#tdahbposting

[friendlyhostile]

ive been doomscrolling for a while so i needed to step-back and do a positivity post for men :]

i love you men

i love you cis men

i love you trans men

i love you man-adjacent people

i love you intersex men

i love you nonbinary men

i love you masc-alligned people

i love you men who are in someway aligned or identify with femininity and woman/girlhood

i love you gender fuckery men

i love you disabled men

i love you abled men

i love you mentally ill men

i love you neurotypical men

i love you fat men

i love you skinny men

i love you chubby men

i love you medium sized men

i love you men with stretch marks

i love you men with scars

i love you men with freckles

i love you men with acne

i love you men with eyebags

i love you men with wrinkles

i love you men with hairy bodies

i love you men with little or no hair

i love you bald and balding men

i love you men with long hair

i love you men with short hair

i love you men with medium hair

i love you short men

i love you tall men

i love you average height men

i love you insecure men

i love you confident men

i love you men who are inbetween insecure and confident

i love you men who struggle with internal misogyny and/or misandry

i love you men who are finally comfortable in their skin

i love you men who are learning to love themselves

i love you men who slowly deprogramming internalized self hatred

i love you men who havent started their journey of self love yet

i love you men who are/have something i didnt mention

i love you men

and i will always love you!!!!!!

THIS POST IS FOR MEN- ANY AND ALL MEN

ily :]

[friendlyhostile]

i love being a man

i love being man adjacent

i love being a man who is connected to girlhood

i love being seen as a man

i love the idea of having a full beard

i love the idea of having a flat chest

i love the idea of having a deep voice

i love the idea of being a father

i love the idea of being a husband

i love the idea of going on testosterone

i love the fact that one day i will get all those things

i love the fact that even though i am not where i want to be in my transition, i am still a man

i am a man

and i love being one

i love loving men and i love being a man who loves men

there is nothing wrong with loving being a man or loving loving men

im hopelessly full of joy and pride and love for men and for my own male identity everytime i go online and see myself addressed as such, or every time my sister calls me her brother, or everytime my mom mentions im going to be an uncle, or whenever my brother brings me into doing inherently men related tasks in my household

and nothing will stop me from spreading that joy

manhood and masculinity are experiences that can be, should be, and are full of joy and love and positivity

i love being a man, and i love loving men

dont derail this post or reblog it changing what i said. this post is about men. nothing you say or do will change the fact that this post is about being a man and loving men!

[friendlyhostile]

it hurts going online and trying to find ways to help yourself with your pd and just seeing a bunch of articles talking about how to help other people deal with YOU how to starve YOU of your needs how to ignore YOU

i just want to find ways to help myself and voice my needs properly with my npd and hpd, but all i am getting is page after page of how to deal with people like me. how to make people like me have a narc drop. how to ignore people like me. how to change people like me. how to get rid of people like me.

what about me helping me? why do people think we are incapable of change? we can be self aware. we can want to change. we can want to help ourselves. we arent bad people for having a disorder.

[friendlyhostile]

good morning to everyone but this person

reminder that: - all systems are valid - self diagnosis is valid - no diagnosis is valid - all origins are valid - you&. are. valid. fake claim us all you want, because we are in the spot now where we are past hating ourselves for being plural. but we dont let you target others who are just trying to find themselves. be on the look out, yall. i dont care if you are anti-endo, pro-endo, endo neutral, whatever. syscourse or no syscourse, nobody deserves to be fake-claimed. be safe

[friendlyhostile]

happy 11th birthday to the first episode of hannibal TV, and happy early hannibal themed birthday to me!

thank you to my mom for being so awesome and getting me my awesomer yaoi cake in the only flavor i will ever eat- red velvet :]

and thank you mom, and all my friends, for dealing with me yelling about hannibal for the last year!

im happy to still be on this earth, and im gonna be happier being back in my hometown for my birthday and for the birth of my niece!

woohoo!

[friendlyhostile]

Yeah I wanna fuck that man covered in blood too

id buy a pants store if it meant he would get in mine

[friendlyhostile]

please spam me with boobs. bless.

[friendlyhostile]

im a good person im a good person im a good person i know i was bad but im good now im so much better ive grown ive changed ive learned im learning please im learning im learning please dont leave me dont replace me with someone who hates me you already have why wont you let me be with you you said you love me forever and i am your best friend in the whole world its recorded on the buildabear we traded please please please im sorry what did i do ill change ill change everything just please dont leave me not you please god not you you are all i have left i need you i need you dont leave me i cant live without you