is complicated knots. if you’re a passionate rigger, you don’t have time to work out in the first place 😂 

that being built makes a difference, you really have to be into the hardcore things that take a lot of money, maintenance, experience, and vanilla inclinations, believe it or not. the freakier brands of male doms of any sexual orientation often rather resort to dress codes to signify something instead. us dommes are no different 😄 the actual mega ripped macho guys are usually far away from being your certified dominant (even if they claim it) with ten thousand kinks and a play room, did you notice? 

my arguably bold hypothesis is that they don’t need much more to ‘gain’ power while someone who becomes involved in bdsm is not the bodily type to do so — hence they use other means. they’re into the minutiae, the details. meaning tools: say, restraints do the job for you. 

using a cane multiplies even a small impetus. you see the appeal. some guy walking around like a unit doesn’t need kink unless they are of course way into the sex toy side for its own sake. but you get the principle. you’re too kinky to bother with lots of gym time. that’s why most dommes don’t walk around like xena the warrior princess either 😂 we do like swords though

meanwhile, subby guys with masculine appeal or muscle are quite a thing, they should be. as i always say: unless you’re a gentle domme, pragmatically speaking it’s better if your sub is reasonably sturdy. mind you, the opposite is also very juicy and just as preferrable (how else would the fandom coo at yoongi all day 🐱), but you get the logic.

if he’s working out, he wants to be appealing to you in a way, too. ripped guys and submission are not mutually exclusive, nor are they a threat to your dominance (unless they’re abusive). example: look at jungkook being the most popular bts member in the femdom community lmao! like, this guy out of all possibilities. it’s hilarious.

and it’s not wrong to be attracted to that, nor is it wrong not to like it vice versa. the personality and subbiness will shine through anyways if you’re really getting into the person 😁 hope that clears things up.

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sub!bts x dom!reader writings. all consensual, femdom-centric, explicit. enjoy! ♥ ↳ ao3 | rec | © | writing tips | sub!bts net 

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domestic sex

reaction to breath play

bts as your vampire boyfriends

you give them flowers

[MASTERPOST] sub!bts a-z series (smut alphabet)

reaction to chastity

favorite pegging positions

reacting to your high sex drive

they call you goddess

their orgasm faces

where they love to kiss you

maknae line: their balls slapping against your clit

sub!bts— their kinks (list)

dresses and skirts they look best in

explaining the meaning behind bts’ harnesses

their scents

dauntless (m) | mermen!ot7 x reader au

baby cheeks/weight gain appreciation

they call you mommy

they insist you’re beautiful

dirty talk with them

boarding school sub training imagine

deepthroat x male dom!reader

would you rather game

where to kiss them

romance with you

facefucked w/ a strap-on

using a glass dildo on them

you catch them getting off

you shave them

being your little spoon

bts as your butlers

using a fucking machine on them 

they’re shocked how dominant you are

his domme is busy, he wants her attention

how bts would eat you out

you find out they’re submissive

you like pet play

their favorite kinky clothing

their favorite ways to turn you on

fake love — a sub!bts concept

you call them good boy

what music bts would choose for sex?

body/breast worship

blowjob with teeth

massaging you

slave/masochist boyfriends snaps

you’re their tall girlfriend/idol mentor

vampire au: you’re craving their blood

pegging — they break the bed

reader feeling insecure about her body

complimenting bts in french / dirty talk

accidentally turning you on

fingering you

you’re getting loud in bed | crack

putting them to sleep after a long day

their motivations to be submissive

tackling their insecurities

you want them to sit on your lap

bts receiving punishment

you’re anxious

whispering dirty things at the dinner table

pegging them

jealous bts

bts are insecure about losing their abs

bts as the 7 deadly sins

you ask them to sub

giving bts hickeys

they hug you

you’re on your period

bts as mermen

how masochistic are they?

bts cooking for you

cuddling

favorite places to have sex

xmas eve sex

how do they sound like in bed?

foreplay with them

bts as submissive boyfriends

♡ jungkook    

call of nature (m) | camping au sublime (m) | merman au — sequel: dauntless (m) my neighbor with the bloody laundry (m) | vampire au electric lovers (m) | android au ft. tae, jk, myg the scaffolding | painter au pump jack (m) | desert au ft. myg baby goodnight (m) | domestic au sloppy savvy (m) | domestic au ft. myg

bondage with him

maknae line reaction: dom to sub

he’s insecure about his lips

biting kink / pegging scenario

kissing sub!jk

maknae line safewords scenario

comforting the busan & daegu line

sub!maknae line: favorite sex positions

tae & jk as maids

♡ taehyung

electric lovers (m) | android au with tae, jjk, yg | pt 2 cornflower blue (m) | farming au my word to treat you well (m) | prince!tae au playfight (m) | stuck in a blizzard au tease you well (m) | vintage au colonized (m) | domestic au bleeding hearts & happy days (m) | escort au ft. bbh

his choking kink (picture)

maknae line reaction: dom to sub

tae’s puppy kink

pet play / he comes too early

kissing sub!tae

maknae line safewords scenario

comforting the busan & daegu line

sub!maknae line: favorite sex positions

th & jk as your maids

♡ yoongi 

fuckin’ wembley (m) | hotel sex au snowdrop (m) | domestic au trophy boyfriend (m) | secretary au sloppy savvy (m) | domestic au ft. jjk pump jack (m) | desert au ft. jjk electric lovers (m) | android au ft th, jk, yg streaks of fuchsia (m) | baby girl yoongi au repeat (m) | domestic au baptized (m) | domestic au ft. jm

feeling small/showing insecurities + noona kink

who he submits to 

about yoongi saying “i’m yours”

the two ways yoongi flirts

yg, d/s, and the korean age hierarchy

you dress for halloween

underground tattoo artist yg

caning him

yg likes tough women & macho men

hyung line reaction: top to sub

[MASTERPOST] oral writings with myg

studio sex with yg

sub!hyung line kinks

comforting the busan & daegu line

kissing sub!yoongi

cuddling with him

♡  hoseok

second year’s pains (m) | anniversary au

fairy coffee shop au

hyung line impact play series masterpost

when would he not be vocal?

flogging/butt plug scenario

hyung line reaction: top to sub

kissing sub!hoseok

sub!hyung line kinks

♡  jimin

boss witch (m) | sorcery apprentice!jimin au — 2 | 3 | 4 cygnet & cinder (m/r) | bavarian au: prince!jm stunna [r] | domestic au how to kiss a man from venus (m) | alien!jm au simulacrum of dawn (m) | incubus!jm au potions and reverie (m) | husband!jm au baptized (m) | domestic au ft. yoongi awards with a twist (m) | idol au

burlesque dancer!jm ft. dita von teese

making jack-o-lanterns with him

vampire au moodboards 

sub!jm moodboard

maknae line reaction: dom to sub

kissing sub!jm

maknae line safewords scenario

comforting the busan & daegu line

sub!maknae line: favorite sex positions

♡  seokjin 

choking gold (m) | pornstar au

trick or treat halloween imagine 

hyung line impact play series masterpost

paddling/handcuffs/roleplay scenario

lip appreciation post

hyung line reaction: top to sub

eatjin meets pegjin

kissing sub!jin

sub!hyung line kinks

♡  namjoon

fuckup trucker (m) | winter vacation au doc on a date (m) | venice au on the rocks (m) | husband!rm au

hyung line impact play series masterpost

spanking scenario

more sub!rm

lip appreciation

hyung line reaction: top to sub

meme proof: rm is a screamer

kissing sub!rm

submissive hyung line kinks

sub!rm

mtl mlist

rude boy (m) | sub!tom holland student au

femdom resources

‘kink’ vs ‘fetish’

fantasizing about bts: disrespectful?

— [quiz] who’s your matching sub in bts? — [quiz] what type of domme are you? — [quiz] which bts member is your baby boy?

thank you for reading, love you to bits ❤️- caro 🐅 © 2017-2019 submissive-bangtan. all rights reserved. 

[sugar-petals]

having trouble figuring out my kibbe type. my shoulders and bone structure are quite broad and muscular, and my hips aren't wide (they're proportionate-a little on the small side), but i'm rather fat and busty with a large chest and a big belly and huge, muscular thighs with little fat on them. normal body type wise, i'm closest to an apple or inverse triangle (kind of round/apple and triangle combined). facial features wise, i look much younger and have round eyes. what would that make me?

case sounds clear, we’re talking natural type all the way. soft or flamboyant is possible, but N is your main category for sure. because: naturals are defined by a strong, bulky shoulder/thigh area and smaller hips, and being quite a presence in general. blunt yang comes with bold, sweeping size, and weight gain is at the center of the body, hence the apple/triangle shape. aly art has explained this well:

the face being youthful and rounded points to yin (soft natural again, alongside being busty which is also a strong yin indicator) and how kibbe describes naturals as the friendliest/approachable, most “boy or girl next door” essence. dramatics look intimidating and mature, gamines quirky small and boyish, classics even, romantics sexy, and naturals are wide and sweet in the face.

example: you can see the entire principle with lucas (flamboyant natural). broad and extremely noticeable shoulders, hips neglegible by comparison, powerful thighs, youthful face with doe eyes. wide, rounded lines. 

you can double check this with yourself, see how many sharp angles you find. if some, flamboyant (e.g. see lucas’ arms), if none at all, soft natural. i’m thinking you’re the latter or pure natural since you didn’t mention much about height, flamboyant naturals usually say they’re pretty tall in the first sentence. as soon as the chest area adds to the shoulder prominence, we have added yin at play.

[sugar-petals]

ik u only really do kpop typings but what kibbe type do u think timothee chalamet is

i've always thought of him as an (underweight) theatrical romantic but a lot of people online said flamboyant gamine

i agree with flamboyant gamine. hence he’s so angrogynous and unusual in his appearance and can pull off daring fashion, FG is the type that mixes all lines the most (think hoseok, g-dragon) and adds the lankiness of a dramatic on a shorter scale. 

timothee ticks of all the boxes: appears petite, angular/taut, youthful (not sensual/soft = romantic) essence, no prominant waistline area. bone structure i.e. yang is what you see first. guess why his jawline is so widely discussed. even with theatrical romantic, you’ll rather see their chubbiness or curve instead. 

if timothee walks past you, what you notice is the short vertical line — created by the proportion of the head — and the narrowness of the limbs. he appears underweight when his clothes aren’t fitted = telltale sharp yang in a gamine sign.

a theatrical romantic wouldn’t get away with this (mixed patterns, square glasses, trainers):

[sugar-petals]

I can confirm gentle and people who don’t scream when mad are hard to find 🥺

sad thing, the bar is far too low. you really have to watch for just how many red flags nowadays. i hope there are some intelligent minds out there realizing how to break from the generation cycle and what their anger points at. neglected needs, relational incompatibilites. this is not easy but a must for our time. the problem is a much bigger, deeper rage and discontent, but starting small still helps. i think the question to always ask is, what would namjoon do.

[sugar-petals]

So Namjoon was live and nobody asked about their birth time??? We gotta do better people!! 😭😭😭😭

damn, yeah he’s the one who probably knows. it might work on weverse, ask whenever you can 👍

[sugar-petals]

Hey Caro, I hope you're doing well 💌 I've read your last reply about dominance and how the draconic chart may show it and I'm surprised!! I've "discovered" like 2/3 years ago that I was a dom. I like to have the power, the upper hand and all the attention on me. Many friends jokingly called me Himedere. I've taken a look immediately at my draconic chart and I'm fire dominant with 5 planets in a fire sign with Leo mars, Aries Lilith and Aries Eros. You was right! Thank you Sweetie for existing♥️

interesting how it matches up, that’s a lot of fire with leo at the center. himedere is precisely the term my goodness 😂 theory: if you have draconic placements in sagittarius, you’re a kamidere, even one step above leo. leo is the king/queen/prince/princess-like dominant, sagittarius is the literal god or goddess. aries, the warrior.