holy shit WHY WOULD YOU--
like, I wish I were lying in bed wondering, "How can this fucking happen?" but since I am old for trees and also Jewish, I am extremely aware of how pervasive antisemitism is.
So like, I CAN, in fact, believe I have to say this:
If you think that the Jewish shtetls and ghetttoes of the sixteenth century thru WWI in Poland et al are the place to set your fanfic so that you can write a quirky or charming arranged marriage AU about your faves, you are WRONG.
If you think that trying to nod to the history of those shtetls and the arranged marriages that happened by explaining that it was "Jewish tradition" is okay or correct, you are WRONG.
If you think that calling it "forced marriage" and making it seem like something Jewish people did to torture their kids is okay or historically accurate, you are WRONG.
I get that it seems like literally every part of history is a painful part of history for Jewish people - and you're right! Don't set your fanfic in concentration camps! (Yes, that was a thing.) Don't set your fanfic in a shtetl! It's not funny! It's not cute!
Yes, I waited until after sundown to write this because I refused to post about this on shabbat. MY FUCKING GOODNESS.